When arguments ruin your day

theresaaiza yes one but i am not going to keep it going at all. if this user wants to snipe at me she can go straight ahead as I am not paying any attention anymore to what she does.I have shaken it off so she will never upset me and make me lose a discussion again. fighting is for school kids not adults here.I am not going into what happened as I just want it to be shut and forgotten by all. I want to keep having fun here and do it peacefully so no more problems at all.

Hello theresaaize,Don't worry my friend you're not the only person that had this kind of experience, because I had several kind of experience in the past. I can't recall when was the last but to be honest, it ain't worth of my time as i have more discussions to reply upon. but sometimes i feel that we need to give respect since it's their right to express their thoughts. and if they are a bit violent, i just report them

All the time, a bad experience, a bad argument would ruin our day... of course it will happen, when we least expect this but,we should not let one incident ruin our entire day. let us just shove it off and make our day better by moving on to the tasks of the day... :D

This has happened to me, once in a while when I first started here I let it get to me. Especially in a response to one of my discussions. Now I have learned to just let it go, not everyone is going to agree with you and some are even going to get upset, but I find it's good to look at a differnet point of view and consider what they are saying. Then if you have found it has no merit just disreguard it. After all this is really just a game isn't it?

Firstly, I won't let that happen to me on this website. On other websites that I don't enjoy as much, I might get into the odd argument and it really can ruin your day. Some of the people online can have a lot to say, and this means that they can be very rude indeed to people who most certainly don't deserve to be spoken to like that. They would never speak to them in that way if they were talking to them face to face, so I don't understand why they feel as though they are able to do this when they are hidden behind a computer screen.

Well, I used to when I am still new here but as I stay on and learned that things here don;t get serious, I just shake it off and just leave or continue with other discussions. I learn not to stay too long in one discussion as I must enjoy my self and not to piss my own.

Personally, I am not sure that it has ever happened here on myLot. But I have had it happen on other sites I have been involved with, or Chatrooms, etc. and have often wondered how the person can really be like that. I know people are entitled to their own opinions even here, and we all come from different walks of life, but sometimes things that people believe in, or come up with seems almost a little too far fetched for me. Usually what I do is go away from that site or person for a while trying to think of other things to think about, and usually say a quick Prayer or two for that person and hope somehow it was just them or I having a Bad day and wishing for things to be better from there.

I think that happened to me a long time ago. And I remember it happened because I kept telling myself, it's online, you shouldn't care so much! But I couldn't shake it. But it's been a couple of years now. It was with someone who had been on my friend's list. I had to take them off because what they said was so cruel, but then they posted a discussion about how angry they were that people took her off of their friends list (directed of course to me). It was a her. And although I'm not angry any longer, I still can't believe how cruel she was.

I believe that the worst thing that has happened to me on MyLot was when someone called my comment "Rubbish". I can't say t hat It ruined my day, but I did feel sorrow for the person who considered my comment about God rubbish.

It hasn't happened to me here in the Lot, however it's happened at other sites. Not wanting to keep it going (what's the point?), I usually go to one of those 'blast 'em games' and blow off steam until I feel better. Or, sometimes I just go for a walk. At least I'm able to enjoy the rest of the day, maybe one of those ideas would help you if it happens again?

i don't take them seriously. i mean, this is not a discussion forum if everybody else agrees to what i post. but disagreeing has to be done politely. there are just people who take it to another level, and the disagreements and arguments are taken into another level. i will not let them affect me, and ruin my day.

In my entire time here, I can honestly say no this has not happened to me. I have a life offline and I wouldn't want it affected by activities I do online. I have not had tiffs here where I have gotten too affected from as I do try to come here and enjoy my time. I find there are far more nicer members here then there are not so nice. Sure there are differences of opinions but I simply look at them as being someone elses opinion and try never to allow it to affect me directly. Besides it would not be my families fault and or the next members fault for what anyone online does, somehow I don't think anyone should take it that far, where it spills over to their home and or persona.

Although this site can allow us to enjoy interacting with other users, it must be use with discretion. I have never gotten into a beef with someone here. This is a forum site where comments fly in every direction imaginable.Some comments here makes me think and reconsider some things I know and believe but that's the most it could do to me. I wouldn't let it ruin my day just because of some comments that opposes or challenge my belief. There is really no reason for me to allow it. I also observe that there are many here who are imposing on their beliefs about a certain matter.

No, not usually. IF someone don't agree with me, that is their right. Just try not to let it bother you. glowin100