How can you know your chat mate are very sencire in you?

Hi zhawee! Well, I guess you can sense it if the guy is sincere enough or just playing around. If he is really expert in dealing with ladies so it's hard for you to know. Have limits. Impose rules or he needs to follow these stuff before giving him anything. I do have lots of friends who were lucky enough marrying their chatmates. One of them said she was treated like a princess by her foreigner hubby. Not only that, she was allowed to send money monthly to her family here in Philippines. Unfortunately, I read yesterday here in mylot where he married a German chatmate. She thought she won a lottery but when she got there seems like her partner changed. Something went wrong and she doesn't know what to do. She really want to find a job soon but it's impossible to happen 'cause their language is not english and she can't barely understand. So, be careful with chatmates.

Chat rooms are indeed dangerous. Unless you get to know real person it is not advisable to open up. You could start with exchanging cell phones or preferably land line numbers where one could trace the person who you are chatting with. And this only if you are interested in converting your virtual friendship to the real one.

Cheaters are everywhere,whether online or offline. Now, all you have to do to determine if your chatmate is sincere is ask him to show his face when you were chatting. And ask him to met you in person, but of course never go alone by yourself. Test how sincere he is in your own ways before trusting him. Have a good day