Driver's License? Why no Parent's License?
By KizzyCatfish
@KizzyCatfish (426)
United States
October 5, 2011 10:50pm CST
It's interesting, we need a license to drive a car, a license to be a contractor, a license to be many different things, but never a license to be a parent, which I think is one of the most important jobs on earth! TO raise a child to a worthy adult! Don't you think that at least the hospitals should make the people attend an informational class about raising children to be good adults in order for them to get good care? It's amazing to me!
Of course, how could they manage that, but goodness! WOW. Please state your thoughts!
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13 responses
@writersolutions10 (497)
• India
6 Oct 11
that is really nice quote and we need to think about it twice. i think there will be any good response among the people..
@KizzyCatfish (426)
• United States
6 Oct 11
I thank you for your positive remark! I sure appreciate your support! I hope we can be friends on MyLot!
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@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
this is a wild wild idea for my own opinion. I dont think this is practical. Imagine how would you encourage people to apply for a license to be a parent. If there are people who ignore the necessity to get a drivers licenses first before driving a car, how much more for a license to be a parent? Also, it is every human beings' right to be a parent if they opt to.
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@KizzyCatfish (426)
• United States
6 Oct 11
I agree, it's a wild, wild idea as there is no way in the world to manage it. But let's look at this... you... yes you... I don't know how your mother and father were with you, or how your formative years were. But, please let me ask you this objectively, and please do be blatantly honest with me.....
Do you think that if your parents had spent time in a parenting class prior to your birth and nurturing that your life may have been a little more ... rewarding? As well as your outside relationships.
I do not mean to offend, but don't you feel it would be as important to take a test about being a parent as taking a test about driving a car? For heaven's sakes, I feel I have more value than a car and so does my daughter.
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 11
I found it easy to get pregnant but challenging to pass my driving test. I have a 16 year old son, a 4 year old disabled son and a 2 year old daughter. Parenting classes and parenting books can help a pregnant lady wishing to learn. I love being a parent and I am also a teacher of primary school children.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
7 Oct 11
I do think that it sounds like a great idea on the surface but I don't see it working really or even being fair. And how would they enforce it? Just because someone takes a course in parenting does not necessarily mean they will be a good parent if they pass it and others could take the same course that would be wonderful parents but just not be good at tests and studying. Also there is no way to tell how good a parent someone is going to be until they actually are one. I have seen some people do amazing turn arounds in their lives upon becoming parents. As it is, if someone is being neglectful to their child, the children's protective services , will require them to take a course in parenting and also works with them to hopefully become better parents. We have enough laws and controls as it is.
@KizzyCatfish (426)
• United States
8 Oct 11
Sure. But I'd like to see the high schools give a little more instruction on having a home and a family. Heck when I went to high school, they didn't even teach me how to balance a checkbook!
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
6 Oct 11
I so agree with you and have thought the same thing for years. Every parent to be should have to take a 6 month course in learning how to raise a child. It makes no sense at all that a person can have a baby and go home with this baby and not know the first thing of how to take care of it. I know they claim that a mom goes by instincts and it all comes naturally but there is so much more to being a parent in my opinion.
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@KizzyCatfish (426)
• United States
6 Oct 11
I'm so glad to hear that you agree with me. I don't have any idea how the government would orchestrate this. It is just amazing that people can have babies and almost ignore them, while the kids grow with no morals. It's all just a shame.
@nietzsche2011 (2)
• China
7 Oct 11
It sounds a newfangled idea.I couldn't agree with you more.
I know almost every parent love their children deeply.They want to give the best love to their children.But always they don't know the correct ways.Maybe it is necessary.
But it's a problem,which is the best way to love kids?Do expects know it?
And different parents will raise kids to different adults.If we teach them in a same way,will the kids become more and more similar?It's my thoughts.
In fact,I support your idea.Because as we know ,some kids are under fire.
@KizzyCatfish (426)
• United States
8 Oct 11
I wouldn't say that if we taught them all the same, would they all become more similar. I wouldn't think that at all - I have two sisters and we were all raised about the same by the same parents in the same household with the same standards. The three of us are really very different.
@mac1946 (1602)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Oct 11
First off,the governments already control everything we do on a daily basis,and it is because of people like you.
before the gov. got involved with our lives,we were brought up by our parents quite well.
now,there are so many stupid laws on how we bring up children,that you are no longer able to give them direct care,the kids know that no matter what you do to make them listen,they do not have to,they just report you to the authorities.
Do not give the Gov.any more control,they have to much as it is.
Thank you.
mac
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
8 Oct 11
Very true. I think they should make a test because alot of people are not good parents and never plan to be.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
25 Nov 11
I think that parenting classes should be mandatory for any woman who becomes pregnant. If the father is known, then he should be required to go too, especially if the family is receiving public assistance of any kind. You hear of so many instances where children are abused or neglected and wonder how many of those could have been prevented if the parents had been educated about how to take care of kids. Of course, not everyone will be willing to go through such things, but if those who are on public assistance would be required to go through it then perhaps there would be a little less problem for them. Thanks for a great suggestion! Have a great weekend!!!
@Keola12 (820)
• United States
9 Oct 11
I agree with you. There should be Parent's License in order for folks to become parents, but such a thing would be difficult to inforce. In the end people are going to do what they want to do regardless.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
For me it is very important so that things would be better in us by government and to Jehovah God.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
10 Oct 11
Hi Kizzy Cat Fish: I understand your concerns and I would agree with your idea if this could be made. Unfortunately there's no way we can demand a license for people to be a parent. Every person that just want it and have a couple could be a father or mother no matter how immature or irresponsible he/ she is. There's no school for parents and some people just don't listen the advices and that's the reason why there are so many broken homes.
ALVARO
@arnokurniawan (27)
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9 Oct 11
I Think government must conduct training course or training for new parent or expectant parent, so they will have knowledge how to educate children properly.
A goverment could have made a rule for those who do not pass the training then their children will be taken care by government.