smoke addict

first did she smoke when you met her? if so why would you date a smoker if it bothers you that much? not to be rude just allways been curious why people date people who do things that bother them and then try to change the person, it,s just curiousity on my part. not at all judging. second you can ask her to not smoke around you and you can try to encourage her to quit but it is an addiction that can be quite hard to quit. If she wants to quit there are alot of things out there that could help such as patches, pills, losenges check your local pharmacy. some doctors will even perscribe things to help but they will only work if she is ready. Good luck to both of you. I hope that you can help her to quit.