Do you like reading Motivational books? Do they really help?

@kiran8 (15348)
Mangalore, India
October 13, 2011 10:06am CST
I like reading motivational books and my own feeling is that it does help to the extent that it makes you think and puts in a positive frame of mind, which is good enough for me....I read one called Peaks and Valleys written by Spencer Johnson which was excellent ! How about you all? what are your views regarding motivational books in general?
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
13 Oct 11
I love motivational books. I find them quite uplifting and positive and think they are good for most people to read especially when discouraged.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Oct 11
Hi stary,Thanks a lot for your response, have you read Peaks and valeys written by Spencer Johnson? It is a small book but quite an interesting one - all the best and enjoy your weekend
13 Oct 11
I enjoy reading inspirational true stories, although I prefer watching them. I seem to feel re-energised by someone’s own account of success over adversity be it in a personal battle or financial success. And I often find myself dipping into these sorts of books when I need a lift and some encouragement with “The Pursuit of Happyness” being a favourite, and trust me there is a lot more in Chris Gardner’s book than made it into the movie. I use to enjoy the inspirational books which you could class as “self help” but looking at my books shelves which are stuffed with these sorts of books I’ve drifted away from them. The simple reason being is that whilst these self help books may inspire whilst offering advice the advice is not always for everyone and often not for me. I don’t think there is anything wrong in reading inspirational books as long as you put them in context, that they are someone else’s story and use that as a fuel to keep you going. The minute you start feeling jealous of someone’s inspirational achievements is when you need to walk away and reassess what you really want, your life or someone elses.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Oct 11
Hi tdc, Pursuit of Happiness is one of my favorites too...I totally agree with you that , if a book does not inspire in the manner it should, it is probably not worth reading it.I was reading a book on self hypnosis and how it could improve your health, state of mind etc; but I felt that the procedure was far too complicated and simply not worth the effort.However, one of my colleague was impressed by the book and he has taken it up seriously ...Reading that book ,I did gain some knowledge though...
@anil02 (24688)
• India
14 Oct 11
Hello Kiran ji, I am agree with you. Motivational books and inspiring stories are helpful to us. When ever we are disappointed few motivational words help us in recovering. I think every good books help us in some way.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
16 Oct 11
I think you know the true value of books anil, if we don't take care, reading books might slowly phase out with computers taking over our lives.many youngsters don't read newspapers, nor books since all the is available online for those interested...
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi anil, thanks a lot for sharing your views I agree that every book has something to contribute, even a fiction since we get to know about places or lifestyles of other people.As for motivational books they do help us in some way or the other...have a nice weekend
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
16 Oct 11
Hello Kiran ji, it is hard to explain the importance of books in words. Books are too much important for person who is hearing impaired like me. Good day.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
13 Oct 11
Hi kiran, i like to hear such things than reading, sometimes i watch in tv some of the motivational programs. Have a nice day/night.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Oct 11
Hi jo, thanks a lot for your response and as praksh rightly said, how come we dont see much of you these days? I guess we live such a stressful life these days that we do need some incentives like books or shows that motivate us and put us in a positive frame of mind...all the best and happy mylotting
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
It is the same here, although we do not have very long power cuts...a couple of hours in a day.I can imagine how it must be for you with 6-7 hours of power cut.We have to plan everything in advance - all the best and have a nice weekend and lets hope that the Telengana crisis gets sorted out at the earliest
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
14 Oct 11
Hi kiran and vidyaprakash, my computer was down for 3 months, but now i made it okay, here in Hyderabad there is power problem no power for 6 to 7 hours a day, that is the problem, when power comes i have to look after for other works like washing, grinding, pumping water etc., in the night i have to sit with my son he has tests daily then sleep, still i want to be here, i will try. I miss you all. Thanks for asking me. Have a great day dear.
@petersum (4522)
• United States
13 Oct 11
I'm afraid motivational books do quite the opposite for me. I hate these "make yourself better" type books because they depress me! The "If I can do it, so can you" attitude just makes me think, "Why are you writing books?"
