My aunty's travails

Saudi Arabia
October 8, 2011 2:36am CST
I am very sad currently and i have been crying since two days ago. It happened this way; My mum called my on Thursday and told me that my aunties husband just died suddenly. That is sad but what made it extremely sad was the fact that this my aunty got married four months ago. She was 35years old when she got married .All her younger sisters got married before her and finally four months ago she was able to get married and she became pregnant immediately. And this happening to her again just make me feel like this world is so cruel, I feel like this life is worthless and is full of too much pain. she is my aunty but she lived with my mum since she was small and in fact it was until i became old that i knew that she was not my sister.We are so close and it pains me to see all these that she is going through. I don't even know what to say to her, how to comfort her and i just keep crying. Now she is going to give birth to her child without her husband. and after that where does she start again? Start searching for another husband or just practically remain unmarried for the rest of her life.
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@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
8 Oct 11
She'll need a lot of emotional support at this time. Since you're close to her, maybe you might want to be with her during this time (if you can spare the time)? It's hard to accept sth like that, esp when she's newly married and is pregnant.
• Saudi Arabia
8 Oct 11
One of the reasons why i am feeling so bad is that i am not in my country now while she is there.
• Singapore
16 Oct 11
OIC...maybe u can give her a call then? Or send her an email? Or talk to her via skype or MSN!
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
9 Oct 11
Wow!! I cannot imagine. Being married only 4 months, and pregnant and loose your husband. Not a good thing to have to endure, and a hard thing for sure. I will definately pray for her, and know God is in control and will help her. It might be a rough decision and time right now trying to figure everything out what is Best from here. All you can be is a Big support and comfort her thru this loss.
• Saudi Arabia
9 Oct 11
Thank you for your kind words.