This time I was offended!( a rant)

If someone on the Lot is saying that to you, you should report them. If it is 'so called friends', then they are not worth even thinking about.

You are not a wh@re, you're a realist. There is nothing wrong with it. Who ever implied that should take a look at themselves. No one in this world is perfect, we weren't meant to be. Yes, married couples are committed, some to each other and others to an asylum. I know because I have been there and done that. It is not worth it. I agree with you, I would pick love over marriage any day of the week. Some religious people tend to have a warped ensue of things, I don't get it. But let it go, you know who you are. To me you're a good person that sees things for what they are.

Since it is your life and it should be your choice. It is fine that you don't get married. Nobody can interfere you in this point. And it is very wrong to judge you as a wh@re since you don't get married. But on the contrary, you shall not feel mad to it. Since you should not punish yourself with your anger because a stupid person's words. I love China

Well, you need love and affection when you found a right guy which accept you as you are and love what you are... The beauty of life is to be love and be love...find the guy which is giving important in life. Which makes you her queen and make you especial in his heart

that isnt fare! you have the right to be angry if you are called that. but we all know that a who@re asks money every time she gives her service. so just by the definition, you are not that at all. gosh! am ranting too. you are contagious.

Wh..ore? But I thought you were a one man woman! Are you hiding something from us sara...

Are the people saying this supposed Christians? Jesus Christ said that those who judge others judge him. Judging another Christian is a very un-Christian thing to do. Remind them that what they are saying to you is against their religion, and that might shut them up.

hi sarahruthbeth Whoever did that should be reported as mylot is no place for phony Christians to be judging others. God said Judge not lest ye be judged. You have the right to live your life the way you see fit and if marriage is not for you that's your own decision.Mylot is not a place to air that kind of thing at all. She or he insulted you and you have a perfect right to hit the report button on that. While I am all for \marriage I am also a person who says live and let live. So if some do not wish to marry,that is their business and makes them just as good as any other person. It is not up to me to be judging anyone at all.

Oh my...I don't think that anyone should be called names or told they are "going to hell" because they don't follow a certain belief or tradition. To be honest...I hate so much to hear that you have been treated so. No one has the right to say you are going to hell. If they are Christians, they know it is not their place to judge or decide where anyone is going. As far as the marriage thing..well..it doesn't fit into everyone's dreams so because one stands to be different..I'm thinking the name wh@re might be a bit outdated. Women are becoming more empowered by the day and part of that empowerment is being able to imagine growing up and not having to get married right away..or ever if that is what she wants. Perception can be very narrowed when people only know one way of life.

Glad to read that you are feeling much better at the end of your discussion. Implied or not, people shouldn't be judging other people. I'm sure that if we get down to it, everybody has some stink they are trying to hide. And I think some people think that the best way to cover up their stink is to start calling other people names. Respect is a word. And people should learn this word when it comes to other people's belief.

People have different opinions about things , but they don't have to hurt the feelings of somebody just to have it expressed. If she was your friend, then she could have lovingly reprimanded you about not getting married eventually, despite the fact that you have live-in with the guy, but not call you that!

I do not understand. Who calls you the W word, does it in your face or in your back? It is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. When I first read your post, I thought you would be from one of those countries where women are treated still like rubbish and belong to his husband who can trade them for a camel if they want to. But when I read your profile and saw you are from a country where supposedly people have fought for their rights, it comes to my mind how hypocrite and decadent occidental world is. I know loads that live together and don't get married. Marriage is obsolete, you don't need a piece of paper to prove your love, and plus it's your life! Do you live surrounded by Jehova Witnesses or what? lol Seriously, the situation is completely ridiculous. I thought United States was secularized enough to avoid this kind of behaviour. I guess it depends of the state? Well, I hope yours gets secularized eventually. It's the best for all.

i think you are right at some point of time.. but marriage is needed to show your love and move on..

Each person has their own beliefs and morals. Personally, I have been with the same man for almost 12 years. We were married after 2 years and divorced 5 years after we were married. We are still together, still happy and still in love. Marriage just was not for us. If that means I am going to hell, then I guess thats my destiny. But in the mean time, my children are happy, he and I are happy and life moves on. Those who place labels and judge others should take a step back and look at their religion. If they are Christian they are not supposed to judge others anyway. Life is what You make of it, not what others think. As long as your happy I say on in your life! I dont know you personally but I'll support your choice! Best of luck!