Why do you expect?
By psrpit
@psrpit (39)
India
October 14, 2011 12:35am CST
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Then every one should give what he/she can give to their friends, why do people then expect from others especially friends? Some times expectations are so high that be feel ignored when they are not fulfilled.
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4 responses
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
17 Oct 11
I love my friends so much because they do really help me out when i'm in trouble.So i definitely treat them as best as i can.Cause they could share anything with me and make me feel warm in my deep heart.This is like a bridge,you should also bring your heart to them and make them feel your genuine.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 11
i dont't think it is proper to expect something special from someone just because we consider that one as friend. I would choose not to expect anything from my friend. I am already grateful that my friends stay as they are, always be by my side whatever situation i am in. Good and bad, joy and sad, they are here with me, gave me something that i have never expected, i thought i didnt need which Later on i found it it is more necessary.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
Expect is I think is not the right word but we just cling on with those who we think can help us or make the situation a bit lighter for us. We cling on them to keep us strong and friends are always the one who keep us sane and strong somehow.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Oct 11
We should not always expect a lot from our friends, everyone has his/her problems which comes first in personal lives. Although a good friend is has spare space for other people's problems, laying every piece of weight in his/her life will make the person feel 'used' and will lead to quiting.
But before asking for your friend's help, do you have time for him/her when he/she needs you? If yes! And you have helped the person before, then its up to the person.