How often do you fall in love ?
By edumate
@rollylolly (2843)
India
October 10, 2011 12:01pm CST
I read in paper that a film actress of our country recently in an interview revealed that from her teenage years had been suffering from a weird disease . She often falls in love . It takes not much time for her to forget him and start a new affair . From her adolscence till now she has fallen in love innumerable times . Have you ever met such a person in your life ?
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
10 Oct 11
Oh yeah for me I often falls to and then feeling to go away as you came.
I know that many people find it strange but I really know how to feel love today and tomorrow anymore.
but I think that feeling is until we find one true love, true love to you that appears in various ways.
I found this guy and moiet couples to tell you to stop there is some flirting between me and other men only to the eyes and that's it
Many thanks for this discussion.
Have a nice day!
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
13 Oct 11
Hello nezavisima thanks for your response . Oh no you too fall in this category . Hope you get out of this condition soon . Hope you find true love soon . All the best
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@HosmanF (92)
• Belgium
10 Oct 11
Good evening dear Rollylolly , wow , i have to be really honest with you , from what i have readen from what you say about your friend ,i have gotten the impression that it is not that she has nor a diseease neither is she falling in love every time, but rather my theory is that this friend of yours , once loved a person with the whole heart , soul and body , her feelings towards that person where soo strong and truthfull , that now , every person that she gets personally and emotionally involved she automatically transferr those strong and powerfull feelings she once had for that person from her pasted , transferred towards this new person in her life , thats why she and those around her have the impression the that she might be sick for falling so eassilly , but thas not entirely a true assumption , rather she is a normall person , like everyone , who simply has not control towards what she feells.
Have a great evening dear Rollylolly , and try not to worry about your friend , she is totally OK.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
10 Oct 11
Thanks for your analysis HosmanF . She is not my friend but a leading film actress of our country .
@itreview234 (1)
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11 Oct 11
Love easy come, but hard to go. :)
I never fail in love. Anyone can come and go in my love world until i get a special one.
@itsmetrish1 (17)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Hi there, This is someone that I believe 1st off does NOT have a disease. Number 2, I do not believe she knows what "in love" really is. Reason being I believe it is rare to find someone whom you are truly in love with. And for her to think she has been in love countless times is a little far fetched. There is a huge difference in loving someone or being in love! Sometimes I think people confuse infatuation or even just lust for love. The comment that she quickly gets over them and moves on to the next leaves me with a very strong assumption that this is not even love much less "in love." I am 44 years old was married for 13 years and now have been divorced for 12 years now. I have dates countless men and had 1-8year relationship and 1-2 year relationship. I did love the man with the 8 yr but was not "in love" thus we never married. I was "in love" with the 2yr relationship, but he has now passed. I believe maybe she wants to be in love so badly that maybe she makes herself believe that she is in love with that person. When in reality she is just trying to fill a void in her life. Sometimes some people really have to learn to be alone and be happy with themselves then the rest will fall into place. Hope my input cleared up some questions for you.
Always smile,
Trish
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
18 Oct 11
Hi!
You see she is an actress and she can say any damn thing and it will be published. I find that newspapers/magazines and even electronic media is mad after film fraternity. They would publish any thing about a film actress or actor, even if he meant to convey something else. Their one line statements are elaborated and converted into a full fledged articles. May be, many love to read such things.
I have not heard of this kind of disease where one keep falling in love again and again .....
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
19 Oct 11
This story may be an exaggerated feature in the media but trust me there are people like this . I found quite a few admitting in this discussion itself . This is funny but a malady indeed and I have heard it infectious toooo
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
15 Oct 11
I think people should be clear on actually really falling in love from just being attracted to someone. My friend always say she is in love but she really is not. I have been with just one guy and I could honestly say that I started to really love him after the first year of our relationship.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
19 Oct 11
Yes they fail to understand what is love and what is mere attraction . Good luck to you
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
Falling in love is in the mind not in the body, well that's just my opinion. Though it must be both physical and mental attraction, love is well a feeling that makes you uneasy but happy. I wouldn't say that what you mentioned is love, but just a mere obsession, when you really love someone it is really hard to move on because there is a time when you think that you are the only two that lives in this world. It would take much time to move on and there is still the remnants of the memories you shared together, that you can't easily forget or abandon.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
11 Oct 11
Hi viney , you are right . It is a mere obsession and no true love . It's hard to forget love even it entails a lot of suffering . This is no doubt a momentary infatuation which has less or nil involvement of heart .
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
15 Oct 11
I've under obsession twice and that time when im still obsessed with those girls i really said that it is true love, but now everything is clear, i can now proudly say that i thank myself not really having to go out with them, cause it will seem like im fooling myself.
