greatest fear

@Greninee (369)
Philippines
October 13, 2011 12:03pm CST
Has your greatest fear ever did come true?Then how did you deal with it?For me, my only fear is to lose the persons I love..That I will be left alone..but no one is alone because God had given us people to be with even for a short time because nothing's permanent. But this was my greatest fear, that I may lose them either be by death or some changes in life.HOW i DEAL WITH IT? fROM THE VERY BEgginning, I always make that person I love feels that he/she is important to me so that I won't have any regrets if ever they would be gone. How about you?
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6 responses
• United States
13 Oct 11
One of my greatest fear was that I would lose my father and I did 6 years ago and I have not been the same since. If fact I am crying while writing this so maybe I was not right person to answer your question because I am an emotional mess. I do not deal well at all with losing him. I am quite depressed and live in chronic pain. Sorry for such a bleak response.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
oH...i'M SO SORRY for you my friend.but you know what? i believe you are a strong person because you did go on with your life after a hurtful experience had happened to you. You should not say sorry for your response my friend because that's what you really feel and you're just being true to yourself.aand your father watches over you so you dom't have to be sad okey? and God is with him so he is alright right now..be a strong girl for your dad.I know he loves you so much.
• United States
13 Oct 11
I do believe that he is watching over me and I try not to be so sad but it is so hard. I will try harder to be strong but I have such a tough life that is a struggle but I am doing my best with what I have and he did send me a message once. Thanks for you wonderful support.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
17 Oct 11
I guess u could say my greatwst fear.has come true. I was diagnosed with a lufe threatening disease. I was duagnosed with cancer when I was 24, im 29 now. Ut was a scary time but I had a grwat support system, and im cancer free. But being diagnosed with something like cancer is never on ppls minds.
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
That is my greatest fear too.. Its too hard to lose your loved ones. It really hurts but there's nothing we can do because its the reality. We're not immortal. Anyway, I haven't experience it but for me to be able to deal with is just to accept it and look at the bright of what had happened. I have another fear, and it is fear of seeing ghosts and I saw one. I was talking with my friend on my phone. Its already 1:00am so it is really quiet. I never expected that I'm going to see a white thing walking at the street then it suddenly disappeared. Its also floating. Haha and that's what made me scared more. Anyway that's it. Have a great day.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Oct 11
Yes, I was afraid of not being accepted and when I was a teenager and came to Japan, they bully me at school. It was great because I gain courage, I was such a coward, I bet the cr*p out of the leader, she NEVER stood up against me again. To those who doesn't know: BULLIES ARE VERY COWARDS. I sstill stand up but it's not my bullying anymore. I saw this mother kicking her 5 yr old on the streets! Well, the woman ran, the idiot.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
Oh it did happen a year ago. When my father was diagnosed to have a failing heart, all the family was worried and fear that we will lose him. Well we did lose him even before we celebrated her 79th birthday. The family was devastated and my mother felt the most pain. Up to now , we still can't cope up that he's not with us anymore. But we still have our mom and we'll praying she'll stay with for more years!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
13 Oct 11
To be honest I don't think I have a greatest fear anymore. Whatever you mention it happend to me and I lost enough beloved people in all kind of ways. And I can tell you if that happens there will always be new chances and possibilities. You will meet new people who love you and you will love. Unless you are stubborn and you give up on life and you don't want to let anyone in. So I can't call that my greatest fear. Also not because it's the only thing we know what will happen for sure. We start alone, end alone and everybody will die. To be honest I don't understand why you say that it's your greatest fear if you say there is a god in your life. Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me. If you believe in a god you should not have or know fear at all! I am used to changes because that is how life is. I think my life would be bored if nothing would happen. I do what I need to do to make myself happy no matter what happens. In the end it's only me I have to deal with and I have to be satisfied with the life I lived. If there is a fear at all it might be the fact that I started way too late to live and I am not healthy enough to do the things I like to do since I will run out of time.