Do you love problems?
By JosephP
@JosephP (1116)
Jamaica
October 10, 2011 1:32am CST
Problem solvers are, without a doubt, extremely valuable people. They make bad situations get better. However, if there were no problems, these people would no longer be as valuable. They would have nothing to fix. They would be without purpose. Are you a good problem solver? Do you enjoy problems?
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10 responses
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
10 Oct 11
Well the funny thing about me is, I am a very good problem solver when it is of other people. My own problems, I am not really good at handling them. One of my best friends come to me whenever she has problems and we sort it out together and I have helped her so many times. But when it comes to my problems, I don't know, maybe I get too worried or whatever and so cannot think straight and will need my sister's assistance.
And no I don't enjoy problems.
@vasumathi (436)
• India
10 Oct 11
I agree with you. I am a good problem solver, in handling other problems but when it comes to my problem, i am not that good
@fabsprecious (1565)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Personally I am not a good problem solver, I actually try to stay away from problems and/or try avoiding them. I tend to get a bit aggitated and edgy when I am involved in a problem I can't resolve, even if it's the easiest thing on earth, I just don't like them.
@sanofer (525)
• India
10 Oct 11
no one will like to face problems.but many will face problem and they will not be able to solve it and they will feel as if the world has stopped after that problem.but i am not like that.i will sit and think what went wrong and i will try to correct it.so the problem is solved and i can smile happily.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
10 Oct 11
I am great in solving problems. The reason is I had all kind of life experiences and my character is not to sit and wait till someone else will solve my problem.
Interesting thing about problem solvers (the ones who get payed to do so) is that mostly they are not able to solve their own problems at all.
I truely believe everybody can do what they do.
We all see what is going on if it something happens to anyone else. A good example for that is if you watch a movie or soap. We know what is going on, what will happen and how it ends.
If you take some distance from your own problems, pretend they are not yours but somebody elses you know exactly how to solve them.
So my advice to those who can't solve their problems: look at your problem/life as if it's a movie or show or play. Look at the characters/actors, their behaviour, what would you do? And give it some time.
It's seldom worth the money to pay a problem solver because if you are not the one and willing to solve it they won't be able to do so either.
@jomarie2011 (48)
• Sweden
10 Oct 11
Nobody loves problems for sure as nobody wants headache, something to think about or bother oneself. I myself, doesn't love it either, but I just have my own way of finding solutions to my problems and always look at the brighter side of it.. Everything happens or comes for a reason, for a purpose.. so rather than make yourself so stressed having those problems, why not learn to see the brighter side of it, just don't give up as every problem has its own solution. it may not come that easy, but you just have to be patient to look for it.. and once you surpassed that situation, it feels more relieving and would even make you a better and stronger person.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
I might be classified as one of those problem solvers. I am used to people coming to me to have my opinion as to how to face their problems. However, i do not love problems. How I wish I can unload them all so very easily. Neither do I make money handling those consultations - i give them all for free.
My life's value though is not on being a good problem solver. I handle lots of matters in my family life. Both in the family that i have founded and in the family where I was born to.
It is paradoxical that in my own life, although i know how to deal with my problems, i always find it so very difficult to bring them to getting resolved. Always, tears are my best friends when I get deep into some problems...prayers come soon next.
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
10 Oct 11
Well, in this case it depends on the problem. I am a bit of a problem solver, when there's a maths or physics problem, I would always spend heaps of time to try and solve it. If there's a difficult puzzle in a video game, I would concentrate really hard and try to solve the puzzle. I like solving problems between friends and their issues. Now if these problems dig a little deeper like finance, or really bad family issues like divorce, I don't think I would want to get involved. These problems however would bring me down and make me feel a little depressed. So for me, it depends on the problem, a small problem like a maths question is great but big problems I don't like.
@writersolutions10 (497)
• India
10 Oct 11
Everyone has love problems.. but we need to solve it and go ahead in our lifes.. Don't worry about and waste your life..
@ores12 (53)
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10 Oct 11
I am not good at my own problems nut the problem is I am good at solving somebody problem. I want to solved my own problems, no one to help just me I want to prove I can solve my problems w/out there help. I wish I can be dependent to my problem but I can't I need somebody by my side who gave me advices make me laugh etcetera etcetera. I need help to those people who are close to me. They will only help me by supporting me and always there beside me. Only me can solve my problems