is the feeling gone???or i just miss her??

Do you really want this relationship to grow, become stronger and more serious? What are you doing about this? Is she doing anything about it? Distance relationships are different and harder to keep. The feeling of being in love was a real feeling or just something that passes in a couple of months?

I think its not really easy to maintain long distance relationship.Looks like spark in your relationship is gone.

It sounds to me that you miss her a whole lot and still care for her very much! Perhaps she has moved on and is just being obligatory at this point? it sounds like she still likes to talk to you some like a friendship but she is has moved on...so sorry that you are hurt.

Hello. :-) I have been in this situation. My husband were like you and your girlfriend even if we were apart then. Through text and phone calls we manage to keep the love burning until one day something really bad happened that change everything. I found out he was lying to me about things. From then on, I started treating him coldly because I no longer trust his words even if he says I love you and I miss you,I no longer respond. I was resenting him.. And because he hurt me, I wanted him to always make the first move. But then he got a bit busy and the text and phone calls became seldom. Once a day during night time when he is in bed and about to sleep... Like you, I don't feel anything when talking to him anymore. I still love him but the warmth is no longer there. And you know what, I realized that it is just pride...If you want to make it work, reach out to your girl. Love begets love, remember?

What wonders me most is that I only read she is sweet, she is saying sweet things to you, she is calling you, she tells you everything, she asks you how your day was. Where exactly is the part you are sweet? You are attentive? You ask her how her day was? You tell her everything? Also very interesting I do find your point on view if it comes to your arguments and you saying it was because of HER attitude! Excuse me HER attitude? You must find yourself a really great person that everything that is going wrong in your relationship is her fault. I have not read 1 singel word about your part in this relationship. A relationship 2 people have together, you both have to make compromises and give in once in a while. That is how it works mostly since it's rare you find a partner who is exactly a copy of yourself. Sounds to me your girlfriend is bored by you, telling you each day what she did and asking you how your day was. Being sweet whole time but not really being accepted for who and what she is. So she found something else to do and yes at the end of the day she is tired. She needs something else to keep her mind busy and to fill her life with. Just you is not enough anymore. And I can tell you that if you would have a normal relationship with real dating and spending time together it would go like that too. People need a place and some space and a part of life alone. Each day telling what you did is not about showing interest anymore but about control. You say you feel nothing anymore if you talk, if that is so you surely don't miss her so much as you say. That doesn't make sense. The only thing you miss is someone who gives you all the attention you need. Ps Attention is not the same as love.

I don't really know. You're the only person who can answer that. You're the only one who knows how you truly feel. I was kind of shocked when I read that she's addicted to online games because usually it's the guys who are addicted to that. Well, all I can say is that you have to talk to her and tell her how you really feel about what's going on. You should tell her about how you think the relationship is going between the two of you.

Sometimes "absence makes the love grow stronger,"...and sometimes looking at things from afar...gives one the ability to see the big, big picture..the all encompassing picture, and see things with more clarity! Sometimes that big picture reveals things we were not aware of when we were up close, and things we don't like. I am sorry, for you, that there is now some flaws that you are seeing, and feeling, and may be a mixed blessing, to warn you that this is maybe a relationship that you truly do not want to invest your heart in! There are many possibilities...but now is the time to work them out!

Hmm.. though I do not have the exact experienced you had, I still want to comment on this post. I don't know, I think I can relate to it slightly. Well, I think I also miss somebody. But it does not come to a point that I want to get him as my close friend again. Well, I just miss the times that I get to be excited on opening my facebook because I got to chat with him. Everything is different right now. And I am ok with it. Anyhow, regarding your question, for me.. since I know somehow the feelings of a girl. Well, I think she's not into you that much already. Sorry if I am too judgmental or jumping immediately to conclusion or even too frank. Well, that's only my opinion. I think what you are feeling right now is just the result of your recent status now. Maybe the feelings have just gone because of the fact that you really missed her so much. You really missed the times that you are both inlove with each other. Maybe long distance relationship is not really good. Well, again this is only based on my opinion.

OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.....I Don't believe in long distance relationship,never will.Most of the time human emotions or feelings of being IN LOVE is often mistaken for what it's not......communication is the key to a good and long lasting relationship,and by the look of it you clearly falls short on the matter,by doubting not only her but also yourself.

Don't worry if it is simple misunderstanding because of her work load. why don't you try to live together.Otherwise talk to her directly what has happened between them in my opinion if it is good or bad we have speak and clear it at the earliest.