Blocking a person on google chat
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
United States
October 1, 2011 4:44pm CST
Does blocking a person on Google chat also block them from emailing you? I'm just wondering if it does. Since I had that terrible run in with my former boss, I don't want him to be threatening me in my emails too.
I'm not really afraid of him as in fear... but I know how vindictive he is... if he thinks he can rattle me... like saying "I know where you live"... that would be creepy. He made threats to the guy that didn't want to pay us... he said things like... I've done bodily harm to people before, and went to jail so many times for attempted murder and all this... I thought he was really just posturing... but now I almost BELIEVE him.
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@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
2 Oct 11
That would be good in helping to convict him even of assault, if you e-mail from him that says things like that. If you block his e-mail then you will never know what he is trying to do.
He sounds to me like a big braggart and likes to hear himself bully folks around. I have had charge of this kind when I worked in the stat prison system and sooner or later, if they continue they are dealt with kinda harshly.
@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
2 Oct 11
If he does e-mail something in anyway threatening then take it to your local law and let them start an investigation.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
2 Oct 11
True... so far he hasn't emailed me for any reason... I'm going to let it rest unless he contacts me in a threatening way.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
1 Oct 11
wish I knew the answer,
he might be talking out of hurt right now though, as he feels you betrayed him, maybe in a week or so you two can work things out,
I don't know, I know him and I don't mix, like vinegar and water and never will
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
1 Oct 11
I didn't do anything he didn't know about... except that I went ahead and did it.. he told me to do it weeks ago... and I didn't do it. So when I got an email from the former client I contacted him... but because I am/was connected with the boss he wants nothing to do with me.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
9 Oct 11
Many years ago I befriended a group of young people and helped a couple of them too. Things went wrong, they were in trouble with the law and somehow,I think because I refused to put up bail for one guy, it became my fault. There were threats and I was afraid. Except for the nuts being loosened on one of the wheels on my car, nothing happened. (I recognised the sound of the loose nuts and checked my wheel and fixed it before I went to far)...I actually went to the cop shop. The cops told me most offenders who mouth off are all talk. The make threats and big note themselves but they do nothing. The ones that DO act, say nothing before hand. It's the same with people who talk about killing themselves, the genuine ones just do it...the ones that talk about it a lot, don't.
If he is making any sort of threats, go to the police.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
1 Oct 11
I like him as a person... I can't reason with him though.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
5 Oct 11
Hello Pointless-q, this is saddening, it's easy to scare some one on the internet but it's hard to determine whether that person really actually knows you. unless you have some kind of personal information that is posted on the net (name, address,etc), or the guy has a hacker friend, there's obviously nothing to worry about. but I guess, it's better too if you change you're email instead, for you're own safety.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
5 Oct 11
We were friends for 5 years.. he even has my bank number and routing number for trying to send me my pay one time.. but it didn't work.... I called my bank to find out if he could get into my account... and they said no.. not without my social.. so I'm safe there.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
5 Oct 11
So far he has been quiet. He's been emailing a couple of my friends trying to insult me to them and also insulting them. But no threats yet in emails.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I believe that just blocking the person does not deter them from emailing you. As long as someone has your email address they can email you. However, check your email settings to see if you can block the person there as well, as most of them do have this option.
On another note, you can save the history of your chat and if he somehow makes it through that would be proof of harassment.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Great and happy to hear he has stopped. We all have to be careful as sometimes we have not idea what people are capable of.
Thank you PQ for the BR!
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
5 Oct 11
I haven't heard from him directly yet. He's been emailing my friends. Calling us 'grunts'. And other choice demeaning names. But no threats yet.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Apparently it did block him because he has no emailed me and he emailed a friend of mine saying that I blocked him... so it must have worked. He hasn't called me, he has my phone number.. I wouldn't answer if he did call me. I'm done.