How do you intensify LOVE while you are miles away with each other???

@tamirs (1807)
Philippines
October 15, 2011 7:46pm CST
My husband is working abroad,he comes home to us every year.As much as we want to,we can't spend more than two hours chatting because we have works to do,and when we did we sometimes lost of stories to talk about..We love each other but because we are away we can feel that sometimes there's this wall that separates us..
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 11
Your love is very beautiful. Distance is not a wall for your love. Even if you live far away with your husband, but the hearts and minds are very close.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
Thank you indafth, I don't know if i'm just being paranoid sometimes or maybe because i spend lesser time for him than he expects me to give him,that i sometimes feel that way..
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 11
Feelings like that, very naturally happened. Although very little time together, but the love that you have, very much. It was very beautiful. I am very jealous of you.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
awwww,thanx so much.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
the technology has helped a lot in keeping the flame alive and burning. the web chat could make contacts and conversations in real time, virtually though. there is a limit in what technology can do in a relationship. of course, it can not replace the intimacy brought by warm touch and passionate kiss. but the words can do the difference in making the relationship work. best wishes.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
i believe you, that is true..really we are very thankful that we can still talk not spending a lot of money,unlike before we spend too much money in calling via phones.. but of course like what you said,we can only kiss with emoticons as representatives... :-)
• India
26 Oct 12
Separation makes you more closer, I am sure of it
• China
16 Oct 11
some one has argued that people who have fallen in love with each other can get through any difficulties.so let alone the distance between each other. While is it really true? Can love endure the distance? For me, it is frustrated to share my ideas whether one can keep love alive regardless of the distance? I had a girlfriend, and we fell in love at first sight.However, after graduating from university, we were miles away with each other because of our own working place. In two cities, we just have a date in holidays or on the weekends. And in many cases, We should be alone. As days and hours went by, I found she has changed. And talked little with me. It seemed as if we were stranger. To some extent, distance may cause lots of problems on marriage or the whole family. If necessary, it is better to work in the same country or same city because we need to talk.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
Sorry about that at what happen to you and your girl,but you are right,i sometimes feel the same way..But i am really hoping that we can weather it all,that's why i am so much willing to improve anything in order to strengthen what we have.. :-)
• Philippines
19 May 12
Hi there, I agree with sophieblue,the best thing in LD is to have an open communication with each other and cherish each moment you have a chance to talk to him. Avoid any misunderstanding and dont upset each other because you dont have all the time in this world for cuddle and "make it up to you" moment.I am in 6 months LD as well but we tried our best to make it stronger no matter how different we are. I think some of the keys are to be open, learn to forgive and avoid issues that could result to misunderstanding and dont let argument unsettled before both of you sleep (thats from my Mamang). Good Luck...
@nixon56 (15)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
Why let a temporary set back, albeit, time zones and thousands of nautical miles apart, ruin your relationship when you are in real love with each other? I am sure everybody wants to stick it out with a partner especially when the relationship is enviable (like a bf for a year or so) and inviolable (like a husband or wife). It just not make sense to let go , right?
@GemmaR (8517)
16 Oct 11
I think that you have to try a lot harder to be in a relationship with somebody if they're a little bit further away from you. If you don't put the effort into your relationship then you might just find that you don't talk to each other as much anymore, and your relationship would most likely suffer as a result of this. You should make sure that the two of you really do make the effort to keep in contact with each other over email and via social networking websites so that you can keep up to date with the things that you're both up to at that time.
@vasumathi (436)
• India
16 Oct 11
Some times, it is the distance that makes our love stronger and stronger !!!
16 Oct 11
I Can relate to that..my girlfriend works at Old Westburry US. while i'm here somewhere in Philippines. I missed her a lot at 1st month but for the next 2 mos i recovered .THANKS TO SKYPE! :) super no buff and less hang ups.!