Wifey not sharing her discussions
By sinawaliboy
@sinawaliboy (271)
Philippines
September 29, 2011 1:30am CST
My wife is also a mylotter but does not want to share her discussions with me. She does not want me to reply to her discussions. It just makes me sad. =(
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Sep 11
Ask her the reason she does not want you to participate in them, and if she says she just wants to have her own space here then explain to her why you feel you can contribute to them.
Maybe she just wants to have her own little grouping since the both of you do all the sharing of everything else at home. I think it is okay, although you can still read them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Sep 11
Why should you reply on her discussions? I assume she already knows your opinion unless you two never talk to eachother.
Give her some space and the opportunity to change thoughts with other people just like you are doing too. There is nothing wrong with that and you two will only have more to think and talk about.
That is nothing to be sad about.
@singuri (571)
• India
29 Sep 11
Never get upset with this type of situations. I can suggest is that when she is not interested in sharing or having discussions try out to know the reason why she was doing so, it might be due to some fear or lack of interest. W hen we come to know the main reason in that we can make the things very easy.So better first try to understand her feelings and make her a comfort with you That makes a good sharing between both of you[em]happy[/e.m].
@mandze (13)
• United States
29 Sep 11
It makes sense. You're in her life 24/7, talk to her all the time, etc. She just wants a place that's her own. A place where she can talk about anything and not worry about you getting mad or upset over something small she just wanted to get off her chest.
Don't worry about it, just let her have her bit of space and don't make a big deal about anything. :]
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
29 Sep 11
Its just a happy thing that ur wife also a mylotter. But why she didnt wants and not allowing u to reply for her discussions. As i think she want to keep secret of her mylot earnings. But dont feel sad just give her good tips how to earn more so that she can love u and share everything what she do in mylot.
@thirdyballs (73)
•
29 Sep 11
I agree to some of the responses here.
Not sharing my discussions with you doesn't mean that I don't love you.
Don't be sad.
This is just for my own privacy, where I can express whatever I want.
I know that even you, have your own privacy.