Teens are so addicted

@Anne18 (11029)
October 5, 2011 4:20am CST
Did you konw that teenagers are so addicated to there phones that they can't even go to the loo without them! Nearly half of 12 to 15 year olds told Ofcom that they go to the toilet with there phones. A third use them while eating at the family dinner table and most keep them switched on 24 hours a day! My children aren't allowed there phones at meal tables and they have to turn them off at night time. I won't have them as a slave to them. What about your teens?
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@ElicBxn (63644)
• United States
8 Oct 11
I have mine on all the time and have been known to take it to the loo, but only if I have an emergency and sure don't call out while I'm on it. Nor do I like to take calls while I'm eating, even tho I seldom sit down at a table with friends. I also take it to bed with me, but that's cause its also my alarm clock... Now... if I had kids... well... I don't know if I'd even let them HAVE one, but its a non-issue since I don't...
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@ElicBxn (63644)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Hun, I can't HAVE children now! I'm almost 60!
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@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
I think like the other lady you may change your mind if and when you have some children. Make the most of it while you don't have any children
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@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
Sorry didn't know how old you were, mothers are getting older everyday you know. My sister in law had her first baby at 42 and in her group there was a first time mum of 47!!! Don't think I would want to start again at 47
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@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
5 Oct 11
This is just so true! I don't have children yet but I can tell my 2-cents on this since I have nephews and nieces who are so addicted to their iTouch and phones! One time I was invited to my nephew's birthday party and I saw him texting like crazy. Being the busy body that I am, I asked him if he's texting his friend since he's laughing and looked like enjoying himself. He then told me that his friend is just on the third floor of the same house. My nephew's just too lazy to walk and go to his friend to have a chat :P It's good that you set that type of ground rule at your home. I always have my phone on but I'm not in the level of not being able to separate with my phone. Even in the past when I'm younger, I really don't remember myself being a slave to phones. I love gadgets but not to the point that I'll stick to them like glue :P
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@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
It just shows how times are changing. Fast and sometimes too fast. It would be ok if the children learnt more about the past as well but they just take them for granted and want more and more
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
12 Oct 11
Just last night, I fell into a discussion with my son about celphones. It seems like that because the new iphone 4S is coming out, the old models are being sold cheap. And he wants one. He is eleven. I said no. First off he's too young. And I told him that there would be to pre-requisites before he could get his own phone: that he is responsible enough for it, and that he could pay for his own bills. So, a few more years then...
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@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
Our children have guidlines and if they spend too much then we moan at them and they will then have to use some of there pocket money on there own credit.... they soon learn that way.
• United States
5 Oct 11
That is very true. When I normally cross their path, whether in a public bus, train or even in a store, you see them constantly either texting, on the web or talking with their friends on the phone. It's sad but even in public restrooms sometimes you hear them as well. But the sad part is not only teenagers have seen grown up as well. I mean seriously if you are going to the bathroom don't you need a bit of privacy. I can't stand when I am in the bathroom and my phone starts ringing, let alone answering it. I let that sucker go to voicemail, there is no way on earth I am answering that I find it a bit embarassing, but then again that is just my opinion. Luckily my kids are still small and no where near teenage years, but I could just imagine when I get in that age how it is going to be with technology advancing more and more each day. I don't even want to think about it.
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@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
I wouldn't answer my phone if I was on the toilet, boy its nice to get some space when you go to the toilet. My children have just stopped following me in to the toilet to talk to me so the last thing I want is my phone going off and answering it. What if it was a long call? How are you going to pull your pants up and wash your hands while carrying on talking?
@Anne18 (11029)
19 Feb 12
Agree I have a friend who actually turns off his land line at night time. I also have a friend who always lets it go to answerphone before they answer it as they had so many sales calls etc coming through. I now leave a message or wait for her to pick up phone once the message has kicked in, before I knew this fact I just used to never leave a message as I thought they were out and I wanted ot talk to her there and then about popping in for a cuppa in the next half hour or so. Thank you for your answer, sorry so long in answering back, just trying to do a big catch up as you do sometimes on mylot, but you still miss things even on a big catch up.
• United States
11 Oct 11
I work with the phone 8 hours a day, so when I get home last thing I want is to be on my cell phone, so sometimes unless it's my family or a close friend of mine and/or an emergency, I don't even answer the phone at night, I just let it go to voicemail. Then ofcourse depending on the message, I'll return the call right away or wait until the next morning to respond. I work long hours and by the time I get home and doing my routine chores, childrens homework and my own do you think I want to be on a phone let a lone go to the bathroom with my cell phone. I think NOT!!!
