Emotionally battered!

I am not really sure how the way your husband hurts you emotionally, but let me give you some little advice. I hope I will be able to help you even in a small little way. First of all, you have to open up this issue with him. Talk to him in a nice way with calm voice. Tell him that "you're deeply hurt by the way you're acting right now. You're not anymore the kind of person that I have met before. I did love you because I found out that you're a good and loving person and now everything has changed." The above phrases are only some of the possible conversations that you can use in talking with him. This would somehow give him a warning and notification that you are slowly seeing negative feedback from him. Now I am not really sure how long has your relationship been with him right now. But just in case you are living together for so long already and yet you are still emotionally battered, then I think you need to teach him some lessons. You will move apart from him temporarily. If you have children, you can take them with you especially if he is really a verbally abusive person. You are only going to do this to teach him and make him realize that what he is doing right now is wrong. You will just come back with him unless he has already changed his attitude. Never attempt to separate with him. You are only doing this to teach him some lesson. If you see that he has already changed and worth being together again, then you can go back to the house and stay with your partner again. This type of relationship is not really healthy and I know it will go nowhere if your partner continuously battered you emotionally over and over again. If you are legally married with him, then you have to accept him for who he is with all your heart. Never attempt to separate with him. The only thing you can do here is to help him change to be a good and better person. Everybody deserves to be forgiven. No matter how bad your partner is, you should still be able to forgive him, just like GOD wants us to do. We should forgive so that our Father in heaven will also forgive us. Another thing also, try to figure out what is the main reason why your partner is acting like that. Does he feel that you are not sweet anymore to him? Does he feel something unfavorable to you or maybe your relationship with him is slowly getting colder. You should unstoppably love him and let him feel that you are still in love with him. Make him feel important and be a good partner or wife to him. In that case, perhaps he will realize that he should also put some effort to treat you very nice like a princess. There are also other possible reasons, why he is acting like that to you. You should find it out by yourself and investigate further. The solutions are there in your hands. I just hope everything would really turn out okay from your end. I know it is really hard to be in that kind of situation, especially if you are already committed and legally married with children. Stay positive and keep moving. Never give up and always put GOD in the center of your heart. Whatever your problem maybe, if you put GOD first and ask for some help from HIM, I am 100% sure that he will never forsake you nor leave you. Take good care always and happy mylotting! GOD speed!

I know a friend that is treated the same by her partner and i will say that at one stage she felt worthless.Worthless is the way he made her feel, he made her feel that he was the only person that would ever want her, he was with her as he felt sorry for her, she was no good at anything and she was a mes.What she done was dolled her self up, get her self asteam back and showed him that other people were interested in her and that she was more than what he was saying, now he feel that he is the one that is worthless and surplus to requirements.

Your problem, similar to what I experienced. I also always feel afraid. Before my husband came home, I have to make sure, I do not make mistakes. Because, a little mistake I did, my husband would get angry. I can not advise you, because I experienced the same thing with you. If you have the courage to say what you feel to your husband. What I do for this, I just make sure, I do not make mistakes, although sometimes I still make mistakes, according to my husband.

why not have a loving talk with your husband about it. Choose the proper timing, when he seems happy and then talk about it. There must be an explanation for this. It's really a depressing situation if your partner is constantly battering you with negative feedbacks. If you can, leave the abode as well as your partner.