Why love does make you crazy and make you blind?
@markthaniel1407 (58)
Philippines
September 29, 2011 4:22am CST
There is nothing wrong to be in love. I know love exist among us and you will never realized it until you finally found someone. It's like a flower that is waiting the right time to be blooming. Love does affects your life permanently and does changes everything including your characters.
I just wonder and thinking sometimes love can make you foolish. Love can make you blind even though you are actually see the person that does not deserve your love.
There are situations when you don't agree with the result of your actions about loving to someone. You had gave everything you could just to make a person happy. You feel in vain when all your efforts and hard works does not affects and make a person changes in fact does not give the attention you need. You know already you don't see the presents of love towards you in return. Instead, you let yourself to be hurt and suffer the consequences and the worse thing happen to you the person could leave you alone with broken hearted. You know the fact it is against the law of GOD and country. And yet you still want to stay with that person.
Now I want to know why do you love a person that has already married, categorized you as mistress and take the advantages of your weaknesses? why do you love a person who is in love with someone else but not you? Why? Why? Why you let your life be miserable by this thing called "LOVE"?
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@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
LOVE makes you turn into a person you usually are not. In love smart person becomes the silliest while weak person become the strongest. Most of the people who are in love are called crazy, right? I think because they aren't in there right senses. they already cant distinguish whats right and wrong. They are just too fascinated by their feelings without minding if their actions are still right. People just love, is it wrong to love?
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@markthaniel1407 (58)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
I don't think it is wrong to be in love. You only needs to control with your emotions and think rational in certain situation. indeed if you feel inspired I know you can be as someone else if you believe you have what it takes. Actually people becomes unwise and irrational when you let yourself be affected by your feelings. That's why sometimes people think you are crazy because you don't aware what you're doing is right or wrong... Now do prefer love controls over you even though you know it will hurts you in the end?
@lipikataneja10 (18)
• India
1 Oct 11
love is very beautiful.....according 2 me.every single person shld fall in love....
whn u start loving sumbody..u really dn knw wat is gud or wat is bad 4 u...u juz love dat person madly.....u nly want 2 be wid dat person .......love has no end
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Love indeed can drive us crazy and do things that we never think we can.
I knew it and I did few things that is beyond imagination in the name of love.
I always give my best when I fall in love and never think of the consequences..I just follow what my heart beat.
I am not good with handling myself when it comes to love...all I want is to love that person no matter what it takes.
@markthaniel1407 (58)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
You know what jaiho2009 I admired the passion of your true love. I know you are the happiest person in the world if only your dream guy would come true and give you the love you deserve in return. By then you will not suffer and feel any more pains it causes when love fails you... We all wishing to have the right person in our lives and hoping it chooses you. Unfortunately, people are created not perfect and may commit mistakes several times. I know for sure the love you cared about is in vain even how hard you try when one of you give up easily in which fails to supports each other. Whatever the results affects you so much and you may have difficult times to recover it. You know what the important things in life is you learn from your mistakes. Simply you have the improvements on how you will decide to do with your life in the future. Learn new things which adds to your experiences where you are aware and never return to that same mistakes again. And lastly to love again and again. Now do you still want to try that love again even if it hurts you again?
@lipikataneja10 (18)
• India
1 Oct 11
same wid me..i also give ma best n love dat person madly/........
i m married nw n i really really love ma husband a lot lot.......i dn knw wat he has.he has sumthng or nt......is it his cuteness or watever..i really dn knw.but i love him so much dat i can do nythng for him 2 ny extent.......i also follow wat my heart says,,no matter wat others say......
@zsarhea (302)
• Austria
29 Sep 11
First love isnt blind,it sees but it doesnt mind hehe.Most of us got hurt coz love comes at the wrong time or we love a wrong person ( married or doesnt love us back) its.Most of the time we blame love but in reality love shouldnt be blame at all,its the person,us.You cant chose who to love,you feel it.So even people doesnt love us back we continue to love them without asking in return or even if we know we will just get hurt.And lastly,even if we find reason why we love someone if you really think of it,theres no really reason,its always been unknown :)Happy mylotting :)
@lipikataneja10 (18)
• India
1 Oct 11
u r right ..........but love happens.....n i also believe love at first site/......it juz happens....it is blind n deaf also....
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Love itself does not make you blind or crazy or something. Love is a feeling. It is the person choice that makes her or him crazy or go blind for something. It is all about the person choice that resulted to its action. It is not love. Well that is for me. Spread the love my friend.
@LoliRuri23 (251)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
I remembered in college, this was brought up and we discussed it in one of our psychology classes. Our prof said "true love is never blind, and loving is a decision".
There are actually stages in a relationship. First is the romance stage where fun and attraction plays a big part, and then a few months later, you'll begin to see past the attraction and more of the person,you will now see flaws of the person (actually, you already know these flaws, but in stage one, you just didn't mind). Then you start thinking if you are still in love, because the "fun" has subsided and more often than not you annoy each other and fight. And this is where relationships tend to get sour.
If you get past this, and decided to stick with the person. then that's when Love starts...
That is why they say Love is not a feeling. Because feelings subsides and stops.
But when you decide to love someone, then you will stay with that person no matter what.
And with this being said, you also have to make sure that when you do decide to love, it should be with someone who treats you right. =)
@teachjona (1)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
Love is very powerful. Love comes from God and He wanted us to love one another. When we love someone, respect comes along with it. When we do love someone, we should always make it a point that that certain person to whom we say "I Love You" is really happy with or without you by his/her side--that he/she has a peace of mind.
We usually hear the line "Love is blind." For me, it is not. It is just that, people get too obsessed to their man/woman. When the person that we chose to love is already taken, why not love yourself more and learn how to respect others? Always keep in mind that, it is not just you who have experienced being hurt, or rejected. There are a lot of people in this whole wild world who has experienced a worst situation.
Let us realize how our heavenly Father have loved us--by that, we will also learn how to love others according to His will.
For those who have gone wild or crazy because of love, do not be deceived by what you call happiness--because, not all things that makes you happy is the best for you.