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
5 Oct 11
What's scary is that they won't put them down when driving. We were already hit by someone driving and talking and not paying attention to the road or her speed. They talk while driving through parking lots -- very dangerous places not to pay attention in. They walk down the street with phones in their ears. And they bring those blasted phones to holiday dinners. My nephews didn't use them at the table, but afterwards they were texting instead of talking to those they only see once or twice a year.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Driving etc is very bad. You can get fined in England if you are caught using a phone while driving. When walking down the street they never look where they are going, accidents just waiting to happen
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@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Oct 11
Yes, they are addicted to mobile phones. I was at the cinema last week. I saw a teenager with her dad. Throughout the movie, the girl keeps on using her mobile phone. Her dad told her several times to stop and concentrate on the movie but she did not listen. So much for the daughter-and-father bonding. Poor dad.
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@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
He should have been more forceful and be in control. He's the parent not her
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
5 Oct 11
Working in a restaurant,I see families all the time with kids like this..It seems even an effort for them to put the thing down when they're eating!
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Just think that family time they are wasting on there phones and also they can't enjoy the meal properly either. Eating out costs alot of money so you should enjoy every minute of the time you are there
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
12 Oct 11
Still,better that they're absorbed in texting or gaming at the table than running around wild and unsupervised and annoying other customers...
@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
True, I hate it when children run around resaurants. If your children can't sit down and be still while you have a meal then you shouldn't take thme to the restaurant. Wait until they can sit still,
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Oct 11
It is the same with my teen son with a mobile phone, which has so many functions. I agree that the majorities of teens are addicted to their mobile phones. I have quite a few students who play with their mobile phones in class. I have to ask them to put them aside instead of affecting their concentration in class. If they use it in class, their study is distracted. Thank you for the discussion, Anne. Have a wonderful day.
@Anne18 (11029)
14 Dec 11
Thank you for your reponse, hope you have a good day as well
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
7 Oct 11
I am addicted to my phone for sure, but I do turn it off frequently, like if I am in a restaurant or sporting event or church, etc. But I sleep with my phone and use it for an alarm clock and flashlight. Days I use it instead of a wristwatch, calendar, calculator, mirror (yes~), camera, notepad, and so much more.
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@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
AS you rightly say phones are so much more than just a phone these days, clocks, calculator and so forth. So many things you can fit into a mobile phone
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
6 Oct 11
Your right about this and it isn't just the teens. Adults are just as bad. I see them in the stores, restraunts etc. with their phones up to their ears or texting. Even when they have them on vibrate, if you try to carry on a conversation with them, their eyes are constantly glancing at their phones to see if they got another text! I haven't had a problem with my daughter and her phone. I think she knows better than to try to talk to me and be texting or talking on that at the same time. She's a pretty respectful kid and I don't see her being rude with it.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Yes, somewhere along the way the sense of common courtesy got lost and not sure when parents stopped instilling these values in their kids but it appears that it was some time ago because we now have rude adults also. Geez, my parents brainwashed me with do's and don'ts on how to be. My girls will tell you that I did the same to them.
@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
I'm trying to brainwash the children on how ot behave etc. Has worked most of the time and I keep telling them that I shall always win however long its takes!! And I do!!
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Yes adults do do the same, perhaps adults should be made aware of this fact and everyone could learn new rules together
@celticeagle (168591)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Oct 11
I see young people all over with their cellphones. My granddaughter used to bug us for money so she could get more minutes on her phone. Only teen we have. I think it is sad to see. The brake down of the family unit can only cause strife and psychological problems. It is very sad to see.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Children can be very demeanding about how much credit they want and who has the most up to date phones etc. They should be grateful for what they are allowed ot have as they could easliy have nothing.
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@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
Our son wanted a different phone to the one we brought him a couple of years ago, nothing wrong with his phone so we told him as longs as he had a pay as you go phone we would still put credit on it but he had to buy the new phone as there wasn't anything wrong with it. So he decided to use his birthday money and brought a new phone. His old phone is now a spare phone.
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@celticeagle (168591)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Oct 11
They should be responsible and be working for the phones if they want them so badly.
