Relationship Issues

@anjel016 (329)
Philippines
October 18, 2011 12:07pm CST
Okay so we have been together for more than 4 years now. But I can't really say that we are going "strong". Most of the time we fight even to the simplest thing as you can imagine. A simple message, missed calls, unheard words, etc. Anything can lit a fire between us. He's so possessive that everything I do, everything I say, he's watching! And man! I am so tired of it! Even my own attitude has been changed. Lately I get easily angered even to the smallest detail. Every actions that people do around me, I gave them my own interpretation. I am getting very impatient and getting more and more lazy! I just can't stand it anymore. But due to circumstances, I really don't have anyone to talk to nor ask for an advice in connection with my relationship. I'm really really quite confuse! I want to quit! But then, I don't.
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indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 11
A relationship will not run well, if the relationship was always stuck emotions. I can not give any advice, because my relationship with my husband is also not good. What can I do now, only succumb. Though sometimes, I am very tired to succumb. But, one among us, someone has to succumb. When, I succumb, sometimes my husband, also showed a sense of regret, although it did not last long. But, at least I avoid an argument.
anjel016
@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
It's kinda in a different level when you're already tied into marriage. There are more various circumstances that you have to consider before taking action. Based on your avatar, are you a Muslim? If yes, well I am not aware how things goes for you guys and I just have to keep myself shut to avoid any miscommunication with my words. In any case, thank you for your response. It was greatly appreciated.
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Yes. After I married, I should think, what I would do. Yes. I am a Muslim. But, I am someone who is not easily misunderstood. I appreciate, any opinions, or words of others.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
You need to have some bonding moments together. Why not have a date like you use to do when you were starting your relationship. I am sure there is some boredom and miscommunication between the two of you that flares fire with simple and petty things. Try to revive the love and lit the fire of romance once more.