A married life?

Yup! aceabrea, you need to have an stable jobs and have savings to avoid any financial problem in the future. Money is one of the source of couple being separated or divorce. Because many women today are materialistic. Since you have money or stable enough to support your needs. No need for you to ask for more with your future husband and there is no other problem to be arise in that particular portion of couples... It maybe a problem but it's small thing which is easily resolve. But money is not easy to resolve... Money is not a problem in a relationship if most of the women is not being materialistic. If most of the women understand life is not always for money. The relationship is wall by fence of rock that even the storm of problem will not let it destroy... But we can't avoid that most women is materialistic and need to support their needs.

You're absolutely right aerous. Well that would be a great problem if a man is married to materialistic girl. So the first thing we should consider then is choosing the right person and dumping the wrong ones. ha ha ha. I can never imagine being with someone that is so materialistic. I' doing all the work and then she's doing all the harvest, no way! ha ha ha.

Thanks aerous for sharing this things to me. It all seems important and needs to be considered before entering marriage. So i need to be founded first with my job and create a stable earning which my future family could depend on. I'm still young and i guess considering those things that you shared i'm not yet prepared to get into a married life.

We have different perspectives in life there are those who wanted to marry for reasons that they love that someone and to have company. Others also wanted to get married to start a family and rear children. But in any of this the important thing i guess is to maintain a relationship that's worth respecting. And that can only be achieved when you maintain trust and being faithful with one another.

I'm not sure what that as to do with what I said.

I know it takes a ton of patience specially when a relationship is bombarded with problems. And to have it is not that easy, it requires a lot more heart to give. I'm hoping i could that and not just blow up situations. Even if you love that person, time will come that problems will try to destroy that love and its up to us either to fight or flight.

Thanks a lot singuri for the idea. It's true that we can't operate important things without money and i know how important to get a stable job first before getting married. I really have to prioritize things and not just rush situations. I am hoping I could find a stable job sooner and build a better future.

I guess i'm nearing to that situation, though i love the thought of marriage and family and children still i am so afraid to venture on it. I can't tell if i could provide all my family's needs. I just wanted that if i'll be on such situation there would be no regrets. I wanted to have the best for my future family. I know that's the hope of every happy parents in the world.

Thanks a lot for the feedback Judy890. I am hoping that if i got to make such decision God would be there to guide me. Because marriage is not something that could be done and undone easily. If i have to marry someone i want that someone to be with me for the rest of my life.