You Are Making Me Cry...

Hello Eureka! Nice to hear that am one of the good friends here. You see mylot is such a place where you could share anything without any hesitation and others will participate/advice with zeal and enthusiasm. It is a kind of second family for many of us. When we are upset with some off line activities, mylotting helps as a stress-buster.

Come to think of it, dear. I think of Mylot as my second family, too. Not because I get to talk here the way I wanted to and the things I wanted to talk about but because of people like you. This is the site where I feel I truly belong. Thank you for making me feel such way. Truly special.

Hello, dear. Yes, I am confident to agree with you on what you said about Mylot friends, I have a couple of good ones from here and you are one of them. This is one reason why I keep coming back here. There was a time before that I hardly had the time to log in that I thought I'll never come back to this site despite of the good feeling its members gave me. But I was wrong.Even if I have nothing to say about myself or my situation or my thoughts, I just can't fully turn my back on Mylot. I keep coming back to check on my friends. Though, I couldn't visit all of you but still I'm glad to see you from time to time knowing that you are still here.

Hello, Jennyze. As always, you made me smile again with your comment. Let me tell you ,dear, that you are one witty firend here in Mylot. Oh, I love to read your comments/responses because always at the end, no matter how serious you have started you can seem to twist it and end up having that bubbly thought. That's what I love about you. Yeah, I know. You care , as well as those who responded to my discussion and stood by me all these years. That is good enough for me. I don't need you to care that deeply towards me because it is difficult to do that since just like you said we are just a bunch of faceless or even nameless people. just the warm of your responses through words is fair enough and overwhelming enough for me.

Don't be, dear. You are just stating the plain truth. But, of course, as humans we can not really refuse to care especially when we see that a person is in dire need of help.And I'm glad that despite of being strangers, you still feel compassion towards others. That's what matters most.

Now, you made me ... guilty I do care just like a person should care for other people, especially for someone who needs it...

Hello, dear Bounce. I know that I have shared some of my stories with you and you have responded to them well. Those words that came from you are light enough for me to make me move forward despite of what I am going through. Yes, it is maybe the anonymity that makes me feel comfortable to reach out to you, guys here. But I have no regrets that I did even if I'm not sure if how would the people here respond to my case. Whenever, i am talking to a 'friend' here, I am never alone. Though I am always starting a discussion as confused, hurt or angry but at the end, talking about what I feel here makes me feel a lot better. I do not know if I would have endured this much if I have not known Mylot. Come to think of it that the very person who is always the subject of my discussion is the person who brought me here. Now, there s something I have to be grateful despite of the issues between us...LOL Mylot or better to say, the users here are almost a family for me and you are one of those that I hold dear in my heart.

The pleasure is mine, Bounce. Oh, I so lokk forward to that day, too. You know it is kinda tiring to post all these negatively charged emotional out pours here. I wanted to shift into something happy and positive. Let's cross our fingers for that, then, my dear. You, too, stay as happy and lovely as you already are.Or should I say, happier and lovelier.:-)

Thanks! I still look forward to the day when you will start discussions here about how happy you are. And how you've left all these pain behind. I hope they come soon!

Hello, sweetie. Well, I do believe you. In almost all of my discussions you are always there. Cheering me up and giving me always a word or two of your precious thoughts and advice. You are one of those dear people here that I am truly grateful for having. Sweetie, what would I do with my miserable life without people like you who eventhough virtually exist but so real and sincere? I wouldn't have gotten this far remaining sane without you to back me up. With that said, I owe a lot of my sanity to you and my dear Mylotter friends here.

It has been four months ago already since you post your last comment here ? That long! If this is only your FB comment, I'd hit 'like':-) You are right, sweetie, we almost have the same issues in life. And it is better to help each other. One way or another it is beneficial to both parties. Who knows one of us will finally stumble upon a good solution that all of us can make use of. Have a lovely day ahead, sweetie. By the way, I missed seeing this drunk fairy.

Always here and glad to be of service, sweetie. Anyway, whether virtual or real life, we all have most of the same problems. What better way than standing together and helping one another out.

Hello, Inertia. I know that we have been 'friends' for only a while and yet your username sounds so familiar to me already. It is because you have made your presence and friendship be know to me eversince. With that I am so grateful and humbvled for having you here as a friend. No, I will not cry as much as I used to do. I will still cry but just for a moment. It won't be a bucket. LOL. Because now know that I have friends who'd want to keep me company and are willing to lend an ear. Oh, dear... I think you are the one needing a cheering up. Whatever you are going through a lot , you can share it. It is my chance to give back to what you have been giving me. You can choose to pm or start a discussion about it and I'll be there to support you. Though, I may be busy at times but I'll make sure to check on you... Cheer up, dear Inertia. We are not alone.

