What would you do if the man you love is unfortunately MARRIED?

No. Someone who cheats his/her partner to be with you is capable of cheating on you too then where would you be? But above all else, it would never be right. I don't believe there is reason enough to justify infidelity. And don't allow yourself to be in a situation that you know displeases God. Every heartache and heartbreak can be overcome. But don't wound your spirit.

I've been in such situation I didn't know he was married, we didn't live in the same town and he traveled a lot when I found out his status I dropped the whole thing he still called me for holidays I replied to his messages and kept it casual between us, every time he wanted to see me I told him we're just friends now He said his marriage wasn't fulfilling, I told him I understand but I don't want to be 3rd person because legally that's not going to do me any good e.g. what if I'm pregnant and so on

A relationship with a marry person/ male/female would never get any where! something that is based on cheating can not be honest...that is my opinion any way.

There is nothing wrong loving someone. love is free and everyone can love anyone freely. But, having that person as your own and having an affair and making his family mess...that's where the problem starts then. So,we better avoid having an elicit affair. have a good day

I haven't been in a situation like this too but I would just back off. But the thing is, I would try not to fall for someone who was already married in the first place. I would never do anything to break other families. I have seen how bad it gets when someone cheats and whatnots. I could never and would never do anything like that.

I think if i in that kind of situation i will just end up my relationship with him because it will hurt me more that i'm just a mistress or his other woman. I also want o be the only girl on his life. I will also ruined a family if i will continue my relationship in that kind of man and i will also think that after we see each other he will still go home on his legal wife.

I would do nothing to be with him. I will do everything just so i could stay away from him and not see him, nor talk to the person. even if I love the person.. i would not want to be the one who would break up any relationship. I know how it feels to be in a relationship where there is a third party and it would really break your heart.

I am married and I am one of those who do not advocate such kind of relationship. My husband and I was in a roller coaster relationship because of his little affairs. Can you imagine the pain knowing that your husband whom you love and trust is fooling around?. He is mending his ways but the pain is still there and it is so hard for me to trust and love him the way I should.:-( If I were that woman, for the life of me and the life of those whom she is about to ruin, I'll shun awa y from the relationship or even better avoid the man through all possible means.He is married, there'll be no future waiting for us. Plus, how would I know if it is truly love he feels for me, maybe, he just wants a break from his family life and I am just an option. Because at the end, the one whom he married is still the person that matters to him. But, if I am SELFISH, STUPID, CRAZY, HEARTLESS, enough, yes, I'd go for it. And hopefully I can sleep peaceful at night. I'd chase him and be ready to live a life full of guilt. So, where is happiness to that? Just put yourself on the wife's shoes. What and how would you feel if you are the one being fooled and abandoned because of a heartless b***hy woman.

Stay away, of course. I don't want to be the cause of a failed marriage, especially when they have kids. Also, I owe it to my self to have relationship that I would be open about, not something that needs to be hidden. Besides, where I live, it is a crime to be in an adulterous relationship. And, more importantly, it is a sin against God to do that. If I need to compromise my faith because of something, I would have to think hard about it. Also, I don't like doing things that would give shame to my family, especially my parents.

Leave him asap as I would not want to be tangled up in such type situation. I can't share my partner and anyone saying they are planning on getting divorce, well let's just say that he can call to see if I am still available after the divorce but I would not be waiting around. I must be number one as I would definitely make my partner number one, so I would find some strength and let him go. I believe in the saying that sometimes you have to love someone enough to let them go!

I would stay away of course, because I know how hard can be to a family be destroy because someone cheated on the partner. And, I would not like to be the reason why a family fall apart, specially when they have kids. Also, if the guy start a relationship being married, it means that he isn't a trustable guy.

I would never approach him in a flirting manner. It's better to leave it at that than be a home wrecker. Perhaps he is married and he could be happy with his wife, family and it's not fair to go for him just because I want him for myself.