How to convince people to join Mylot?
By rappeter13
@rappeter13 (8608)
Romania
October 11, 2011 3:19pm CST
I am struggling to make my friends join Mylot, so I am turning to you, people who have referred others to Mylot.
How did you manage to make them join as your referral and how did you make them be and stay active?
Any help is welcome and will be appreciated!
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9 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Not an easy task my friend as I do not have any of my personal offline friends as referrals. Although several of my offline friends spend a great deal of time online and on Facebook, who are people always complaining that they need money, still they will not join here.
The only thing I can suggest is that if you have any interesting discussions you perhaps want your friends to view along with your payment proof that might encourage them.
You can send the URL of a discussion to them and have then then if interested sign up under you. Continue to tell them if they are Facebook users that they could virtually be doing the same here and earn while on Facebook they are not, that might get them to join.
But remember guidance is important, because just signing up and not participating will not earn you the referral earnings. So guiding them gets them on the right path.
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
11 Oct 11
It is very strange how they think, it really is. Of course, not every of my friends know English, but there are several who know English at a very high level, they are way more better than I am, but they still won't join.
I will try your advice, let's see if it works. Maybe I will have success and maybe they will become valuable members of this wonderful community.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Oct 11
If anyone joins assure them, that there are so many helpful members here. I for one would not have stayed around if it were not for the vets. 
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
11 Oct 11
So you are convinced that if a person feels appreciated, he would be more active here, rather than being motivated by the income this site can do?
I feel the same way, but is very hard to make them do the first steps, because after they "start walking" the things go by themselves.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
11 Oct 11
I guess they are not interested enough and feel that on Internet they should earn hundreds of dollars in a few minutes. They are skeptical and prefer not to try this out. What bothers me is that the majority of them are spending a lot of time on facebook and other social networks and don't get anything for that.
I guess I have to settle with no referrals.
Anyway, thanks for your advice.
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
14 Oct 11
Well i know that isn't easy to convince people to enter in Mylot. Also ex in my case no all people that i know, they can't speack english very well.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
15 Oct 11
Yes, the lack of English knowledge can be a real problem. If a person doesn't know any English, it is understandable not wanting to join Mylot.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
11 Oct 11
to this discussion is very useful for many well done that you think of to make it.
I know how you feel when you say that there is a site where I write and I pay for all my discussion of my every word Kakko said they do not believe me.
say they do not believe these things are fabrications and suchlike nonsense.
perhaps the only way to really believe that any site is to show them personally what it is all about.
I already do not believe so I call it home show and he just closes his mouth.
I wish you could manage to convince your friends.
successful and enjoyable day!
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
12 Oct 11
I guess the main problem is that the majority of people want hundreds and thousands of dollars for a few minutes spent on the Internet. I know that there are a few lucky ones who are earning very well from the Internet for only a few minutes work a day, but those have also worked hard in the beginning, and now they only cherish the fruits of their hard works. Maybe we will be in the same position some day, we may never know what wonderful opportunities we might get, maybe even through mylot.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Oct 11
It is not a friend.
many people want with very little work and even if they do not work to earn lots of money but it is not easy.
and therefore sometimes do not believe that even a little each day you can make a profit without bother.
your absolutely right, the more friends and spend more time here do not know with whom you can meet and what options may appear before us.
you just have to be optimistic.
Have a nice day!
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
12 Oct 11
Hello Rappeter,
Getting referral is a tough task and making them active is even more tougher
.I don't try much to get referrals i just simply left my referral id on one of the social site which gave me around 10 referrals but none of them is active at present.
I tried my best to make then active through PMs but everything got in vain as i could not made them active.
But this is for sure to convince someone to join any online site is a difficult task as people don't easily believe and think that it may be another scam site.
.I don't try much to get referrals i just simply left my referral id on one of the social site which gave me around 10 referrals but none of them is active at present.
I tried my best to make then active through PMs but everything got in vain as i could not made them active.
But this is for sure to convince someone to join any online site is a difficult task as people don't easily believe and think that it may be another scam site.@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
12 Oct 11
Yes, this is my experience, even people from here who asked for some of my reflinks haven't even replied, and I see no new names in my downlines at other sites. There are exceptions also, and I am really thankful to them, but exceptions make the rule even stronger.
I wish I could do anything to change this, but unfortunately I can't.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
13 Oct 11
Hello friend, actually I dont have problem convincing people how good mylot is, I tell my friends that we can learn and practice English here. Because English is not well spoken in my country and sometime we find it hard to practice our English, some people loves to bash at other people who is trying to practice English and mocking at the wrong grammar. I mean, actually I dont mind to be corrected but not to be laughed at, it is really discouraged me. so when i tell people about mylot, they give positive reactions but the problem is that they dont have a paypal account to join here. to open paypal account we need a bank account, and to open a bank account is expensive here, we need about $50 and not everyone can afford it. well I have 1 referal but she is not too active because she has baby, and actually she is my tutor :D
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
14 Oct 11
If somebody tries to correct you with the purpose of helping you, I think you are happy, because you will try to learn that grammar rule. But if somebody will mock when you do a mistake, it makes you angry. That is totally okay, I am the same also. I never mock about others who are not so good, because I make mistakes also, and my English knowledge is not flawless by any means.
I didn't know that in Indonesia is so complicated to open a Paypal account, but you just have to adapt. I wish my friends would be so eager to learn English and be paid for that, because there is no Paypal problem here, opening one is free.
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@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
15 Oct 11
So what would be a problem not to afford an Elite English Course? I think those people who say this things deserve to suffer a major downfall and experience what is like when you don't have anything or almost nothing.
You are 100% right, even if we learn something, without practice, we start to forget. So don't really pay attention to those negative remarks and do your job in your own way.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 11
Yes that what I feel when I joined a local forum, they have a subforum called English Only but I feel not comfort to stay there because the attitude of the users. The way they mocking at other who is not really good in English is like this "oh I guess you are too poor to afford elite English Course" something like that, I think even if we take an English Course in elite course we still need to practice it, right? I hope you will find an active referal for you.
@khithi17 (762)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
It's better if you start with friends. They are the easiest ones to encourage to sign up as your referral. It's also a big help if you already have your own payment proof that you can show them for them to be interested. most of the people won't sign up until they see some proof that they can really earn and they should really invest their time on mylot.
hope you get a lot of referrals.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 11
It doesn't work for me with my friends. I've told them to join mylot and all they said was, they aren't interested in writing. When they have uttered such negative reply, I feel disappointed as they have not tried out this site before jumping into conclusion. It takes like-minded people to enjoy this site and I've not found any of my friends who share my interest. I wouldn't want to convince others as I know it is not easy to give a lengthy explanations when at the end of the day they just refuse to join in.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
12 Oct 11
Yes, I think nobody sees the potential which is in mylot nor in any other sites. I wish they would join and be active for a few reason: I would make more money and I would have some people who would certainly share my interests and we could talk many interesting stuff here and would have other members participate also.
It would be fun and it would generate me more money also.
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
12 Oct 11
If I will find any good solution, I will inform you, you can count on that.
