Friendship after Love
@nezavisima (7408)
Bulgaria
8 responses
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Hello nezavisima :)
Unlucky me that after break up with my ex-boyfriend, we never make contact anymore.. We break up not in the good way and I think we both hurt each other.. I don’t have his contact number again, and vice versa.. Well from love to become enemy is so quick.. I don’t know where the feeling go..
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Mar 12
that's good.
sometimes you do not need to be with someone and then we parted ponakoga is better so.
because we still have our lives it too.
but on the other hand it is nice to be friends.
but everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone feels his life how he lives.
I thank you for your opinion and appreciate it to know.
nice day!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
i have an ex boyfriend,actually he is also my first boyfriend but because he cheated on me so i decided to end our relationship because he cheated to me not just once but twice. i really hate him because of that and it take a years before i can forgive him. one day we see each other in a mall and he greet me thats why i see him. after that i realize that i already forgot all the sin that he done to me before. after that happening we become close friend again even we have individual love lifes. we become bestfriend also because of our past so we feel comportable to each other.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
I'm glad for you.
I think it always hurts in the beginning but with time the pain goes and everything is forgotten there is only a sad memory of something past.
but it is nice when we are friends because there's nothing better than a friendship and we can get along with our former friends.
Thanks for the reply.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 11
I know that it is possible to be friends after a break up. This is difficult to do but I have done this. I dated a man for eight months before we split up. We have stayed friends and he has a girlfriend. He has been dating her for three years. If they got married I would be happy to attend their wedding.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Oct 11
this is very nice.
you really enjoy his happiness and what is good than to see that man is a friend to you and you're happy with it in this wonderful moment.
very glad when we have people who remain friends and even became friends with former girlfriends.
why not this is a beautiful thing, and most importantly for me here is that all are happy and very pleased with the selection and success.
Many thanks for your answer, you surprise me.
nice day!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Oct 11
One of my ex-boyfriends and I tried to remain friends, but it didn't work. In the beginning it went really well, we often met and we had a good time together as friends. After a while he started talking about our relationship every time we were together and he kept on asking me if we should try again. I didn't want to be more than friends and I always said no, but he tried to kiss me and touch me, and he wasn't able to accept that I didn't wanted us to become a couple again. We started spending less time together and later we both found new partners.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
18 Oct 11
clearly when you obviously have more feelings and you are not able to stay friends for a long time.
I think in your case it is best to end all relations with this person because they still ended when a connection is not very nice to go back together though when you both have strong connections behind.
Yet it is your decision and these are just thoughts.
Many thanks for your answer because it is very important to me.
Thank you again and good day!
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I have yet to remain friends with any ex-partner. Probably because we did not end on good terms. I also feel that if we could be good friends, why could we not still be together. So for me I would question a few things there.
I have seen where some of my own acquaintances remain friends with their exes and although they say they are good friends, I can see the female is usually hurt by it. Simply because the past of them being together is hurtful to see them moving on, is what I can guess about them.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Oct 11
to different and sometimes we can not always stay friends for so many reasons.
but I guess it all depends on experience with the man who has been to us.
of moments of joy and sadness.
All these things are a pain to my friends and really hard to stay friends with a person who has hurt you in pain and you can not forgive him.
I understand that there are those moments.
Thank you very much for the reply and nice day!
@Dancer96 (36)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I can honestly say that I am still friends with most of my exes. While, I'm not close friends with all of them, I get along with them and would have no problem helping them out if they were in need. They have moved on and so have I, we are happy for each other. I think as we grow older, it becomes easier to accept that some things are not meant to be and that sometimes we are better off as friends than as lovers. I guess for me, I would rather have the people that I love or care about in my life as a friend than not at all.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Oct 11
This is very nice when you keep the relationship with the former.
So show them that we can keep them regardless of whether they have ever experienced feelings towards them.
this is a respect and a beautiful friendship that can last a long time.
I'm glad when people fail to maintain these relations.
Thank you very much for the reply and nice day!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
Yes, why not.
Acceptance is the only remedy to make friends with someone you love and lost.
I did it in my life and friendship is the best for us than being lovers.
It is a matter of acceptance and everything in between will be fine.
Forget and forgive about the past and accept reality.
Face today and be friends...
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Oct 11
not completely true.
this is very nice when we can be friends with our ex-girlfriends.
I always wanted such relations are not just spoiled.
Love knows no boundaries and is always looking for something different.
and when you do not give the man some things to us that he is looking elsewhere and then love disappears but that does not mean that we must be enemies, but rather when obichchash should want this man to be truly happy.
at least I think so.
My happiness is important and my adopted family at all and it's just wonderful knowing that rolls forth, and you can done within them happy.
Many thanks for your reply and nice day!
@love2click (366)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
Hi.. I think it's hard to befriend your ex. Though some really does, but i believed mostly don't. But if you we're going to ask me, it's okay for me to make my ex a friend though I'm sure, things between us will be greatly different. The things before the two of us became a lover, the things when the two of us are already lover and the things after we parted. Difference are clearly comparable.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Oct 11
to all of us in different and very difficult.
some may remain friends others.
because many people are in relationships that are friendly and never incite hatred or something else.
difficult to be friends with our former but sometimes it is very easy and even enjoyable.
always glad when two people realize that love is sometimes a transient feeling.
Many thanks for the reply and nice day!
