Do you think it? If person are more laughing means they are mad
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
September 30, 2011 6:07am CST
When I told to my husband about mylot and laughed then my husband always told me you are mad everytime laughing. I feel upset so I keep quite since yesterday but I think God gives us long life if we laughed means due to laughing life is increase. This is true or just my imagination explain your view.
I know my husband told me this but they just checking my reply and I told silently oohhhh you not live happy life so you not like my laughing life is short so live happily with fun..Share your view you also think such if person more laughing means mad.
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44 responses
@reynald23 (2)
• Canada
30 Sep 11
For me, laughing is a form of defense mechanism and a person with more problems laughed most of the times because they are very sensitive to every funny words that they hear or actions that they see. The reason of this is to hide the pain inside their hearts :)
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
You are absolutely right more laughing means hide the pain inside the heart. I think you experience because in my situation same thing.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Sep 11
Oh my, I must laugh constantly if not I would not be a happy girl, instead a grumpy one. Laughter is like medicine where we can momentarily heal our ailing emotions. I don't like people who don't laugh at least from time to time.
I am one who just about anywhere I go, I like to joke and laugh all the time. There are so many issues in life so why not have a bit of fun. Yes depression can take a toll on a persons life. Whereas laughter can increase positivity and optimism in life.
Keep smiling and laughing my friend.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Oct 11
My dear friendthanks to help me for laughing haha...but I laugh only in mylot in my offline life I mostly cry but no one can believe on it. So this is secret of my life and I laugh because I want to forget my depression and my sadness.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hello my dear chattering box,
Mad people may laugh loudly but it does not mean that those who laugh often are mad. You don’t want to worry with your hubby’s remark, with his behaviour he can think like that way only (as he likes to be silent always) Just laugh whenever is possible and enjoy and make laugh others too. It is not easy to make laugh others, tell this truth to your hubby. Laughing is a good medicine for your good health. So enjoy my dear friend never become gloomy.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
My dear greenish friend I feel little bit upset because again my rating is decrease by 1 but I know if I want to forget this then I should laugh haha..Hmmmm if your support is with me then I can enjoy everytime.. haha..
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
hmmm I know some of my good friends always with me and some elder persons blessings are always with me thanks once again to give the confidence
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@marguicha (223785)
• Chile
30 Sep 11
I smaile more than actually laughing, but I love it when something is so funny that I can have a good laugh. I don´t think laughing has to do with madness unless it´s an histerical laughter that not many people have. Do laugh and enjoy life!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hiii friend marguicha means if you will start funny discussion then you will laugh join fun mylot club discussion and see how many people are laughing there with cow,milk, tea, cold drink lots of people are doing fun there. I always try to start funny discussion in mylot even my star is not increasing rating is not increasing but not care for this.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Oct 11
Now a days I also enjoy mylot lot and I also not care about start but some time feel bad because it is dancing.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Oct 11
Sir you are right everything out of limit means danger for life but I not laugh out of limit.
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@hendriyati (44)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 11
Hi. I am new on this site. I do not know, what I should do. This is the first discussion that
I found after registering. As I know, this site is discussion sites. I am still learning this site. Responding to your discussion, laughing does not mean we are mad. But, laughter is an expression that came out spontaneously, because of something funny. If we, see something funny, and not laugh, it would seem strange, and unnatural.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
7 Oct 11
Welcome in mylot my new friend and join with me funny discussion and laugh and leave the stress of life haha...wow! you found first discussion of me I am feeling great ahah...friend sure you will enjoy here and start funny discussion and response on more discussions...
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@hendriyati (44)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 11
Thank you for your welcome. I really enjoy this site.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
9 Oct 11
I love to laugh and I can always find a funny, sunny side to life. However, if I was living with someone who always joked and always laughed I would become extremely annoyed after a while. Sometimes we need to be thoughtful and serious. Sometimes laughter and jokes are simply not appropriate. People who cannot understand this I believe are very immature and in some severe cases there is possibly some sort of mental disability. Just my opinion.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Ohhh I have no mental disability. I also love laugh and if someone telling jokes then laughed if I telling jokes to anyone then laugh.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
30 Sep 11
Hi!
There is nothing wrong in laughing. It is said that laughter is one of the best medicines and those who could make others laugh are great. Please do not take your hubby's comments to the heart. You please continue in your natural fashion and laugh out loud and make others laugh. Laughter adds to volume of our blood.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hahah.. if not bad in laughing then start laughing with me haha... and I know you always laugh because your photo shows it. Hmmmm laughing is my passion and talking is my fashion ahha...
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
30 Sep 11
I just can not stop laughing reading your quote that laughing is my passion .........
Keep laughing and keep making others laugh by your discussions and funny comments.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Heheh...my husband is shy and they hide their laughing also not laugh freely by heart.
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@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Sep 11
Hey friend I laugh every day at any thing and I don't think I Am mad...today I was driving along the road and this person [ male] got upset at me because I was driving slow[ I was looking for direction]he shouted at me and I blew a kiss to him!
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hahah.... you are so funny like me means you can enjoy on any moment I also find to how can laugh me. Your driving is slow but my driving is more fast..
