Everybody hates me in class... :(

Chill, those people won't matter after school is finished. When school's done, you'll look be able to look back at your successes not your downfalls. You've got a bright future ahead of you, just need to make the best of it. I use to be the girl nobody ever wanted to talk to back in high school or ever picked to be on a team or listens to.. Always the last one when it came to sports at school... But things has changed for me when that's all over and done with. I got offered a leadership role in an anime community that people enjoy having my company there. Everyone listens, and I was able to go through dramatic transformation to be my actual self again. In high school I changed so some people would accept me... but the truth is... I was only lying to myself. :( Don't worry, if they're annoyed by you just try to ignore it... It's not about you all the time the could be annoyed with something else. Not you, unless it's a daily thing. You can report them for bullying you if they say thing behind your back and whatnot. But keep your head up high, don't let others bring you down! You're important others who love you very much.

So, Anonima, did the crying make you think they don't hate you? ;-) You are perfect, Anonima. That does not depend on what anybody else thinks or doesn't think, or what you think they think or don't think. You are perfect, just like a rock is a rock and a tree is a tree and a car a car. Know what I mean? It's just a fact that you're perfect. Nothing anybody can change about it, not even you.

Chances are you'll be world-famous in the future: rejection by the masses often leads to increased individuality and original thinking. Be proud of being different. What other people think doesn't matter (as long as you're not wearing nappies on your head or something else equally bizarre). They're all wrong, anyway. I can guarantee you that ALL the people who hated me at school are worse off than me now. Perhaps not financially (cos I'm poor as heck) but in life in general. I'm a lot happier than all those little automatons who were so concerned with being cool and part of the in-crowd.

that's part bullying. to be disliked by a majority can come from something, that is, there must be a reason. but most likely, they're all selfish reasons and being judgmental. some of these groups have no valid reason at all for disliking a particular person. maybe trying to assess one's self can help but one must not do it for these people but for himself, ALONE. if there has to be a reason to better one's self, it is for the reason of improving one's self and attain self-satisfaction, or attain the goal one has set to himself, and not to satisfy these people. i was born to a poor family and was not popular in high school. i am not 'in' at that time, and i was not oblivious of what is happening around. probably because i really didn't care what other people think of me. i believed ever since that no one can help me more but myself. so, do not be discouraged. as some others would say, what goes around, comes around. cheers!

That is really horrid of those people doing that.You would think that they are mature and that they would accept anyone.Just try to ignore them if you can and just get your head down and work hard.Dont let people like this upset you, as they are not worth your tears.

Why? There must be a reason why? Did you fight with anybody? I think my class had kind of a similar situation like ours... he wasn't really hated though, n one likes him because he "fought" with one of our friends and then some people gave him the silent treatment, others just made fun of him- but he was a tough guy..I still remained friends with him though. I hope your situation gets btter.

I know how it feels. When I was in high school, mostly in all my class periods everyone, especially the girls hated me. When I used to be in sport teams in PE with the guys and girls, the girls snarled when they were the one who had to deal me being in their teams. Also in group activities (in class), where they told us to be in teams where the teacher had picked the teams and I was the only guy in my team and every girl made a face, were disrespectful to me, and to after knowing my disability (from the principal) about having trouble understanding, all of them just left me hanging not knowing what to do. It hurt. This happen because of a rumor that was said since I was in elementary school about me hurting a more disabled kid than me but I was playing with him (he was my friend) and it was followed all the way to high school (I had schoolmates who went to elementary, jr high, to high school). He and I even told everyone it wasn't me hurting him. Anyways, in jr high I was called "scar head, retard, etc" and being slap/hit in my head (where I had my scar that caused my trouble from understanding) and like what said above, I also went..well with tears on the way home (had to be strong cause I am a guy lol) and had to let it out (as its bad holding it in) when I was in my room. Thanking god, everyone usually the girls (all the guys were cool with me since the beginning) apologized to me. Long story huh..hehe..gulp.

I don't think that everybody would hate you, it's just that people don't tend to like change which means that they are much more likely to want to work with people who they have worked with in the past. You should try to get to know some people who are in your classes by maybe chatting to them at lunchtime or outside of college, and they would be much more likely to be happy to have you in their group once you are able to do this. Nobody will hate you if there is no reason for them to, so please don't worry about this.

htis might not like the solution you are for but here goes do u feel like u have to focus keep you from focusing on what you need to be doing right now .being the best you can be with skills you have in school and using school to make those skills better .there will be a time in the near future when you will look backon this moment and be happy with your accomplishment and be moving on with your sharpened skills.or look back and see how you have wasted the short time you have had to make better person of yourself academically .i do rememberhow it was when i was 14 and at the time only thing that seemed important was what was going on at time .i missed a lot of chance to do things and learn skills that i regret missing today.

i was never mrs popular in any of my classes either i never made friends easily and i was always different from other kids from kindergarden until i graduated high school i was the loner i was often by myself i had aquaintences but not any real friends it hurt because i know i missesd out on alot but eventually i got used to it and thats how i still am today i remember especially in gym class everyone hated it when the teacher picked teams for us because i always got left out so i always liked it when the teacher put us in teams

I understand it can hurt a lot...but did you try to find out the reason for their behavior. My cousin faced the same problem. During an examination she had informed the invigilator that couple of girls were copying. The two girls were the types who bully everyone. They threatened everyone in the class to boycott my cousin and out of fear they did so for nearly 7 months. But, she was fine with it as she did not fear to stand up against the wrong doers. So, try and find out the reason behind their prejudice; it might prove to be the solution. There is an inspiring Bengali song by the famous poet Rabindranath Tagore - Jodi tor dak sune keo na ase tobe ekla cholo re. It means - if one stands by you then you need not lose courage; you need to go on.

oohh..come...i would like to hug you... i ever in your place...feel lonely...have no one to talk...and do all homework alone..but no no...i dont want you become like me...you should be more achievements...if you feel lonely and cant do anything...discard feelings of sadness...and use your time to study more...people give huge apreaciate for smart student...be the best...when you be more be more smart...not only people..your parents will be prouds..your teachers..and make your self feel hapier....so you dont have worry for your friends ignoring you..... keep on cheer :D

oh boy there seems to be a problem in you... try confront yourself, ask yourself. What seems to be lacking, what have you done to make them mad, or try to fix your outer look. that's the advice i can give you.