Character

I meant *it wasn't just right for me*

True, in the normal course of life, this is the way it works. Initially we get influenced by someone or something which we think it is fine. Also, as and when we grow, we get many option which are good as well as bad. Once we start realise the things properly or start facing the real facts directly we polish them as per our requirement to manage a better life. I think this is how it works.

Hi, I really enjoyed your words and you are true that if we cannot fulfill our words, we have no value. Our value in most cases depend on what we speak and how it make impact on others. Just like you, even I chose my father as the best model for my life. He influenced me a lot and I love him a lot, and a lot more.

Great! so each day is a new opportunity that we have to show our love to our parents. Let's pay back all their love and good examples, all the lessons learned, giving him a phone call, helping him on doing something like maybe washing his car, or whatever that thing that can show our love and respect for him.

Hi, Most moms are so sweet for everyone and only because of this reason, most people simply accept mom's life in their life for a sincere life. Thanks for your comments.

Hi, You have covered a full episode with few words. To become a great personality, your words so worthy and someone follow this way can reach their destination so successfully. Thanks for your words. Thank-s

Hi dear, I got a nice response. I like it and I think you told a truth. Thank-s

Yes, most people do it because everyone want to improve and acquiring some good nature and character is part of the same and this clearly indicates that we think positive and always desired to improve to a better levels. Thanks for your comments.

Yes, we accept things when we are getting shaped and once we become stiff and bold, we shape them as per our requirement. This is the way it works.

You come more close to me. As you said, for me, my father is the best selected model person in my life. Also, he used to drink and only because of this nature, we become hopeless. But as a person and model, he had got a lot of acceptable qualities as a person. Though he used to drink, he was harmless and he had to do it as he was doing such a job which was so complicated and need more care and attention. He was a nice father and taught many good things in life. Only because he used to drink, I never tasted it. Looking on his nature, it was my first decision not to drink in my life and I follow still now. This is the way he influenced my life and as you said, accept the things what we feel good and not just a copy & paste.

When it comes to idolization, it can be foolishness but when we grow we get inspired by something or someone. I think many people have a silent inspiration (sometimes unknowingly) it creates an intention in our mind to get more polished. For an example, I am having a lot of characteristics what my father had. Not as he is my father, but I realised many acceptable principles and characters which he had. If we choose and select such ideologies from certain experts and known people, it not at all bad because they must have done some influenced in our life. Similarly, we can find certain people who spoil their life also just following certain people who are not worth and they become notorious in their future life. We can adopt and access, but NEED to shape will with our own way or how we need it is to be shaped.

Hi Sid, Yes, I remember that you have so much of attachments with your grandfather. Similarly, I have such a friendly as well as so connection with my father and he had made a lot of influence in my life as a role model. Though he had draw back in certain areas in his life, as a pure and genuine man, I respect and adopted many of his life principle in my life as well. I love him a lot.

As long as every one has their own way life, it is practically impossible to imitate someone else as it is. However, when we get shaped into a perfect man/women, knowingly or unknowingly we could get a liking for someone with whom we like more. It is natural and because we all are not fully equipped by birth and all what we have now is slowly implanted and gained through a phased manner.

Now I am the way you said. But I have a life which improved phase by phase and I have selected automatically influenced a number of people and I think what I am now is the result of these influences only. I used to consider many things many people in different ways and finally shaped or formed my own nature. It is totally different than everybody but when I shaped my own nature they contributed their own part and I hope this combination of different qualities are the result of my nature. It not directly acquired in one day, but happened during the course of life and not the product of one day.

Yes, we are proud that we a living the way how we like and love. This is the best choice and the right way of life. Thanks for sharing.

Many people are the same way that what you have. We are getting characterised by the surroundings of our family and the other family members really influence our life in several aspects. As you said, our friends also have a great deal of influence in our life nature. Some people used to say that looking on the nature of our friends, people can make out what is our nature and character. To an extend it is true and it is a fact to an extent.

In fact, our role models would help a lot in our life in various ways without even our knowledge. Whenever we are free and happy in our life, their influences works silently in our minds.

I was asking in general. I think in everyone's life few people have some way of influence, especially which forms in the early life, especially when we are in school and college. Because we learn more and come to know about many things in school time and the known people from the books, people from our history, films, our close people with whom we have direct contacts etc. have much of influence. You got your brother and for me, I found my father as the best model for my life and he had influence my total life in all respects. Thank-s

You are true. When we were in school & college it's a kind of addition to get someone as our super model. As you said, even I had the same trend to accept good and moral things from my best teachers. I used to think I need to be like that person, keep good morality etc. Especially while teaching and learning, I used to think to become such a person, later in my life. So many such people have influenced in my childhood life and even now also, feel like accept good things from our respected people as they are always feel fresh and relaxing.