@sriram19 (111)
• India
6 Oct 11
Im also a teen, and yes I do love my phone that sometimes I have it with me throughout the day, and I am quite crazy about it, but then again, I seriously dont like using it while I drive, as I can't concentrate on both the things at the same time, it is quite distracting, and I like to keep the phone with me all the time, as it feels like it is some kind of a prized possession for me, like a family heirloom. But I sure will say that the addiction is quite crazy, and we sometimes can't help it.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
You must never use your phone and drive, it is one of the most dangerous things you can do. Please look after yourself my fellow mylotter friend
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Oct 11
Neither of my children are teenagers yet and neither of my children have a cellular phone yet either. However, even though I was raised in a time where it was not common for people to always carry a cellular phone, I know that I was pretty much attached to mine from the time that I was eighteen years old. It was then that I started college and I was away from my friends and family for the first time. I liked to have my phone on my person because it always felt like a connection to all of the people that I loved.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Our children have only just got basic phones on going ot secondary school. Our oldest daughter never got a phone until she went to college so she could keep in contact with us. It can be a big connection to the ones you love if you are far away and you don't have to go and stand in a cold phone box
@cormiera (278)
• United States
7 Oct 11
see thats funny too my lil sister is like that but im not its different with todays generation im mean im close in their generation but do u guys member when and what the first cell phones looked like it was great they were hudge now they have all different sizes colors lol
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Cell phones were very big in the begining and then they went so very tiny. It seems now that they are getting large again although they will never be as large as they were when they first came out.
@Anne18 (11029)
12 Oct 11
They are very thin as well which is good. Glad your grandma is getting a new phone
@cormiera (278)
• United States
11 Oct 11
yea they are getting bigger but then arnt as thick i still have one of the old *trac phones* finally talked my grandma into getting a new phone as well
@00fear (3216)
• United States
6 Oct 11
I am not a dad but yea I have notice teens these days are hooked to their cell phones. I have my cousins though who are not that addicted to them. When they are at the family table, they leave their phones in the living room and they don't respond to it unless someone calls (meaning if someone text them, they don't answer it and if someone calls, they do because of chances of emergency). I wouldn't allow my kids (if I had one any) to have phones until they are at a certain age or maybe young age if necessary but if at a young age, there will be consequences.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Its good that your cousins have very good house rules about there phones. There parents have brought them up well.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
Yes dear I know and I wonder if the parents of these addicted teenagers have ever cared. Why would they just allow their kids to be addicted to these gadgets? In our family we don't allow cellphones while on the dinner table. Even the use of computer are limited and can't be abused. Technology is useful but this does not mean should get addicted to it.
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Our children only get short slots on the pc as well. They are more addicated to watching dvd's than texting on phones etc
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
Glad i do not have teens yet, they are still children.. phew. But i have been there lol back in high school and college were cellular phones are new i was addicted to it. i could not let go of it, i also could not go to the loo without and yes, i do not turn it off lol but well times changed, i am a mother now and everything changed for me 360 degrees!
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Its strange isn't it how when we become mothers and fathers things suddenly change
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
nowadays, the young are slaves of the cellular phone technology. what with the fast tech updates for these phones! aside from the attraction to communicate instantly via these phones, these tech updates are one of the reasons, too. my children only have simple phones but most of the time they use it just to communicate. they are luddites when it comes to their phones but not with their knowledge. am i just glad that as a parent, i was able to instill what should be given more importance in their lives. as to these phones, they are just communication tools for them. not even a status symbols (which gives me an idea for another discussion here. thanks!)
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Our children and hubby and I have only simple phones as well. Glad that I helped you to make your own discussion with you responsing to my discussion
• Canada
6 Oct 11
Most younger adults, especially the under 40s who are in the business world, are even more addicted than teenagers! It wouldn't surprise me if they use their Blackberries to get some business done while in the bathroom!
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
They do say that business men close there deals in some strange places so I think you are correct on this matter
@THR999 (24)
• India
6 Oct 11
I am also a teen but i am not addicted to the mobiles....I always keep my mobile on the table in my room and keep it in silent mode while i was eating and prayer time....I keep the message alert in silent when i was sleeping... I also heard that mobiles create some kind of health problems..So i am trying to keep them far away as possible ;)
@Anne18 (11029)
11 Oct 11
Another good teen. In the early days they thought that the waves from the phones may cause brain tumers and such like, don't think that they do, but you have to be careful with what ever techo you use these days.