how to forget about someone

I understand what you are going through. I found the best thing to do is set aside some time say once a day or every second day to let yourself and your mind wander, cry if you need to. after the set time is over you move on. I think the reason this helped me is because it helps release the emotions you are feeling, but also prevents your emotions from overwhelming you. You need to find something to do, maybe something you've been wanting to try for a while now, or just something that is completely new to new. If you do something you have done a million times before you wont really need to focus on it, where as if you try new things it will require more focus and attention, preventing your mind from wandering back to the person your trying to get over, also by trying new things there is no way of the activity reminding you of him. Most importantly though is not to block out all the memories of the person, they were obviously a big part of your life, and you shared alot of great times together, cherish those memories but at the same time make new ones. Best of luck.

i think its normally....it means do you still love him.....why you and him are broken ?? because he had affair with another girl?? or what?? just enjoy your life...admit that now you must change your life and your ambition without him anymore.. he is your past...you must wake up and say for your life, i want still life with normally with or without him

If I were you, I will also go out and meet some same age friends so that we can talk it out and have fun. Its always fun to share your feelings to people who are same age because there is not communication barrier. Hope it all works! Good Luck!

Let me borrow your own words " How can i possibly move on, if in the first place i don't want to forget about him."... You will never forget him and move on because you don't want to let go. It only takes courage to continue and move on and just remember that life has to go on and there is nothing good to rely on the past and you will never find your future if you live in your past. What is best to do is to busy yourself with a lot of things and not just to get back in an alibi that it is hard. Friends can also help, new hobby and new activities will also help. It is just all up to you if you are being emotionally moved with that person who hurts you, let go of it girl. If he is really not for you, forget it. Life is more exciting, you just don't know what you will miss if you just indulge yourself with that dark shadow of your past. Make everyday a NEW day, meaning not dwelling about the past or anything that will remind you of that person. Cheer up, its not that hard if you just wanted to accept reality and the challenges of life.

I've with you on the same boat 8 years ago. And what you feel is normal, the pain is there and all you want is to move on but part of you wants him back. sharlenejane912 try to accept what happen i know it will be very hard but trust me that's the best way and if the acceptance is there everything will follow.

Hi girl!i think you should go out and have a fun with your close friends,spend more time to take party,or you can chose some hard work to challenge yourself,do something you had never ever did before.when you think yourself have no time to care about other things then you will graduate.you had better not alone sit there or here,do not walk alone,in one words,you'd better with your close friends.even you can have a trip with someone.

Time heals all wounds. As time passes you will think about him less. You will be happy with him as just a memory.

It happened 4 years ago after my terrible break-up. It took me a year to get over it,sometimes till now I still feel afraid if I start to like someone. After the break-up, my theme song was "Over You"by Daughtry. It helped me a lot forget about him..I cried and cried listening to that song,but it made me stronger. I think it takes time for us to feel ready to move on and keep hoping that the right one will come.

I've been with the same situation and it was very painful. I didn't have any strength to move on with my life again and I just wanted to lay down in bed sleeping and crying. I've always think how can I start to live my life without him when my whole world only evolves around him. I thought I would never forget him and the pain, that I will never love and be loved again. But I realized that I was wrong, everything happens for a reason and I am ready to face what reason it would be because I know it is for my own better. I am happy now and started to move on and accept things that was not really meant for me.

What you feel is just normal. It really needs time to heal the pain. You really need to cry out all the pains inside your heart and once you released them all, start regrouping yourself. Live a new life, find new friends and make yourself busy. A lot of opportunities will be on your reach. Cheer up!

My, my. If the girl is as pretty as SharleneJane, I don't think that would be much of question. Mingle. Have fun. Don't cry it's over, smile it happened.

To forget someone whom you have with for a long time is quite difficult. But it si possible to happen. It takes a lot of will power to do it. I suggest that you just occupy yourself with other things that can make you forget him though I know it is very difficult. The emotions will die down as the passing of days. As I have it is a will power to do it. I'm sure you can move on. Take it easy.

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Hello sharlene :) Forgetting the one you love the most is the very difficult thing to do. It's killing you inside in and out right? I've been experience that one too. I tried everything yet it haunts me everyday and I found myself crying out of the blue. My Clinical instructor told me during our Psychology Focalization, when you try to forget the person who loved and hurt you, don't forget him forcefully because it will come back and haunt you like a ghost. I know you don't like that. I found this website and it was very helpful to me. I hope it will help you as well: http://www.healmybrokenheart.com/ Wish you all the luck :)

moving on and moving forward is different. Moving on is just going to the motion of living. You just carry on with your life until something else happen that would make your life worth living again. I mean,it sometimes so hard to live each day as if it has a purpose because the purpose you want is not possible anymore. So, you just assume life as if there is not much else to do anymore. It is ok, a lot of people actually remained in that situation for quite a long time until something happens to them. I think, you will start to move forward once your get tired of dreaming that you can still be together again. Until such time came, i guess staying where you are right now is normal.