running into an ex

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so my family and i had to attend a funeral the other day, it was my mother, my sister, my fiance and myself. when we got to the calling hours we went in and saw everyone but then my fiance and i walked back out side because a bunch of my friends were there. at first all was cool then my one of my friends kept looking at me then at his car and back at me, so on and so forth. so i look over and my friend heather was in the front seat, i was all like ok cool and walked over and started talking to her...then i looked in the back seat and there sat one of my exes. long story short one of my friends hooked us up then got jealous and told my ex (for this we will call him jay) anyway my friend started telling jay that i was sleeping with all these other guys... i was still a virgin... anyway jay believed my friend over me and broke up with me over facebook knowing that i didnt have internet at the time. so i heard through the grape vine and had to call someone to let me us their computer. sure enough there it was in big bold letters staring me in the face... we were together over 2 years and it was just over. about a year later we started talking again until i found out the only reason he was talking to me was because he wanted to sleep with me. we got in a huge fight and never spoke again. so like i was saying i saw him the other day and for whatever reason my heartrate picked up and i was like oh crap... i waved real quick to be nice and practically ran away... but then every time i turned around he was right there... but he never spoke just stared. i was so glad when it was all over and we went home but also kind of upset for some reason... i havent thought about him in over a year and ever since that day i havent been able to get him out of my head...for somereason this feels like trouble. what can i do? have you ever ran into your ex unexpectedly? how did you handle it? im completely lost here because i am on good terms with the rest of my exes and we actually hang out all the time.