Is there someone for all of us?

unfortunately, not every soul has a soulmate. not everybody will live to have a partner. some people are not 'destined' to be with a partner. it maybe frustrating or depressing but happiness is always a choice. as my son asked, "Ma, why do most people think that a single individual (not married) would not be or is not happy? That is not true at all for everybody."

It's destiny.I think. At the right time we met and will fell into love. The most urgent is to take the the most beautiful scenery,the deepest wound was the most real emotions!

Hi chiyosan! I always wonder if there really is one for each person. But when you think about it, there is not. Just look at the statistics, there are more females than males. There will always be someone who will age and die alone, to put it bluntly and insensitively. But then again, imploring the remaining romanticism in me lol, maybe there is one person for each of us and there's just this big chance that we don't find that person in our lifetime. And if we're given a chance to live again, we are also given a chance to find that person in that second lifetime.

There are still people who are living alone and they are better that way. I heard that each one of us have a designated partner that God gave us but some still remain single. Maybe they were not meant to be together in this world and they will meet each other in their life in heaven.

I think all of us are destined to meet the one that will truly make us happy. It is true for me. When i was young (in my high school and college years) I have never met anyone that that would become my girlfriend and eventually to share my life with. But during the time that I started working, there is someone that has captured my eyes and the rest as we say it is history. Now she is part of my life and we now have our own daughter.

Yes...I believe God has prepared someone for us...to be our partner in life...He will let us meet this person at the right time,place and moment...some get hurt or unhappy because God has always purpose on us...it could be to teach us of an important lesson that we must learn...or even make us strong persons to prepare us for His plan.

I think there is someone out there for everybody who deserves it. People who lie and cheat and do bad things in there life has someone out there for them but they probably will never meet them because of there bad choices or if they do meet them they wont get to stay with them because of the bad ways. But I think if you are a good person the one will find you someday, it might not be today or tomorrow but you will find them when the time comes.

In my own belief, I agree. I am sure that there is always someone meant for us. Anyway, about what you've said that why are there couples who are happy and why there are not, I can only say that maybe they're not compatible with each other but they love each other. I have some friends who has their partner. Some are happy but some are not. Another reason maybe why some are not happy is because the love is not there and its slowly fading. Well, for me no matter what happens as long I'm with my love I will always be happy so I guess its the feeling that is not that strong that makes them an unhappy couple.

I think mine is yet to be born. Those who remained single through out their lives were destined to be that way. I disagree with the notion that when we fail to get what we want in life, we blame fate or destiny. I do accept the fact that there are circumstances in our lives that are beyond our control, no matter how strong-willed we are.

Yeah, I believe there is someone for all of us. And why do much people seems never found one? Because life isn't only about destiny, it is also about our choices and efforts. Or let's say, destiny exists at the end of person's efforts. Never blame the destiny/fate if you haven't found one; just always give your best efforts. Because by the time you blame the destiny, actually you already "make" a choice to keep your life stagnant and you "decide" that indeed that's how life works for you. And as a result, till the end you haven't met someone..