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Oct 11
LOL, that's a different perspective...I have heard quite a few people say that reading such books serves no purpose .But then tastes differ and some do get motivated by such books and it may help them at least to a certain extent in bettering their lives - thanks a lot for sharing your views and have a nice weekend
@Vrilya (128)
13 Oct 11
My favorite motivational book at the moment is called 'Think and Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill. It's an old book (written in the early twentieth century) and written in an old fashioned language style, which takes a little getting used to but the advice in it is sound and promotes positive thinking and goal achievement through autosuggestion to your subconscious mind. You can download the audio version of it.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
21 Oct 11
Hi Vrilya, I too have attend a few lectures/seminars of this type here in my place and they all motivate you to the extent that at least it makes you think of possibilities in life and may even bring about some subtle change in our personalities...
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi Vrilya, thanks a lot for your responseThere are ever so many motivational books these days, just goes to show that there is a lot of demand for such books and people do like reading them...I will definitely look out for the one you have mentioned- all the best and have a great weekend
@Vrilya (128)
20 Oct 11
Hi Kiran8 I found a really good motivational business guru/speaker called Jim Rohn, he has some very positive and helpful things to say and delivers his lectures in an almost stand up comedy style, so they are accessible to many people.He has lots of videos on youtube as well as a web site.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
14 Oct 11
yeah.. I do read motivational books.. in fact I like to read social awareness kind of books too.. now a days people are distracting towards books.. and world moving towards internet. but books have their own charm.. :-)
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi dude,I too feel that books are special in their own way and once you have developed the reading habit since childhood , it stays with you for life no matter what other influences are in your life...all the best and thanks a lot for sharing your views
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Oct 11
Hi Kiran! I do not get much time now a days to read such books. However, I love to read motivational books. It is correct that they help a lot molding and refining our thoughts. Once I read 'Magic of thinking big'. I liked it very much. I had borrowed it from someone initially, then I bought a fresh copy of it and read it many times. Interestingly, one day my younger brother told me that he read a very good motivational book and he is thinking of buying it, he did not tell me the name of the book. Next day, when he came back and showed me the book of his choice. I was surprised to see that he also bought the same book. (he did not check from me or say rather was not aware that I've already purchase the book).
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Oct 11
Yes deepak, that is exactly what they do...moulding and refining our thoughts also makes us analytical ! So you have two copies of magic of thinking big in your family, I am sure the later generations will be happy to go through the books..I always feel that it is really nice to pass on a good collection of books to your children.Enjoy your Sunday deepak
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
21 Oct 11
I haven't read any motivational books. But I have a very impressionable mind. Specially if it's from someone I respect. I don't know why I haven't read any (maybe because I could never find the time), but I think it would greatly help me if I did.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Oct 11
Hi bounce,Thanks a lot for your response, I am sure that at some time or the other you might decide to read a motivational book -I feel that we all change in our personality,taste, in fact, in many ways since each experience adds something new to our personality...Have a nice weekend
• Indonesia
14 Oct 11
Yes, I like to read but I did not read much. I once read a book titled' The Law of Attraction'. I don't know the author, sorry. I also did not know if The Law of Attraction book is motivational book or not? I enjoyed read that book, because it can make me think positive. In my opinion, every one likes to read books which contains motivational without exception.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi sija, It doesnt matter what book you read, as long as it makes a positive impression on you and adds on to your thinking.One can gain knowledge and inspiration from anywhere and anything in life....Motivational books do make you think and remain positive since most of them deal with self improvement...all the best , enjoy your weekend
• India
14 Oct 11
Yes of course. I got lots of tips and peps from some of the motivational books I read in the past. Of late, I feel the latest ones are just expressing the old tips in a new way. Only words changed but the theme is the same. So, I avoid reading a lot and be selective.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi mouli, I agree that some of them are crap, just written with the idea of making a quick buck.However, some of the ones written earlier are really good and do help you in their own way.The ones that I stay away from are the get rich quick - which simply dont work...lol, all the best and enjoy your weekend
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
13 Oct 11
