Would you trust someone you meet online?
By phillyguy
@phillyguy (3005)
Philippines
8 responses
@ankit_sharma (171)
• India
21 Oct 11
I read out the whole discussion and the comments posted here. And after reading all these comments i think i am gonna be the first different person here. So answer to this question from me is, it depends on person to person. Frankly speaking, i will trust them. But will not share any personal information with them till the time i don't get to know they are real. I have met thousands of people online and from those thousands people 10 of them are my really good friends since last 3 years. N i met them online only. We never knew each other. Tell me if i wouldn't had trusted them can they be my friends..? Now we talk on phone, we meet, we enjoy just like normal friends. So it depends on you how do you judge the person to whom you are talking. If you can't trust anyone then i guarantee you, you can never make friends. Whether it's on internet or it's a real life. See trust and believe are two different factors. Trust everyone but don't believe everyone. Believe them only when you feel they are real and they are worth your friendship. Not trusting anyone just because they can harm you is like not playing a match just because you will loose it. Atleast start playing it, make effort, make strategies, you have chance to win. But if you are not gonna play it there will be no chance. Same goes with this, Atleast trust them, try to know them, try to explore everything about them, may be that person could be worth your friendship. May be that person can be your best buddy. This can't happen if you don't trust them. Just be careful while sharing your personal information with them. That's it.
@ankit_sharma (171)
• India
23 Oct 11
Exactly, you are absolutely right. We should trust everyone but we should be careful while sharing our personal information.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Uhmm I think not everyone since some of the persons you meet online from the very beginning obviously have some agenda or bad plan that you can see on how they interact with you.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
As I say in one of my comment on someone's response a little trust wouldn't hurt because if you totally distrust all people no one would also trust you and as you point out it is impossible to make friends if you closed the door for trusting other so people
just need to be more careful and alert about everything.
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Nope, not that easy. Especially because everyone can fake their own information on internet. And anyway, there're several crimes happened here because of someone giving too much trust to person that they just know in internet. Various news had already reported it: a teenager being kidnapped and raped by a person that he just met on Facebook while they are meeting offline; and there're another bad news.
Better be more careful.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
I agree that its not easy to trust someone from the internet I myself don't trust someone i met in internet but i just can't understand why is it that there are still many people who get victimize by people whom they met online. it just means that there are still a lot of people who easily trust someone they met in internet and that should change i think
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Unfortunately, there're still much people that aren't realize the danger of internet and people around it . We have to keep spread the word, help them all to realize that it isn't THAT SAFE to trust people easily, especially on the internet - the area with high anonymity..
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Yeah that's the sad thing about the internet especially now that the internet users are getting younger and younger so it is so much easier for "bad guys" out there to find people they can victimized since young people are much easier to manipulate. Hope parents/guardians would guide youngsters much tighter when it comes to online activities that their children would get into
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
I don't give full trust to someone that I meet online. It's not so easy. Why? Its because I don't know them personally. I don't even know if their name posted online are real, their address, their info and many more. I know that not all who people online has a bad intention but its not so good to give your full trust to someone you have never met. Maybe that person wants something from you that's why he/she is pretending to be good and nowadays, I always heard news about crimes happened because of social networking sites like a girl meet up with the man she used to know online then she was raped. It also depends on the person who he/she is going to handle the situation but I will never give my hundred percent full trust to someone I dont' know personally. Anyway that's all. Happy mylotting. :D
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Good answer miss philippines! hehe I think you're from phils. too right? cause I think that incident happened in the philippines I heard it in the news too and a lot of incidents like this was shown in the news again and again I hope people would start to learn from it and stop trusting people they've met online so incidents like this would never happen again.
@ReViewMeMedia (3785)
• United States
20 Oct 11
I don't particularly trust people online. I would never give out my personal info because there are too many creepy people online and you never know when there's a bad person on the other end of the chatroom or whatever.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Yeah giving out personal info to people you meet online is a big no no. I've heard in the news that there is some incidents of identity thief which usually they get the persons info online then pretend to be that person to do some bad things
@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
It is hard to trust someone I meet online because I have heard many things about people being killed by people they knew online.
Maybe I will be generous when chatting with them or talking to them online,but if they asked me things like money or valuable belongings I will no more contact them.
It is really hard to trust someone online because they can easily run or hide when they did something wrong.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Definitely why would you trust someone asking you money. I can't believe there are still some people who gets manipulated to give money to people they met online without having a reasonable explanation.
@vasumathi (436)
• India
20 Oct 11
Generally we should not trust people whom we meet online. Because there are more possibilities that they can hide their original identity.
@sassygirlanne007 (4517)
• United States
20 Oct 11
I would treat them like an acquaintance, someone I know but not well, kinda like someone you meet riding the bus or at the gym. You might talk to them about basic things in your life but you wont get into deep personal information until you know them better.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
20 Oct 11
Really, I don't trust people that I have just met in real life for a long time. Or rather, I am going to give them a chance to prove themselves or not really prove themselves. I have been burned one time too many by people in real life to give my trust away the easily. They have to prove themselves. On the Internet, it is an entirely different ball game, because there are many more opportunities for deception to say the very least.
Are there trustworthy people on the Internet? Of course there are. However, just because you're paranoid, it doesn't mean that someone's not out to get you. I also like to keep my life on the Internet and my real life separate as possible. There are many friends in real life that I would never talk to on the Internet. And I'm certain that it would be different interacting with them online. There are many times where you cannot figure out the true intentions of a person online, not that it is much easier in real life.