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Oct 11
Laughing is something that is very important in our lives and something that we really need to do far more often than we actually do. The last seven months of my life have been some of the most stressful months of my life, but I've found that actually taking the time to laugh and finding the humor in things that really aren't that funny are important so that you can get through. So, I would think that a person that doesn't laugh is more of the person that is mad in their life.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
7 Oct 11
Yes friend when we start the fun or laughing we can leave our stress and I know some people faced more struggle in their life even I am also facing the biggest truth of my life that is not child since last seven of marriage life but I know if I will cry every time then my husband will also feel bad so I always try to make to mood fresh. I know this is the very sad thing about me but I cant do anything without God help if they give me blessing or wished then we can feel happy..
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
30 Sep 11
May be your husband is jealous of u ,may be he doesnt laugh a lot or even smile,Just he says it for putting u down.It is not that he doesnt enjoy ur smile and laughing all the time,however some time people can not take anything the way it is, because sometimes when we see the person with us is always a happy kind then it definetly brings good everywhere.However laughing each and every second is something like maddness only.Without a reason should not laugh.
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
30 Sep 11
many dont know that,talking and chating with others ,and having good communication skills ,to be in the world we need a good heart as well as we need to be a wonderful person who can say what we want and be what we are.Many can not do that,Hope ur doing it and enjoying a lot at mylot.Even at ur family may be everyone like to be with u and enjoy ur presence.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hahaha.... jealous haha...because they like mylot is my boyfriend haha...No friend I not laugh without reason otherwise people will tell me you are mad you are mad ahah..but laughing is my passion and talking is my fashion haha....
@nichokongo (69)
• Kenya
1 Oct 11
hey....as long as you love what you are doing...keep on conjoling and don't let his thiattrics ware you down.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Oct 11
Thanks to tell this my friend yes if we are enjoying then laughing is no problem but why you put short comment like kanjus ahah..just joking
@littlemissy (200)
• Canada
4 Oct 11
I think it is good to laugh. I know when I laugh it makes me feel good. I don't think we laugh enough. I would like to laugh more. I need to maybe watch more comedy shows or something.
Laughing is good for you because it releases some hormones in our brains that make us healthy and feel good. I can't remember what the hormone is called, can't think right now, brain isn't working the way it should be.
Happy mylotting and keep laughing my new friend
littlemissy signing off now
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Ohhh you are saying true realeases some hormones and brain also wash. So lets go and join my laughing classes in mylot. I think booking is start already 40 people are join this discussion ahheh....join laughing coaching classes.
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@00fear (3216)
• United States
1 Oct 11
I don't think they are mad if they are a happy person. I mean I laughed a lot about everything and everyone says I am a happy person. When someone "might" be mad if they are laughing, we could probably tell on how they laugh. We can probably tell that they are mad if they sound as if they try to laugh.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Great thought and thanks to say thing I am also a happy person like you.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
30 Sep 11
surekharathi,
I don't think your husband actually meant what he said, he is probably just joking unbeknown to you.
A laughing individual does not mean an insane individual especially you yourself who is plainly enjoying yourself and when there was a humorous moment genuinely. So, don't take your husband too seriously and deprive yourself. It will be difficult and wrong for you when you are not being yourself.
Take care.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Oct 11
No friend I am not thinking wrong but I feel happy lots of mylotter friends are with me. so lets go and laugh with me hahaha....
@tjburcham (690)
• United States
1 Oct 11
I think people laugh at things they don't understand. I used to be a bit embarrased when I told people about mylot and other things to make money on from being online. Because at that time, it wasn't a tradional way to earn money or make friends. Now, I don't talk much about it but I am not embarrassed anymore about what I do to earn money or make new friends. It is hard talking to a person about stuff like this that doesn't know or have an interest in.
I also think that laughing is really good for you. Esp. if you laugh yourself to tears. You know when it ends up that you are laughing just because your laughing so hard. Gives you a good work out.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Ohhh no I laugh if I understand but only on joke. But you are right if we are telling about mylot then some people laugh and said ohh how can pay the money only on communication.
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@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
I do not find people who love laughing as somebody mad. You have to look in their eyes. Laughing is the best form of medicine since you exert little effort when you laugh. It releases endorphins which also contribute to making you look younger than you look.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
You are right laughing is the best medicine for avoiding any type of disease. To leave the stress laughing is must.
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Of course it is not the case. It really depends. Maybe he is just happy. But if he is laughing all the time by himself and talking to himself all the time, then there is a problem.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
No I not laughing anytime and anywhere. You are right if laughing all the time without any reason means problem in mind haahh....but not problem in my mind.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Sep 11
I am sorry to hear that your husband calls you crazy. I hope he will not turn into a grumpy old man who can't stand other people to be happy.
Personally I would never think someone is mad (crazy) if he/she is laughing or it must be the laugh of a "mad man".
I can understand you stopped telling your husband what keeps you busy. It's useless since he doesn't seem to like to hear it and he only gives you a bad feeling about yourself.
I hope he will ask you one day why you don't tell him anything anymore and you will tell him why but also how he makes you feel you.
Most of all I hope you will stay as happy as you are now. Don't give up on laughingh or better laugh out loud when you like or feel to. I agree with you that laughing a lot will make you feel good.
I will never understand why so many people are not laughing or look grumpy and say we all should be more happy, laugh more etc but if we do we are called to be mad/crazy.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Sep 12
Hahah...I not feeling bad because I know my danger and sweet husband very well. They not like talking and walking only keep quite. But I say him laughing is also a part of life to forget the stress laughing is necessary.