what is love???????

love for me was a form of grace to us as human beings, I also do not understand what love is real, but if there was a feeling that when so much of our we feel lost and if he's close then we can not say anything, then I've fallen in love with my wife...^__^

i can't really say possessiveness is love, it shows that your partner so you are not letting that person free to socialize or to communicate with other people fearing that that person will leave you. Love is to trust, trust that he/she will never leave you for other guys, if she leaves you then your relationship doesn't really meant to last long, then if she really stays without any outside opinions just her own free will then that's it. Hmm jealousy, like i said you need to trust your partner so why are you being jealous of other guys or girls that are around him/her, if she is loyal then trust her in return, if he is taken from you it doesn't mean that you sucks at love, just always remember that there are many fishes in the sea, you think she is the one when she leaves you? then you're wrong there are many people are still out there why don't you try your luck? finally... lust, i dont really count this one as love, i mean lust is only ahmm physical contact. Love should be experienced and felt physically and mentally, like sharing your 5 senses with that special person, you must be in sync, feeling the same thing and thinking of the same thing (well not literally).