solve your problem by your self.

Most of the time we are solving our problem with our own strategy on how to do it all. We just seek advice from friends then we think it all over for the reason that we need to gather all the possible information just to solve our problems. The truth is we are the one who create some troubles and we need others help just to lighten our troubles. In my case i like to solve my own problem not only because i have pride but for me i am the responsible to it. So better to be strong at all times, and bring that courage anywhere we are. Only we need are advice and we are the problem solver of our own problems in life.

I always tried, to solve my own problems. I do not like, ask for help to others. If I could solve it myself, I tried to resolve itself.

^^ It seems you have learned your own lesson and you are sharing what you have personally learned.. Yup, It is true,action speaks louder than words and worries..but you must also think first before doing something else it will give you another worries to worry about.

Not that easy. When trouble comes, sometimes make us not do anything. Action must be done, but it is not easy. I have many problems, and have done a lot of action. But, my problem is not finished, and my actions cause new problems. Silent, and contemplate the problem, it does not mean resignation, but also sought, to think of appropriate action. Because what we think is right, not necessarily make the problem complete, and may be create new problems.

That is actually true. However most people worry so much about their problem, cry over it and think of all the negative effects the problem will cause them... It's the nature of most people. But what you have said was right, we don;t need to think of the bad outcome of the problem. Instead we have to find a solution and solve the problem. That way we wont suffer so much....

It is true that in most cases, our action are responsible for the consequences that we get but at the same time it is true that the action of others leads us to problems that we find ourselves in such as; a case of a robber who uses a human being as his shield. This becomes a case where unexpected problem is brought to you with no much option left for you to chose from or take any action as one is engulfed with fear and confusion.

if a problem comes in family life as well as in processional field we first analyze our self how it came. don't find fault with others think twice. we first think from others side after studying we can talk frankly about this if we are on right side and clarify their misunderstanding about the matter. after that don't care too much about this leave it and engage in any other subject.