trying to change myself

i'm a very simple girl and some say that i'm a very boring person. that's why this pushed me to try to change myself; from the way i dress up, to the way i communicate with other people. at first it feels weird, but as days went by i just don't feel happy. so i figured out that being yourself is the best. no matter what they think about you, all that matters is your having fun with your life and eventually someone will come along and accept you for who you are.

First of all: the way to look good is different for each person. To be honest I don't understand why people can't be happy the way they are. As I understand you already tried a lot and by now you damaged your hair. If that is the case there is not much you can do now except for cutting it of and treat what is left over very well. Wash it with a good shampoo for damaged hair and buy something to help it get healthy again. In time you might be able to use a straightener to get the curls out. If you think your hair is too much you can ask a good hairdresser to make your hair thinner.

When I reached college, I planned to change myself but turns out that it's hard to do. You can't really change who you are. The best thing you can do is be yourself because that's the best person you can be.

You can in a saloon and ask for professional recommendation. I'm sure saloon people are good at this stuff and they will have the idea to how to deal with your hair without further damaging hair. Any nearby hair saloon would do. Hope that helps. Cheerio mate!