what would be too much for you

Romania
October 1, 2011 2:07pm CST
when you're in love you accept and forgieve many things your partner does because you really wish for that relationship to work. but what would be too much for you? what is it that you couldn't get over
4 responses
@Woody7189 (247)
• United States
31 Oct 11
As a man, I would also say that cheating is the one thing that I could never get over. When two people are truly in love they should both give all of themselves to their partner. Trust is a major aspect of a relationship and once someone cheats, it would be very difficult to ever trust them again.
• United States
5 Oct 11
One thing I would definitely not be able to forgive is cheating, in any form. I would not be able to forgive my boyfriend if he were secretly talking to other girls behind my back in a romantic sense, got close with an ex, cheated on me emotionally or physically, etc. I also do not approve of flirting while in a relationship. There's a difference between being nice and being "too nice"... I don't think I really have to worry about that with my boyfriend though. He seems to understand my boundaries, or is at least trying to. I'm rather insecure and he seems to comprehend that.
@GemmaR (8517)
2 Oct 11
I don't think that I could ever get over it if my partner were to cheat on me. If somebody does that to their partner, then I don't think that they could love me enough for me to remain in that relationship with them. The other thing which I would not be able to stand is if he physically hurt me in any way. I know that a lot of women stay around when their partners have treated them like this, but I just don't feel as though I could stay when he obviously didn't respect me enough to keep me safe. I am lucky that I have my man, as I know that he would never do anything like that to me.
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
That would be cheating. I don't think I could forgive my husband if he ever cheated on me. I actually made sure that he knows that during the early part of our relationship. I told him before he even think about cheating, he needs to make sure that he doesn't want me in his life anymore, because that is whats gonna happen.