Reality Sinks In / myLot

Philippines

September 30, 2011 3:32am CST

My aunt's interment was this morning. I wasn't able to go because the place is too far and I had to do really important matters in Manila. I and my husband prayed for her and her only son before taking our breakfast today. I was in full tears when I was praying. It was only then during our prayer that my husband saw me crying because I didn't have time to cry in the last few days. And so, the prayer made me somewhat released from all the pain of her passing. The reality sinks in now that she's not gonna be present physically at all. But then, I begin to feel happier for her because finally she is all free now from the pain of the disease. Did this ever happened to you? What were your ways to cope up from loved one's death?

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srjac0902

@srjac0902 (1169)

• Italy

30 Sep 11

When we love a person deeply and sincerely and when that person passes away we break down to tears. Some may break down at the moment but some may cry later on and they continue to cry. In reality its a sad experience that when a person passes away we can never meet he physically. However we immagine we shall not meet. But the events and the passing of time consoles us. We feel consoled and even feel happy that the person who passed away, now is released from all pain. Time and tide wait for no men so we upon this earth shall face the reality with serenity and walk ahead.

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viney17

@viney17 (688)

• Philippines

1 Oct 11

Well the love from for a person is something out of our control, and forgetting the bond and memories we share with a person is really impossible. The only thing we can do is see the good in what ever happens around us. Just think that she is not suffering anymore and she is in good hands of God or something like that. Just treasure the memories that she was able to share with you guys and never forget her.

ronadelle

@ronadelle (1547)

• Philippines

4 Oct 11

Thanks. I do think now in that way because I can still imagine how hard it was for her to feel every pain when she was still living.