Will you ever really know me?

Oh, I know all my family members very well except for my brother cause he doesn't talk much with us. He's more reserved and keep things to himself. As for you, you are the best. And I know that you are very good with your whips. Very sweet of you to offer us your vodka. Cheers!

hi dear, OH my I miss everyone including you For me even how long you know that person there are times you will be surprise with their attitudes it can disappointing and not. Where is the vodka then? miss yah

I would go haywire if I had your vodka and then responded to this. So I am sober now and whoever has responded after having your vodka, never believe a word of what they have said! It is never wise to judge people based on virtual information. I would never do that and so sorry saphy I will not judge you but suffice it to say that I enjoy interacting with you and that is more than enough for me.

Hi Saphrina aka Granny I started to know you from my starting discussions and over the time you really have become an important friend who is quite close to me. You are right, knowing a person completely is quite impossible as we are all humans and many a times unpredictable. This unpredictability makes us special to our dear ones - if not then it would have been - we know what you would say, what you would do and how would you react to anything and the charm that kept the relationship going and rocking would wither away. I am happy and even proud to have known you - a person who is so very loving, caring and yes above all - Friendly. You are one of the reasons I stick with MyLot. There are some more people and a few more reasons no doubt, but I can surely say - when we started off as friends, there weren't many of these.

I don't know much about you, Saphrina. From what I've seen I could tell you're a sensitive person who tries to hide behind the image of a powerful woman. But I could never say I know you. I can't say I know everything about any of my relatives/friends. I can't even say I totally know miself. Now can I have that vodka? I had a terrible headache.

oh looks like am late for the party.do i still have a shot left for me as my brain is working little slow and need a kick to start off. its really hard to say that you know a person completely.you need a high level of mental association to be sure about it.i think only a couple deeply in love with each other,and one who has spend a lot of time together could only be sure about their partner.

I would say that we can only know a person by our own perception of them. We can know our own perceptions very well, but we cannot know the other person's percpetions... Again only our perceptions of their perceptions that they share with us. The problem gets more complicated then, escpecially if we don't know our true self very well. That's what makes life interesting. But it can become very boring if we believe that we know ourselves well and know others... There's nothing else to learn then... right? _Derek

Oh, thanks, but I've got a glass of red going. I'm probably the most open person you'll meet in respect of telling you about me, but even I keep some secrets. I don't imagine it's possible to know someone that well, but you can pretty damn close if someone trusts you enough to open up. Lash

To me is like the song say" if you don't know me by now...then you'll never never know me"...if I live long enough with a person and never really got to know that person it can only mean one thing I either don't care or the person is not important enough for me! Cheers thanks for the vodka.

As usual, I am a day late and a dollar short. In bed all weekend as have had flu No one can knows as as he are all the time because we change as our lives and situation change, Our ideas and values change too as we change. Nothing remains the same darling. Can't join you with the vodka but am about to make a hot toddy with rum, honey and lime juice. Want some? It is the remdy for just about any sickness on this Island

Hi Saph, it is good to know you are like an open book to your loved ones. But sorry, i don't drink Vodka. Maybe you should include some soft-drinks, so i can have a drink, too. As for me, it is my brother. He's such a quiet person since from young until now. So, it is hard for me to get to know what's his planning for his future. He prefer to bottled up his problem to himself. Until now, i have no idea on how to make him more talkative with all of us.

Please whisky saphie... Surely, i dont know you. I know you as saphie alias saphrina, a mylotter having 7288 posts till now and you live in South Africa ( not sure, you have out the right one or not). But i do believe that you are friendly. helpful and supportive. It makes me always angry when people try to judge someone, i often counter there saying that a judge(?) cant know 100% of someone so how a result can come out by judging. Dont try to judge me. hehehe. Take care.

This is mostly depend on person to person and in most of the cases, as and when time moves on they will keep intimacy and become known each other in many cases. But few people always keep some of their intimate personal things never keep disclosed to the partner until they feel secure. They presume that they will get misunderstood or they will get caught in the later part of their life. To avoid a chance for misunderstanding and not to lose the trust and confidence, they will keep such personal matter as confident for ever. This is more practical and people should act in such a way to avoid clash. If we don't know well about the other person, also it is not fair enough to disclose personal secrets to others. Again, keeping such personal matters as confidential is a kind of feeling that we can enjoy the secret as much we need and once it get disclosed, we never have supremacy on such things. Even you and me and everyone has such things and no need to worry for the same. It is everyone's own property.

I have to tend to agree with you, with family and loved ones I consider myself to be an open book. I personally consider myself to be very open and upfront with my feelings with my family, so like you said after so many years, they should understand me and know me, nothing I do or say should come to a surprise to them. Unfortunately for me I found out some pretty disappointing things about a few of my loved ones, which ended up badly and pretty much ruined a good majority of our relationship. It is sad to find out that when you think you know someone, their secrets can divestate a relationship. Unfortunately for us, our relationship has never been the same, the trust, love and respect that was once there no longer exists it was lost with their betrayal.

I don't think that we can ever know a person entirely especially if we are not with them everyday, if we are not spending time with them and if we just talk, chat, or see them a few times a week. its just not possible. Even wives and husbands get surprised when they discover something new about their partners...

No vodka for me. Got a Coke? With my headache I think the vodka would make it worse. ; ) I don't know how well I know the people around me. I think I do, but then again they don't know me that well either.

i don't think nobody knows who the real me is. Even I don't so how could they? but i'll probably be able to give a partial definition of 'me' after 3 shots of that vodka.

Sorry for my delay, hiccup! Sorry but you were the one who sent me all that vodka and you know us we will never say no to free vodka! Actually I have often believed that I know my boyfriend more then he knows himself. Somehow it is like I know what comes next and what doesn't. However, I am not really a mind reader so in all honesty, yes there are times he seizes to amaze me. So no I don't think we really know people as much as we think. I can be guilty of it also as I can have my days too that I seize to amaze others who thought they knew me well, heck I think at times I really don't know me either.

I think I will have to agree with this. There is nobody who can know another person totally. I think this is quite impossible. This is the reason why there is betrayal and traitors all around.

Hi! HAve you ever heard about the "juhari's window"?It tells us that there are 4 parts in our personality, one is something that we reveal to others,something that only ourselves know,something that only others know about us, and lastly something that we nor others know about ourselves.