What to do if the one whom you love the most, is ignoring you ?

Well I've been on the opposite end. I met a girl many years back, and we were good friends. Then I figured something out, and realized that this girl was interested in me. She wanted to be something more. So I backed off, and started to not talk to her as much. I did this on purpose, because I was not interested in her. Still not interested her now. We're not close friends anymore. We're friends, but not close. She got married to someone else, and I'm very happy for her. So...... It's possible that the reason she isn't talking to you is because she isn't interested. Perhaps you should move on.

I would wonder What kind of emails are you sending and why no phone calls? It sounds like you have done something to make her not feel comfortable. It seems like her feelings have changed for you for some reason. I would wonder what this reason is. Are you going to tell her your feelings?

Hi Manoj i think those sign try to tell you that she is not having the same feeling with you. try to face it with brave heart. we can't push someone to love us right? so it is better that you try to forget her

I am sorry to hear this and am sure you are not feeling good about it. No one likes to be ignored and if she only was sincere and told you how she felt the path to letting go would be easier. Maybe I can suggest you send her a sincere email and explain that you are wondering why she is not responding. Explain to her that even friendship is enough for you. But keep in mind she may not respond, but at least this will give you an idea if she simply is not interested and or maybe just not wanting any type of commitment right now. Either way it will not be easy to get over her, but at least you will not be left with what happened and then the time itself will help you to move on and mend.

hello friend, this is what exactly what happen to my friend. .she has a guy friend whom she chat and text for almost 5 months, they even go out together. .my friend started to fall in love with this guy. .but now my friend started to avoid the guy because as what she said the more she keep on communicating with the guy the more she felt the pain . . as for me maybe, you talk to the girl and tell her what you felt. if she accept you or not just no regrets at least you tell your feelings to her. . Good luck. .:)

If she is not answering your emails or phonecalls it's clear to me. She is not interested in you. Why can be for different reasons. Might be she needs time for herself, she found someone else, she finds you annoying/is getting tired of always talking to you about the same. So stop asking and bothering her (for her it's bother). A no is a no you have to accept that. If she really is the one for you that will show sooner or later. Personally I can't stand a guy who keeps asking and following, emailing and calling me. It gives you a very bad mood if he doesn't give you space to think, do your own things and breath. It sounds to me you are way to focused on her and you missed many hints she gave you. It's seldom from one day to an other that someone doesn't answering your e-mail/phonecalls etc anymore. So ask yourself how your real last conversation/chat was ending. How she respond. The fact you say you never told her about your feelings doesn't mean she doesn't know it. Women do understand hints, they know how men behave if they have such feelings and that asking out for a lunch or dinner is not just a relaxing lunch or dinner with just a friend. I do believe you missed her hints and did not look at her body language (which said I don't want you or stay away from me). If she says she is not free it means she doesn't want to go out with you because she has a reason for that (might be someone else, might be because she doesn't like you, might be because it's a hint she doesn't want a relationship with you). My advice: leave her alone and go on with your life.

i think the worst is to feel neglected. to feel that you are never important to someone and that someone is te one you love. one way love is never easy, its never going to grow and you will always be on the losing side. If you are being ignored, i take it that you are not interesting enough for the person, or maybe that person has already found someone else...

You can’t force yourself to stop loving someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better & try to move on and also the more you hide your feelings, the more it shows .. the more you deny your feelings, the more it grows . What ever is happening to your love, relax and time will tell if she has a change of heart. This is the nature of love. You need a storehouse of patience to win her back.

This will surely hurts me. I will try to know the reason why he is ignoring me. I will try to understand him for whatever reason as long it is a valid one. But,if he is ignoring me because he doesn't love me anymore and he is avoiding me.. I guess i need to think about it and have to decide no matter how painful it is.

I guess she was really clueless about your intentions to her. During the times that you still have conversations with her, did you ever try to tell things that would makes her think that you like her? There must be a reason why she suddenly ignored you...maybe she was waiting for you to profess your love for her or she has found a new love. Manojkrs291, I'm just making an assumptions. I'm a girl and based on your story if I'm seeing a guy for 4 months and continuously have conversations with him, the first thing I would ask myself is..."Does this guy likes me or he just sees me as a friend?" I wanna know his intentions. When you get a chance to talk to her, just be honest with what you feel for her.

"If you love somebody, set them free." Be her best friend. Being her best friend, you naturally want her to be with the guy who's best for her. You HOPE that's you, but--if not--you either want to find out how to change for her or want to find a better guy for her. We'll talk about that, and we'll see what you should do.

hi manoj I think the girl might know your feelig towards her and she is not interested in you in that manner that,s why she stared to ignore you. But to solve this doubt go forward and say " I love you" gently. Wait for her reply

just take it easy.It's simple . Maybe he/she doesn't care for you .If so , you'd better wish him/her best wish or you can try your best to persuade the person.Maybe he/she has some problems bothering him/her.So you should make sure what's the matter first if you really care

Make up your mind and tell her exactly how you feel. Women are not mind-readers, we just keep guessing and guessing. And I think you just became so used with your situation not realizing that maybe that gal is already expecting something. Tell her, maybe she's just waiting for you to make a move. And if she doesn't like you or loves another man now, then that would be fine. At least you did what you had to do. Tell her, man! You can do it! :D Good luck.

i think she knows your feelings towards her and she don't want to give you hope about you two being together.. It is of the way for girls to say no for you to look for others and able to love someone who could love you in return.. Let the cold war pass.. give it weeks or a month and talk to her about it.. so that you could understand what she feels for you.. and she in return has the courage to tell it to you... because sometimes, girls would just ignore the person if she feels that it is a little painful than saying it face-to-face..

hi manojkrs291! face the truth. She doesn't like you. Remember the truth is always ugly and it hurts. At least she didn't let you wait for long and let you expect that she feels the same towards you. Move on and be happy! :)