love is strong when it makes you suffer

I just finished reading a romance novel. Love has its own ways to test a relationship to make it more stronger. Well, its like to every success.. we should always experienced hard times so we can achieve what we really want.

I agree partly, trials can make a relationship strong when both are doing their part to make things settle and fine. But, if it is only a one way road, I am sure love will fade in the long process. In a relationship, there are trials and problems that surely occur, keep holding on to love and both should hold hands facing the difficulties of it. have a good day

When couples or partners face challenges and trials, they become a stronger pair after that. They would love each other more. They will value each other, much more than they value the other one before a certain event. Those types of events can be very stressful on both parties, and if they weren't able to handle such event, it can even lead to separation.

Hi nezavisima! I definitely agree that love is stronger when it experiences some trials and tribulations. I believe that in order for love to be strong it has to undergo hardships. Trials and problems may not necessarily be the same but nevertheless, couples who love each other should experience problems so that they will know how much they love and care for each other instead of taking each other for granted because they feel so secure. My boyfriend and I had experience this. Our trial was being far apart. I worked abroad while he stayed in our native country. It was really hard for us to be so far apart. We were so close then but we managed to bridge the distance by writing letters and phone calls. It was expensive but we have to settle for it. Keeping in touch and keeping communications open is very important for a couple in order for their relationship to endure. We also promised each other that we won't listen to other people and that we should only listen and trust each other. It was really hard to be far from the one you love. I feel very empty, incomplete and in the verge of depression. With God's help we were able to overcome those trials and we got married. Whenever we have arguments, I never make a mountain out of a molehill. I always think all those experiences we have to endure in order to be with each other again. I also learned never to take him for granted because our love is very precious for we have undergone a lot of pain.

Hmm love really grows a lot stronger when facing a problem, but still can make u relationship breakdown. When your love for each other isn't strong enough for the current situation then you'll end up broken and sad, and you will eventually break up, but if you are strong enough for the challenge, you both will face it chin up and ready to take on everything life will throw at you, and if you ever get through that problem then your love for each other will grow stronger.