Is it rude to ignore your husband/wife sometimes

Of course your not a big meanie...lol...I get very irritated at my b/f sometimes. Especially when we are watching a movie. Sometimes there is a scene during the movie that reminds him of a story Then he wants to tell it right in the middle of the movie Imagine the things that I want to say....I am usually quiet and listen attentively but sometimes I can't help but to say "Shhhhh"

That is rude! You are a big meanie! I think if two are married they need to share. If you want him to be interested in things of yours you need to show him the same respect. Communication and honesty are very imporatant. If you don't feel like it express that but try to do it with some tact and feeling.

There are many times I am like this, and I think in reality it is only natural. There are times when my husband will insist on talking or something and finally I am like I am not interested, so I am going downstairs to my office, when in reality I would rather be spending time with him if it was my days off, but sometimes he is just being so unreal.

I guess. You are being mean but you just keep it to yourself. If that's it, I think you are still very concerned that you might hurt the feelings of your partner so you just keep quiet about it. My Husband does that too, especially when he's watching Basketball. He would call me out of whatever I'm doing just to tell me about that rebound or the scores or the fouls made. hahahah. although I'm not really into sports and I don't usually understand what he's trying to say, I just nod and ask him about the game even if sometimes I'm not really interested. I don't want to offend him or hurt his feelings in anyway so I just listen to every word he says and agrees to whatever he's talking about.

Oh, course you're not but doing it often may hurt your husband or partner. I do ignore my hubby for a while but as i soon I come on again, I make up for my being rude. Marriage is a two way partnership, if one is mean, the other should be sweet. Don't play the mean way all the time but the sweet way to make your life more meaningful with each other.

LOL oh I know what you mean..sometime my husband makes a comment and then I miss the next line of what is said...It's a tough one since you want him to enjoy himself and you like that he wants to share with you. However, resentment can also build if you stay quiet too long and it could then spill out..and your poor husband would say be surprised and ask ‘why didn't you tell me this before' I have had a talk with my husband about this and he tries but sometimes forgets. THEN he catches me doing the same to him..lol it's often a two way street... No you are not a big or even little meanie..you are human

Then I know the importance of mutual understanding. For him, I guess he just wanted to share the wonderful moment(in his opinion) with you, as you are his nearest and dearest person, and he was really happy and excited that time. For you, I guess you might feel tired that moment, or not interested in the sport, or just concerned on your own things etc. So just communicate with each other and find a way both can accept. Good luck to you.

sometime we will be irritated ,he our partner is dominating us in everything. You should say to him now itself that you foot like the way what he is doing. If you dont say it now you have to regret lifelong.

if it is an all the time thing then yes.....it is very rude. many people will say that it is rude. I am not married but i live with my boyfriend and have for over 6 months some times i do not even mean to ignore him i just tune him out lol. I do love him alot. I think ignoring is sometimes okay i think it is less rude to ignore than say something like and why should i care or something like that

I think it would be better to say that you are not interested than to just keep quite and ignore him. Let him know so that he will at least be sensitive to you after that. Maybe if it is for the first time , it's good to seat down and watch what he wanted you to watch with him. Maybe it's his way of letting you get into his world.His way of getting your attention to something that he is interested. Then if you really find it annoying according to your standard ,maybe the next time he will ask you to watch or listen , you can simply say that you are not interested. In that way, you will not appear rude to him.

yes it is rude to ignore husband or wife sometimes and you feel as if u have been bounded by the circumstances to be compelled to do that.Me not married now but in relationship for a year or so have experienced it,my boyfriend sometimes do this things of ignoring me or my calls and i get so pissed off at tha time .But afterwards when he tells me the reason then i fell contended that it was for our good not individual good like when his mother is arroud and i call him up he cant pic his phone and just cut it,So this truth of life i have understood the hard way and now i understand that how much communication is important for a relation to survive the test of time.If a little bit of alternative informing methods are used between the couple then it could save them the unnecessary quarrel. NO meanness in that it is the basic human tendency to be appreciated by his mate and the other person long for it.Remember all is possible in love and war