He's just an ordinary guy... I guess.

no one can give you exactly on what you should do because we never feel what you felt for this guy, all i can give to you is to share my experience how i came up with the man i married, at least you have a mirror to look on to, i was loveless for about a year or two, my past boyfriends i have had, i never experience going to God with them, so i prayed and asked for a sign, but when i started praying for a sign to show me on the right man i should marry, i firmly believe that God is always with me, i certainly found the sign to the man i married, it just meant that you ask and you will receive, what i asked from God is to give me a man i can share my life with which i can be with my God, share on everything especially in faith,that we will walk by God,and now i am happily married and no worries even we're far though it is only half a month. hope you got something from me.

Dont feel bad, my current boyfriend started out cheating and talking on chat lines but I had to get straight to the point (after several times of breaking up and making up) and just tell him, hay this is what I will and will not deal with and the relatioship I want (for long term) would not involve cheating and women on the side...he is very attractive so I figured out that he did this with women inhis past and they let him do because he was a cute guy (unfair for me now, but good for him, at that time) he admitted he was not used to serious relationships and that I intimidated him a little bit... was headstrong, very independent, had one child I was taking care of by myself and had been through a divorce at 23 so with all that said, if it was not for me speaking up and just expressing how I felt, he may have never learned the right way to LOVE a woman. I am 7yrs older than him (and as they say, women do matur quicker) so I know that did help but we went through several hard times and I even lost a few friends during the hard times be because to them I was dumb for giving him chances but he would not know what he is capable of if he did not try to work things out. He was used to living with one female then when that got old, the next chic (and so on) he has 4 kids by different women (I am the 4th mom) we had a son 2yrs ago...and he has changd in a million ways. He is not perfect and neither am I but I love the person he became because of me. So dont be afraid to talk to him and ask him what he wants, what he needs and even what he expects from your relationship (hopefully he will want to know the same from you) Tell him your fears and what scares you because being in different countries is hard enough. Lay it all on the table and tings will be ok! He will appreciate your honesty. And will learn and grow from it! Some people say men dont change but they do...they just have to want to change...LOVE is great so be proud of your love for him and dont you dare let anyone take that feeling from you!!!

Perhaps you are the one in love and maybe he isn't so much. Trust is a major thing in a relationship. However some couples are alright with the other being unfaithful. It is up to you. Only you can determine what is best for YOU. If his inability to be LOYAL bothers you then maybe you need to take a closer look at the whole picture.

Of course not dear, not ordinary and wow, I don't think you should be with him. I think you will be unhappy when you CAN CHOOSE guys who are loyal, they exist for real. Of course you are sad, that's not normal and there's more dear, if you have to deal with it you should have the right to do the same but it is right to be with someone else if you are in relationship? No so if you can't, he can't. If I were you I'd be alone now. Better be alone than have this guy that doesn't know my value, that don't worship me. Believe me cause I did it.A guy like this can slowly break your selfesteem and respect, you shouldn't do that to your self.

I'm as well in a long distance relationship, and currently in a state of confusion. Although he always (whenever we speak) tells me he could never love anyone else except me... and always rejects whenever I tell him that we should end up of our relationship, makes me think he really loves me. What I am confuse about your situation is when you said, he needs someone in his life.... did u mean, he told you such words... or you just thought that he needs someone in his life? Coz when you said that, I instantly assume he wants to sleep around with someone.

It sounds to me like you know that things aren't working out with you and this guy. I know it's really hard to let go, but sometimes you have to. If the two of you spend time far apart fairly frequently, you need to seriously think about how much you trust him. If you don't feel like you would be comfortable leaving him for a month or two without something happening, I think it's time you started to let this relationship go. You need someone you can believe in and count on.

What makes you think that he isn't loyal? Is he doing something that makes you feel suspicious or anything? Maybe you need to trust him. Tell him about your concern. You both have to be open with each other. If I were you and I'm very sure that he's with someone else, I would leave him. Because if he really loves me, why would he look for someone else? He doesn't really need to be with someone else even when we're apart.

End it up as fast as I could...... Sticking to an unloyal partner is just a waste of time and energy!! what if he is always away???that means he is he has over 100 relationships and you are just like a raindrop in the sea to him!!!!! Get out of this relationship fast, you never know what kind of disease he'll infect you with

It's hard to love at a distance, I feel in love with my husband we meet and should of meet a thousands of time but we didn't I was really going through the worst of my life and I ask God for deliverance and he lessened me with a husband that is so great. I had to teach him it was okay to love again. We will be married for a year next month and we will have known each other for 2years in march it was really hard because we were long distance but we made it work we just had his first child a boy the first boy in the entire family he has never been married and he is 43 years old but been hurt.So have I do what your heart tells you and if you believe in God seek him he will never mislead you............Talk to him and let him know how you feel see how he feels about how you feel and tell him the concerns of your heart and if its meant to be it will be