True love waits
By aceabrea
@aceabrea (184)
September 28, 2011 10:33pm CST
why do most of us rush when it comes to falling in love and at the end of the day, it might not be true to all, but we easily fall out of love. is this the reason of so many broken marriages? because of rushing and not waiting for the right time to come?
5 responses
@Sheerah (12)
• Philippines
9 Oct 11
I agree with you. We should not rush on things like love. True love waits. We should not be impatient of waiting for or "THE ONE". Because of rushing things up, we end up making wrong decisions and settling for wrong partners. Love is a long journey that every person should enjoy and value. Likewise, marriage is above all significant for a couple. It is sacred and divine. It is the proof of eternal love that binds a couple for a life time. :)
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
9 Oct 11
Definitely, you are right sheerah.. As has been said with other girls out there, there are still a lot of fishes in the sea. In life, there are still lot of things to think of. We must learn how to set our priorities. Instead of finding the right person for us, it is better if we'll concentrate on becoming one. So, hold on to what you know what is right. And good luck for your journey in finding your "THE ONE".
@aceabrea (184)
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10 Oct 11
I agree with both of you guys. If we're looking for true love there's no need to rush for it will come in the right time. We have to concentrate first with our priorities like education and work. Life has much to offer, much things to experience and to enjoy. Who knows along the road we might bump to that someone that could be our partner for life.
God has great plans for us and all we need is just to obey. For His plans is not to harm us but to prosper us.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
i agree. Sometime early marriage come becoz the girl get pregnant.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I think being friends should be the first option before moving a head in to a relationship. People often make that mistake and rush in to a relationship and end up getting hurt. I say friends first because most of the time friendship grows in to deep feelings. It's better than rushing in to a relationship where you don't know much about the person.
@imaica (10)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
True Love waits!! you just remind me of my high school days when we had our discussion about this aceabrea.. =) anyway in my own point of view, i believe that true love waits. It is very crucial that both of you should be ready before falling yourself into it. Getting married is not an easy situation to rush for. There are many things you have to consider and to be ready before getting married.
As what i have observed, there are many cases now of broken families and unwanted pregnancies. The youth of today's generation seem to forget of giving importance to there actions. would you also consider this to be their parents fault for not guiding their children?
@aceabrea (184)
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29 Sep 11
it could be true, because parents should act as a model to their children. but the problem is if they themselves have been guilty with rushing and not waiting. i always believe that love is a process. of learning things together, adjusting, respect, building trust and plans, and creating a stronger foundation that's worth to be proud till the time that black hairs turned to gray.
@abreacristina (12)
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29 Sep 11
i agree with that, most of the teens today had taken for granted this important thins and does not know the exact mening of love. they equated love to making love. and that spoils its true meaning. its sad but true.