@HellsButcher27 (473)
• United States
10 Oct 11
I fall in love every time I look into my fiancee's eyes. It's a feeling of love and hope and I wouldn't trade that feeling for anything nor would I trade her for anything or anyone. The article you read in the paper is true. I have seen some cases like this but I wouldn't call it a disease. I mean how somebody claim they love someone and a week later they will be with someone different and be completely over the person they broke up with. It sounds more like she just don't know what she wants or she's just really bad with relationships. Some people would look at her and call her a Wh0re. I don't think it's love because when you fall in love with someone, You usually want to spend your life with them. It's not for me to say whether it's true or not because I am not sure, but I really doubt it's love.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
11 Oct 11
Good to know your about your deep love for lover . Yes these people are inconsistent in love and therefore it their love is not true .
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
10 Oct 11
I have been in love twice and at the same time! It sucked and I loved the two men for two different reasons! Neither relationship worked and I have looked for love since. I will tell you I will never be in love again! I think love is not for me and it is over rated! So I don't date and am better off being alone for the rest of my life! I truly think if I was meant for love it would of happened along time ago!
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
12 Oct 11
Hi blue , I think you got hurt so you say so . If God wants you will fall in love again and be happy . I can understand your stand point . Be happy and smile always .
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
I think some people do fall in love easily and also fall out of love that easy.
How do I often fall in love?
Twice only...not to mention our loved ones.
Yes, I once fall in love and lost him, and now I found another love after a very long time...
I even thought I would never love again...
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
10 Oct 11
Thanks for sharing your view . Good to hear that you found love again . Some are not very serious in such affairs so it is easy for them to fall in and fall out very easily .
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
21 Oct 11
I am not sure it is actually love some people are really feeling. I do know some people offline that I swear each time I see them, they are with someone new and say they are in love.
I think it is more like being in love with the concept of love then actually being in love with the person. I know we cannot control our hearts but I also feel that I can't actually be in love with a different person too often.
So maybe it is the feeling of wanting to be in a good relationship that they mistaken infatuation with love.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
21 Oct 11
Thanks HWG for your response . I agree with you that it is definitely not love but momentary attraction . I too see many friends and acquaintances changing partners now and then and saying that they are in love . This can not be love but it can only be infatuation .
@Lucyalicia92 (670)
• United States
10 Oct 11
a disease? lol I haven't heard that one yet. I have only fallen in love once, it was the most painful experience I've gone through. I was 12 years old, and I'm 19 now. I know it was very young, and it was unrequited. I don't know when it struck me that I was in love but I certainly didn't know the year we were friends. we were only friends one school year but it took me about 3 years to forget them. I had no physical relationship with them at all but I fell in love with them. It certainly makes me think twice when people move on that fast, if you can forget somebody that easily then I do question if it was really love. It took me over 3 years to forget someone and it was brutally painful.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
12 Oct 11
You are right that if it was true love then one cannot move so fast . It's easy to break relationships but not easy to forget so fast . Thanks for your response .
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
10 Oct 11
Hello rollylolly,
I think she needs to understand difference in infatuation and love.
i think there are lot of people who get attracted to the people when they are immature and say they are in love but when they get mature they say how fool they were.
I have met lot of such people in my life and think doctors should invent medicines for tehm as these people comes in depression very easily when the person whom they claim they love deny that he/she don't love him/her.
BTW whats the name of that actress?
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
11 Oct 11
I think you have rightly analysed her character . It came in one gossip magazine .
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
10 Oct 11
Some people easily fall in love, others don't.
Some fall in love because of the falling in love itself. So they just go out and spot the first one they could like and make everything on that person perfect.
I met 2 person like that (both female). Crying for 1 hour if it's over and falling in love from one moment to the other. One of them was also able to catch the friend of the ex. And again the friend of her new ex and so on. Also interesting; they all stayed friends and probably the guys don't care they all had her.
Perhaps it's a hormone issue or just the fear to be alone.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
12 Oct 11
Ya you are right . I think these people are fickle minded and don't have commitments . They feel lonely and seek attention all the time . This is no love but momentary infatuation .
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
14 Oct 11
Yes it is sad but true that she is breaking hearts in the process .
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
15 Oct 11
I think people should be clear on actually really falling in love from just being attracted to someone. My friend always say she is in love but she really is not. I have been with just one guy and I could honestly say that I started to really love him after the first year of our relationship.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
14 Oct 11
She is strange . Most of us fall in love once or twice . Good to know about your story .
@rojarfranklin (35)
•
14 Oct 11
still now not meet such one. if i meet in i will not respond to them