Frustration on something that I can not tell

@pahak627 (4558)
Philippines
October 14, 2011 8:35am CST
I'm so frustrated with something that I can't tell in this forum. I can only tell it orally with someone whom I trusted. It's really depressing but I could not do anything except the fact that it's really happening. Do you also experience this kind of situation?
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8 responses
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
It's so sad to hear that but so far in my case I'm so happy being here in mylot. Lot of people want to help me in any way when I'm totally frustrated in something. I also shares my joys and happiness here but it seldom for now 'cause my life is really a mess as of the moment and still don't know how to deal with it. Well, having frustrations in life is not that easy but all I can say is have courage to face it and maybe share with us one day. As what they say: "Courage is doing what you are afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you are scared." =Eddie R.=
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Well, am also happy here in my lot. Friends here are good, they usually give advice and suggestions.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Well, am also happy here in my lot. Friends here are good, they usually give advice and suggestions.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
4 Oct 12
Hi, Everyone has to go through this situation. When I have frustration I share it with my wife. She always always has positive attitude towards any problem. She always think over any problem calmly and patently. So I feel relaxed by talking with my life. I like to listen some encouraging and happy songs.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Nov 12
Lately, I learned something to make myself relaxed. I talked to God whenever I feel like this.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
15 Oct 11
There have been times I have gone thru things and it has been hard to find people I could talk it over with who would care and tell me everything will be OK. But then there have been many times I have shared some of my struggles and frustrations on here knowing they were safer than sharing them with someone else. So in reality it is always a 2 way street, but hope things get better for you soon.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
Yes, there are really times that we can't tell our frustrations to anyone. I have not thought of it that it is safer here cause I guess I have no personal friend here. I'll think of that too whenever I experience the same mood again.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 11
I often experience frustration. Sometimes, I make a discussion on MyLot. But, there too, which I can not express in MyLot, or to anyone.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
So we have the same experience. It's really hard to discuss it here.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
If it is too personal, yes. No matter how we want to discuss it online,we have this feeling of hesitation that we might be misunderstood or misjudge. So, instead of posting it to lighten our feelings, the hesitation blocked us from doing so. We better discuss it with offline friends and have it resolved. have a good day
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
That is a very good suggestion. I just started this discussion during the time that I was in that mood. However, after that I had gone over that mood and became happy again. There are really times wherein we wanted to write but yet don't want to reveal whatever is troubling us.
@edbuex (169)
• Uganda
14 Oct 11
too my friend but life has to continue ...these are things we have to grow with so you have to know that every one meets these in life don't get scared go on with what relieves you pahak thanks
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It's been a year since I started this discussion and yes, I did what all of you here advised. I am not scared with that as I experienced that mood many times.
@bnpraveen (172)
• India
14 Oct 11
hai friend i experienced many times, when ever iam in that mood i will try to get out from that mood by simply walking away from that environment and i use to take hot coffee, really this action helps me a lot to keep away my frustration, just try this action once when ever you get frustrated. have a great day bro
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
I guess it is normal to experience it. I followed what you do whenever you're in that mood. Instead of coffee, I drink juice and it really helps.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
Yes... I have been frustrated, down and angry before but I couldn't say it in my blog before. It resulted from leaving my blog because if I tried to write on it, all I have in mind what those things. But it is always better to talk about your frustrations with your close friends or maybe some stranger you randomly chat with in one day. LOL! Strange but it helps pouring on your frustration to someone who wont get bored of listening about other people's problems....
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
One thing that I really observed with my friends. They tend to compete with our problem when we tell them about it. It happened to me. One time I got a very big problem that I really wanted it to confide to my best friend before. When I told her about it, she also tell me about her problem related to it. The result was it added more stress to me.