It takes hundred of good deeds before we appreciate someone,but it takes only one error to hate him or her.

This is one reality about life and people around us. No matter how good and kind we are to them, with one mistake...everything is vanished in thin air. I remember one friend told me "it's better to say No when someone asks a favor, because, when you keep helping and time comes that you cannot help them anymore, you ended as bad" have a good day

I think that you're very right when you say this, and it is something that I have come across in my life many times so far. I once had a friend and we were best friends ever since we were about seven years old. However, she stole £20 from my Mum when we were both 14, and I have never been able to forgive her for that. My Mother stopped me from seeing her for a long time because she was worried about the fact that she might start to take other things from her, and I realised that she was right and I just couldn't trust her anymore.

IMO, it really depends on the degree of that "mistake" to completely erase all the good memories that connects two persons. Truly, trust cannot be asked, it is something that a person would "GIVE". And gaining a person's trust is no walk in the park. What more if you break that trust? "Regaining" it is way more too complicated. But if the mistake that was committed is just something silly, then it's kinda st*pid (sorry for the word) to throw away a good friendship just for that.

Doing error is human nature. A good friend is one who tolerates us when we do something wrong. I think your friend is having zero tolerance level. But I think she will realize that she is wrong and will come back to you.

Hello,ferbjohn! It never happened to me!But I can understand your sense!You should apologize for your error patiently because sometimes girls are always unruly!In fact,they aren't really angry with you! In other words,she should have excused you if she had cared about you unless you really hurt her deep down!In my poinion,good friends must be considerate of each other!

I think it's you felt she is your best friend. Because if she feels you are the best she rethink before she say good bye.

A lot of people focus on the single bad thing and not the many good things. This is true with our human relationships, and also with the way we view life itself. In many cases, we become used to the good treatment that an error which changes the way things are gives us distress. To continue our relationships, being able to forgive and forget is necessary.

yes a single and only one mistake can break relationships,however it needs many good works so tht we can appreciate or make a good relationship. So we should have lot of understanding and caring towards what we do,every single word that comes out shoudl be thought and then given out .We should not hurt any but we should not be hurt too. It is okay if she went off leave it,if u think of the past then you will no more do good for urself as u find that person in everone u meet and you become alone as u feel everyone will leave u like her.Jst go with the tide.Everything wil be fine.

It's natural because we are human.

You are not alone that experiencing this. Well I just hope that you two became friends again. I hope that she realize it. Maybe you two need some time to think and make some space before the two of you realized that both missing each other! Cheers!