Bang! It hurts. It really hurts.

Hello Tess, You're pretty and It's hard to believe that he gave up on you after all these six years of your relationship. I mean, these days, six years is a huge development for lovers. Don't worry, there's another mylotter I know that also has the same predicament as yours, same number of years she had too. but she has truly move on with her life and enjoying her singlehood. Just let go all the pain that you have now, you can never forget the moments that you two have, but just do your best to move and distract yourself from the pain of what he did.

"Shot through the heart and your to blame. You give love ... a bad name". The instant I read your post that song from Bon Jovi ringed in my mind. But seriously you got to be strong and move on. And if you are the girl in your picture profile, many more men will fall in love with you. Just be yourself and be a positive thinker. Sooner or later you will meet a man that will truly love you.

There of must of been some warning signs that was going to happen! It just could not just come out of the blue! I am a true believer that there are warning signs that a marriage or any other relationship is on trouble. We just ignore them or go into denial. I know I have in the past and this why I don't date anymore! Love stinks and it also hurts to much! I am better without all the hassles of men can bring on!

Awwwwwww tess.. I am sorry this happened. You can move forward by thinking that it is really not meant to be. On a lighter note, you should be thankful that he had the guts to tell you right in the face that the relationship couldnt go on as you both hoped it to be. Focus now more on your career as a teacher.

I know this is not the right time to say this but I still not to so that the people who will read my post can realize and maybe you too can. My aunt always say don't give whole yourself to the person you are with. May it be a boyfriend or a husband. That way, you will not feel lost once the relationship come crumbling down. I know it is more a pessimistic view on love and life but she says at least the pain will be lesser. Keep you self busy. Focus your attention to something or someone else. It will be hard of course. I will probably take a few weeks or even months but you will pull through. Don't go beg for him to come though. Keep you dignity in check. Make him feel like it is his lost and not yours. Don't go over and beyond making it seem like you have moved on because that will just look as bad as asking him back.

Omg you guys had been together for 6 long years and he just decided to dump you? I think he had a reason for it? If not, I would have asked for why he was doing this to me and might have put in some slaps if the reasons were not good!! But seriously, this must be hard on you. I mean 6 years? I was with my ex boyfriend for a year but even if it was just for a year, when he broke my heart I was devastated and so broken. But trust me on one thing, time will heal us all.

I am sorry to hear about this. I am not sure how to react and i do not want to bash your partner as he may have his reasons. Do you know why he said goodbye to you? did you have an idea as to why he would be choosing to throw away the relationship you both had and end up hurting you like that... have you got the slightest idea before he even said it? I am not sure what to tell you to do, but being in a very painful situation myself, i could only turn to friends and prayers and to God. I always talk to him, to take away my pain and to renew my spirt so i would be a better person and be ready to face the world again.

Well right now, the feelings of hurt is still fresh. Take your time, don't rush things yet. Just let it all out. Have someone to talk to, someone whom you can openly share your feelings. For now, just let all the hurt feelings out. Cry? Cry till you get tired. But, DO NOT do things that is stupid. Eat well, sleep well don't forget to care about yourself.