love and everything destructive

For starters, look at what the issues are. Are they big ones? Like honesty, trust, commitment? Or are they small issues you can change. If they are big issues, you have to really examine how important they are to you. You might love this person, but can you trust them? Do you see them changing? If the answer is no, the issues that bother you wont be resolved, then maybe its time for a new relationship. Its hard, but in the long run it would be better to be alone, then be hurt badly. If the issues are small and can be resolved, then do so. Sometimes the best relationships go through rocky periods, and thats what make them good. As for the unclear part, think about what you want out of the relationship. Are you happy with what you have now? Or do you want more? Hope that helps..