for a secure life

it is a bit hard to solve that. the only thing you can do is just to prevent such situation happen to you. build more self awareness a, watch everybody around you (not that I suggest that you should be paranoid). know the boundaries of someone that is close to you or to someone you plan to be close with, knowing the right person and the right circle could help too. and last, well, this maybe a little help but do join a dojo or some sort of it.

you should know when things with someone your with is wrong. if you i feel that something is wrong with the man or woman your with let them go

knowing well about the person who are with you as friends,relations and neighbour is the best way to avoid this kind of situations.if you find someone wrong,better discuss with parents or siblings.keeping those things as secrets will not help in those unwanted situations.there should be a strong friendship and understandings between parents and children aswell as among siblings.this understanding bring safety to all women

Just pray. Ask help from above and ask protection. There was a time in my life when I didn't feel safe. And a good thing is I am only renting my place, so I left and transferred to a better neighborhood. I can't say the same for you. But I do hope you can find a way to make yourself feel more secure.