Hi there again, Inertia. My apologies for this very late response to your comment as I have been very busy with the many situations I have in my life. Please accept my apologies. I can't be angry for so long or be sad forever. Somehow, I need to learn to forgive and possibly, to forget.I have to find a way to feel better. Please just drop a line or two my way whenever you wanted to. I'll always be happy to be of help. Always be well , my dear.

I have to say first, thank you very much. You are a true friend. I am glad to hear you are not feeling as bad as before. I know I am going through a lot right now and I do appreciate you offer to talk. If I need to I will pm you. I want you to have a wonderful weekend my friend. Also, I will not be here tomorrow, but I will be here Sunday night.

Hello, Kyrararen. You are very much welcome to respond to any discussion that you feel like to. And for being the first one to respond here, let me thank you for that and welcome to Mylot. I found this site because I was looking for something I can kill my time with. I was one hell of a bored person and at the same time suffering a lot from emotional turmoil. Yes, here I found the ones who make me feel I matter and that I exist. This is my personal mantra about friends and strangers. Treat strangers kindly and as you would treat a friend. Besides, our friends used to be strangers to us, too. I found real (though virtual) friends who shares my joys and bear with me during my lows. I am blessed to have them. :-)

Eurekafemme, thank you, thank you for the warm welcome.I like talking and responding to discussion. I like to know people and sometimes, I like to share piece of me. I like what you wrote about treating strangers. threat them kindly as treating a friend. I like that. may I be your friend?

Hi there Kyrararen. I have sent you a friend's request to let you know that you are very much welcome in my circle of friends. Would love to see you around more. Sharing a piece of you makes a lot of people see things in a different perspective. It is the reason why friendship is created. We have to see ourselves in the lives of other people to have a better view of our situation. I guess, friends are mirrors of who and what we are and who we want to be.

Thank you eureka:) I agree that facebook is not so good as mylot. I can hardly spend ten minutes there!! But I'm wondering where you vanished after posting this discussion. You are back after 5 days!!

Hello, dear. Firstly,I'm sorry for getting back at you this late. I have been through a lot and I wanted to sort my thoughts first. I have been here and posted new discussions just to vent out. I'm not really into commenting yet but I do feel that I really need to respond in this particular discussion because this is supposed for you, guys, who are so willingly lend an ear when one needed an ear or even a hand to lighten up their burdens. It took me almost a month before I can check this out again! So sorry. Thank you, Buddha. Have a wonderful day always. :-)

Hello, Buddha. Very true. Sometimes online friends are a lot warmer and sincere when it comes to lending their ears to a needy friend. Maybe, because it is so easy to do that when we are not really personally attach to such person. We can think better of his/her situation and we can give a better piece of advise than we do know them personally. This is the reason why I keep coming back here. Always rekindling my love affair to mylot and its users. The friendship I found here is just so overwhelming that I can no longer think of any other site (not even facebook) who can top what I have found here. thank you for being dropping a line and sure enough, I know you are one of those who pour your heart out when you are responding to a discussion. I can already feel your warm friendliness. :-)

Hello, Skysuccess. If ever I have a friend here in Mylot that I would consider who always amazes me for the responses and comments it gives, you are that person. You always speak your mind with sincerity and sometimes, it is kinda hurtful but because you often touch the crux of the matter. You are one of my favorite Mylot friends. that said, I owe you a lot (as well as other Mylotters who stood by me all these years) for keeping me standing despite of the shaky ground I had set my feet. such quote is very true. Thank you for sharing it with us, me. especially.

Hello, Professor!!! I so love seeing you again. It has been ages since the last time I interacted with you. I'm really happy to see you here. I always think of Mylot as my sanctuary. I go here to find peace, enlightenment or even someone to be with. I mean someone to talk to. This is an extension of my family. And you are one of those who I consider one of the wise guys.

Oh, hello there, Garson.If you are late, I am even more late. So sorry to have kept your response waiting unanswered for so long. :-( You are right, though. There are certain things that shouldn't be brought up in the open and would rather be properly discussed privately. Sigh... But in my situation, I'd not have come this far , sane and well if I have chosen to do that. It is a very long story, dear. I'm just lucky however, that those who responded to my posts about personal issues do not take my posts against me and are not biased of whatsoever. They have given me what I was looking for during those times when I needed a sensible word of advise. I may not follow them all and at the end of the day, it is still my decision that counts but they have helped me weigh things down in order for me to make a reasonable decision. Sometimes, it is ok to admit you're not really OK and be open with what you feel, sincerely asking for help. Maybe, one day, you'll also experience this too. (I hope that your situation will be different from mine, though. ) Have a great day always, Garson. Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts. :-)

