I'm inlove with my friend
By bessyjanmayi
@bessyjanmayi (278)
Philippines
October 6, 2011 8:45am CST
So funny experience! My heart deceived me again. No one ever thought that I will be in love with my friend!!!hahaha... I don't really want it to happen, because I experience once before, it affects our friendship a lot. So as early as now, I need to erase this feelings. This is not good. I don't want to lost my friend. He is so nice and funny, so hard to find a good friend like him. I don't have plan to be in love with him, this is so strange.
It is so hard to have a good guy friend. There is always a tendency to be in
love. The weakness of a girl is within me. :)
Hey guys, have you experience also this one?
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9 responses
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
I guess your not alone with that situation, many girls easily in love with their guy friend especially if this guy is so nice and kind. .but your friendship will suffer . .is this the same guy you fall in love before?. .try to ignore your feeling to him and let him be the one to say that he likes you . .
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Oct 11
I have experienced this before. Yes, it is hard to find really good friends. A good romantic type relationship starts with a well founded friendship. Do you think he could have feelings for you? I would try to spend time elsewhere. It is going to get increasingly hard for you to be around him.
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
7 Oct 11
Loving your friend is very natural, but being in love can surely create problems and complicate your relationship. But then love is something no one ever plans it just happens. Why don't you talk to your friend about this. If he too loves you, you can take your friendship a step ahead.
May your friendship lasts forever and bring you true happiness :-)
@fragranceofrose (27)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 11
well i think it's really a nice experience if ur friend also likes u.
it's not funny it's quiet interusting.
u say to him how much u love him
the way u convey the message should be heart touching.!!!!!!!
Remember, it can risk ur friendship so u should plane that u convey message
if he disapproves ur proposal than u should take back friendship
okay!!!!!!!!!!
@rajaniroy (43)
• India
9 Oct 11
i dont have this experience. but, it is common only. friendship is the first step to start love. but, if he reject you, you will loss his friendship. one of my friend also had done like this. fortunately, he agreed, now they are in deep love. she had afraid like anything to propose him. finally, she succeed in love.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
6 Oct 11
I have found that many times it is hard to have a Relationship with someone who is a Good friend like this, but there are people who have fallen in Love with their Best friend and get married, and it works. So you never know. But if you have feelings like this, do they have the same feelings for you? Just remember no matter what happens from here, it might not be Good to jeapordize the friendship unless both of you are ready to take that chance.
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
6 Oct 11
well, i have that experience too. almost all of my ex girl friend, before it is my friend.
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
Falling inlove with you friend is normal, well relationship started by being acquainted in work or in school and starts with friendship. Why do you not want to feel that way? What if he feels the same? Better know some signs if he likes you too i know love really affects the friendship and im currently on that situation now i made a wrong move, i didn't even know how she feels, because my friend told her without my consent and i was still angry at him. I know I made a wrong move so I'm warning you both of you might be feelings the same thing and if one of you move a little bit off the timing then you might get your heartbroken, both of you
goodluck