single forever?
By Greninee
@Greninee (369)
Philippines
October 20, 2011 9:02pm CST
I wonder why ever since no one really courted me or has even crush on me...is there something wrong in me? i just wonder.
13 responses
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Well ,maybe just no one yet.So maybe just wwait because one day you will have crush .And maybe there i crush on and you just not know and you are blinded tto know about it..
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
I mean you just not know it..You will just know later if someone will tell you that there is crush on you..
Even me before in my experience, i even not know that someone crush on me and just told by friend..
@insanealan (191)
• India
21 Oct 11
Life is full of surprises.. You never know what is gonna happen the next moment and it is that suspense that make your life enjoyable..So dont be so sad may be there is someone who is gonna court you or love you the next day or next week or next month.. Nothing is destined and may be true love never exist.. But even the thought that you can get your love of life the next second makes your life beautiful...
Anyway being single has its own advanatges..You are free to do anything in this world.. You are the master and you are the servant.. you never have to be conscious about yourself and others..You are always happy and can indulge in any activities you like...
@lilblondiemjd (857)
• United States
21 Oct 11
There is nothing wrong with you. I am assuming you're young? Many people assume there is nobody out there for them way too fast. You still have time! Just as everyone else does. Are you outgoing? The only thing that could be wrong is that maybe you do not approach men as much as you could be. Then again, men approach women a lot. I really don't think it's anything wrong with you. I just think it isn't your time yet. When you find the right one, you'll know it was worth the wait! Or so I've been told...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
21 Oct 11
Is there something wrong with you? Do you look different or do you behave differently?
How do you know nobody ever had a crush on you? Not everybody who has will tell it to you also. Perhaps there are people who but you don't know how to recognize these signs. And if you respond on them (the signs you don't recognize that way) you give the false sign/respond back and people back off.
Try to observe others, look at couples. They are surely not all very handsome/beautiful, there are also ones with very bad character/behaviour and not everybody is very rich. They all find someone. If you look at all those people would you like that person to have a crush on you? Or are you more picky? Try to discover what exactly make people find someone else attractive. I can tell you already that it is not someone with less self esteem and negative, depressing attitude.
Start making yourself happy, start shining so people notice you and know what you want and are looking for.
@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
:-)...Okey my friend,..I will take your advice,thank you so much. But to tell you, I'm just wondering...but i'm not depressed.Funny that I think of this. I have lots of friends including men...but i can tell that no one had ever crush on me because it is what i feel:-). perhaps i just need to focus on more productive activities. Thank you.
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
I think there is nothing wrong with you, because i believe that true love is not to be found, it is given at the right place and at the right time. Maybe, it is not really your time to meet your true love. I felt that feeling before, I have no boyfriend until I finished my college, but after college, I met a man, that became my first boyfriend and husband. I never look for him but he came.. So don't think that you will be single forever...maybe, it is not yet the time for you to meet the guy that is meant for you.. be happy being single and enjoy it! For it will never last!
@SwordsPlay (34)
• United States
2 Nov 11
Are you a man or a woman? The answer will depend on which gender you are.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Try to have social time for yourself so they will noticed you and make friends. I know that no one is wondering why they are still single at that time. Try to have more activities that makes you happy outside your door. But be sure that it is for good reason and purpose. Always smile and be friendly. But i didnt said you are not friendly my friend... Always carry with yourself the magic of your smile....
@insanealan (191)
• India
21 Oct 11
Life is full of surprises.. You never know what is gonna happen the next moment and it is that suspense that make your life enjoyable..So dont be so sad may be there is someone who is gonna court you or love you the next day or next week or next month.. Nothing is destined and may be true love never exist.. But even the thought that you can get your love of life the next second makes your life beautiful...
Anyway being single has its own advanatges..You are free to do anything in this world.. You are the master and you are the servant.. you never have to be conscious about yourself and others..You are always happy and can indulge in any activities you like...
@sunli123 (538)
• China
21 Oct 11
I guess for most of single people, this is the problem of the life circle. