What exactly you to be in your life???
By anusha2128
@anusha2128 (886)
India
October 19, 2011 8:38am CST
Hai friends..
What exactly you want to be in your life????
This question means a lot isn't it?
So i am giving some clarification regarding this..in which relationship you want to be in your life like a good son/daughter,good friend,good mom/dad etc..
In my case i want to be a good daughter,wife and a mother....
14 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
30 Oct 11
Hi anusha
I wanted to be a good grandchild and I am sorry that I could not live up to that one. Because when the time came, I had lost both my grandfather and grandmother. Never mind, life does go on. So then, I wanted to be a good husband and I am not sure yet whether I have been a good Husband for my wife. The reason for this is the fact that within a year of our marriage, I was bed-ridden and have not been on a regular job since then and am forced to stay indoors at home. I have started working from home with some local firms and even planned to start a small home based business. But I am sure, I will keep trying and someday, I will be a better husband coz I love my wife more than anyone else around.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
30 Oct 11
If i can say that "i want to be like this in my life", then the next day the entire situation will change. What we expect that may not be happens.
So i want to be as simple as possible.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
22 Oct 11
Hi anu!
I try my best to fit in the role in each and every relationship, be it as a son of my parents, be it as an elder brother to my younger brother, be it as a husband to my wife and as a father to my kids.
I know it is difficult to perform all the roles successfully, yet I try my best.
God knows how successfully I have been so far.
@LoliRuri23 (251)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
yeah, that question really entails a lot. But, I'm glad you clarified it. =)
We'll I would really like to be a good wife to my husband. And when we have kids (hopefully), I would like to be a good mom too. =)
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
19 Oct 11
I'd have to say I want to be a good everything. I'm a daughter, I'm a wife, I'm a mother and I'm a friend. I'd hope that in my life I mostly can be described at being good at all of them. I make mistakes, but I try hard and I care about all the people in my life.
@wmaths (563)
• Italy
19 Oct 11
well, i can say that i would like to become what i am studying for. I am at the unversity and I study Chemical Engineering. Now i am going to finish the first level degree. Moreover I also like writing so much, so that i do this in my spare time. I would also like to become a good writer!
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
19 Oct 11
Better of all I want to be good mother, who can protect, help and help grow up health and wise children. After I want to be good wife - beautiful, wise and wife with who husband can be proud.
I am bad daughter and bad sister, but I can't change, because I have family and family I need me, more than others... So sorry mom and sister
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Oct 11
I don't want to be anything to anyone I only want to be a good person in my own eyes and give myself a good life.
I learned that no matter how hard I try you can never make an unhappy parent happy or a complaining jerk a happy husband.
If I will ever be a great mom my kids will tell me one by one if they are adults (already 3 said I did a very good job so 2 more to go).
I don't care about being a good daughter or good wife or good mother the way you do, like making it my goal in life.
I want to be me! Just me that is way more important as playing roles, wearing a mask and doing as if and still feeling unhappy because I forget about myself and nobody thinks about me ever.
To my opinion a mother, father, child, husband, friend, neighbour should appreciate, love, like, respect you for the person you are. Not for the role you play.
@zuliadesmond (72)
• India
19 Oct 11
i frankly speaking want to become a person whomm everybody would look upto.I have worked hard in my life.In my earliar years as a child i was a introvert kind of person whoo remained at home all hte time and not used to get arround ,there were times when i use to wonder that what is my life ?
i didnt enjoy like other children did i didnt play ,just go to the school and come back then go to tutions then come back and sleep.This was my life there was a desire inside me to explore but was not fulfilled as i was not allowed to roam arround freely.Then i moved into hostel after school to do my graduation and it was like sudden jolt to my way of living ,I faced enormous pressure regading facing nwere and nwere situations and adjusting to them.At that time i decided that enough is enough i wudnt spoil my life and become someone really important whom would people point at and say "there is that person who have accomplished so much in life" and till now i am runing behing my aim and all my efforts are directed towards my self betterment.Its not that i am selfish but now i am getting my share of life enjoyment which i was deprived somehow but i must say that a lot have been acommplished and still there is alot to be accomplished further .............
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
I want to become a very good friend to :
my daughter
my husband
my parents
my brother
Not a mother to my daughter because ill be very strict on her
Not a wife to my husband because i might become possessive
Not a daughter to my parents because i might put my tantrums upon them
Not a sister to my brother because i might be jealous of what he have...
Want to become their very best friend so we can talk anything under the sun without hesitation and without anything to hide..