When I made my one venture into MLM, we were encouraged to read a lot of these books, and I bought several of them. I think they were designed to keep the downlines hanging in there. I finally dropped to customer status anyway because the books didn't keep me motivated to keep telling everyone I knew about my product to the point where I was afraid they would turn and run when they saw me coming. These books are full of people who had to pull themselves up by their own bootstraps and were able to use MLM to get their lives and finances up to normal again and then even made them rich after that. Occasionally these books just try to inspire you with positive thinking, but I think they ignore certain truths about our spirtitual condition and either leave God out or portray him as someone who will give us anything we want if we just think positively enough. I don't agree theologically with either position, so I've pretty much stopped reading these books. I do, though, derive inspiration from reading true stories written by people who have lived through tough times. One book that has been special to me was A Pioneer's Search for an Ideal Home, by Judson. It was written by a pioneer woman who came west in a covered wagon and shared the whole experience in detail from the perspective of her Christian faith. Everytime I think of the things she went through, it makes me more thankful for the conveniences we take for granted. If I've had a very busy work day, I may be very tired and want to go out for dinner. Or after a long day of travel in an air-conditioned car to a far away place, I'm all ready to go out for a hot meal and bed down in a comfortable motel. Those are options for me. But those pioneer women traveled all day inside the wagon or walking beside it, sometimes even giving birth or burying a child or spouse along the trail. At the end of each day, they prepared a meal from what they had in their wagon or what the men were able to shoot that day, and they prepared it at an undeveloped campsite with no plumbing, all the while on guard against hostile native nations. I remember when this woman finally got to the end of the journey in Oregon, it was raining, they were tired, and they still had to prepare a meal under those conditions. If we go camping on vacation and it is pouring down rain, we can opt to just change our plans and get a motel and eat out. But we hardly ever think of this as something to be very thankful for , anymore than we think to thank God every day for indoor plumbing, hot water, electricity, etc. We are just used to turning a handle or flipping a swtich and complain if something doesn't work.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Oct 11
Women carrying water - Carrying water - Rajasthan, India
Hi bagarad, thanks a lot for sharing those details, it made very interesting reading.I agree with you that there are many things that we take for granted while some people have to struggle ...It is the lives of such people who are still able to remain positive that is far more inspiring than a handful of great people...In India there is a huge water problem and in Rajasthan and Gujarat, most of the day is spent in looking for water and collecting it from steams or wells which are 4 -5 kms away from the villages. The women go in groups , walking through the desert , carrying two pots one above the other on their head and singing and chattering ....all the best and happy mylotting
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
14 Oct 11
Anything that helps you is worth the time. If you only got one thing out of every stop at the book self or seminar you might accumulate enough to make you wise. The thing is though will it have an effect on you or change something for the better. I think it has to actually work. Organized from the inside out, I found good because as she said what prompted her to write it was she would do things like loose her keys and miss important events. It is good to find out what prompted the author to write the book in the first place.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi Bluedoll, That's exactly how I too feel about reading and books The book you mentioned sounds interesting , must look it up.Being organised in life is very essential , since it saves a lot of time and effort...thanks a lot and happy mylotiing
@siri26 (331)
• India
14 Oct 11
I agree with you. Not always but at times they also have effect on my subconscious mind. Many times they do help. Especially when we are in confused or depressed state of mind they tend us to gain self confidence as well face any adverse situation
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
15 Oct 11
Hi siri, thanks a lot for your response That's very true, what you read and what has made an impression , does stay with you and comes in handy at some stage of your life or the other...all the best
@pibi713 (187)
• China
20 Oct 11
We need motivational books to give us a right direction. Last year, I went through a had time. I began to read some motivational books.Accidentally, I came across some good books that really helped me a lot. I got to know myself better and tried to become more powful. Now, I deliberately spend most of the time to do the practical things to enrich my knowledge and enhance my ability. Sometimes when I have some doubts in minds, I will turn to books for help.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Oct 11
Hi pibi,My case is very similar to yours and I too went through a bad patch sometime back and reading especially motivational books did help me a lot...It may not change you and make you different or anything as drastic as that but it does give you an inner strength and the courage to face things and practical realities of life , also deal with them instead of running away from them - which is more than sufficient...