@genesisgroldan Hello there. Such a very honest piece of though from you. You are right, though. I first came here because I was curious, thanks to my husband who discovered this site first. Then, I realized that I can make friends here and vent out my pains and frustrations. I was overwhelmed by the number of responses and how fast I was gaining friends here. I can feel their sincerity whenever they post their comments to my posts (FYI: most of my posts are emotionally charging). This is the reason why I got hooked to this site. I just keep on posting everything I feel and think and I love it when there are respondents. I made good friends here, too. Then, I saw the top part and I realized I was earning. What a great bonus to already great friends I have found here. . Not to mention, not os emotionally charged me. LOL

@kyrararen Yup, you have heard him right. So keep on posting and making more friends here. since you are just new here, you will get to learn the ins and outs here and once you get the hang of it, you'll enjoy it here more. People do not judge you like the way non virtual people we interact with do... This site is what I call my sanctuary.

That I also agree. this is the right place. I found people here are caring and willing to hear. and like Genesisgroldan said, beside unloading negativity from our thought and our heart, we can earn some bucks for our holiday. :)

Hello, Writersolutions. You must be a writer that's why you chose that username, ei. We are only humans who have weaknesses and experiencing depression. Just like you said it is part of our life. I am always real to what I feel and what I say.It is difficult not to. That's what I learn from my more than three decades of existence. It is better to be me than to pretend to be someone that I am not. This way, when friends accepted me , I know I have been accepted, loved, respected as me. Thank you for dropping a line here.*hugs*

[b]Hello, Boyuancy. :-) [/b] I can see that you are still a newbie here. Let me welcome you here, then. Yup, this site has been my sanctuary and here I found refuge and relief to whatever burden or issues I often have. There is no doubt that people here will give you their honest opinions and this is what I like most about this site. The members do not only voice out what you wanted to hear but also they do not afraid to voice out what they think is the best for your situation even if you are seemingly to disagree about it. You get both the positive and negative comments. But don't worry ,dear. This is why this site is called for discussion. From contradicting views ,we do learn, right? :-) As long as no one is harassing you, then, I guess, you can just shrug their negative comments off, that ids, if you really think that they do not make sense. Have a great day here and always.

Hello there, Bjc66bjc. Welcome to Mylot and welcome here to my discussion. Why, I like you already. . I'd like the way you speak up your mind. Seems like a witty person you are to me. :-) As for your response here, you have come to the right place when you just needed real persons to listen to you. Though the primary reason why we all joined here at first is about earnings but eventually people, good ones, do not waste their time by just ranting insensible words just to get a couple of cents out of it. They really meant what they say and some of them would even go to the extent of sharing their own personal experience only to make yours lighter and be resolved. This is the reason why I always feel this appreciation for Mylot members who became my real friends even if we only interact virtually. :-) Yup, just watch out for the trolls. There are still few that are left but you won't be hitting on them too soon. And if you finally do, just treat them well and they will be the one to voluntarily leave you alone. And that is in peace. :-) I hope you will have a great time here like most of us do. Enjoy Mylotting and have a great day always.

Hell, GardenGerty. :-) You are very well right about this site. Most of the advice I have gathered are from here. It is liberating to see your life in the perspective of others because they do not know you exactly and there can never be a bias piece of advice but sincere thoughts. Yes, I can see them and feel their every words.

This is a site where you can interact with people of different values and experience. They do not bother if you are here for the money or what. They just do their part to share. Though they get to earn from what they are doing but I believe it is fair that they will be appreciated for sharing their thoughts and lives with us. They get to earn but that doesn't mean they are not sincere with their post/responses and comments. I have been here for quite awhile and I can honestly say that I have encountered lotters who are truly sincere in helping me out.I can feel the sincerity to help in their responses. I'm glad you have found this site, GemmaR. Don't worry, whatever you are going through right now, for sure you are never alone. there's always someone who is willing to lend an ear, count me in. Though we can only communicate virtually but that's all we need, someone to communicate to.It makes us we exist and we matter.

Hello, dear Jaiho. I agree! This is the best site to vent out and be the person that we truly are without having to face humiliation and misjudgement. Ah, you are one of those friends here in Mylot that I hold dear in my heart. Not because we almost have the same experience, relationship speaking but because you have helped me in a lot of ways through sharing your own experience and pain, to get through mine. thank you so much for being a good friend. *hugs*

When we are in our lowest point in our life, all we need is a dear friend who would want to listen to us. Hold our hands, perhaps, telling us that we are not alone in our struggles. Here in mylot, I have found those kind of people. Though I only get to interact with them virtually but I can very well feel their sincerity to be of help and to listen. I am truly and deeply touched by such kindness and sincerity. :-)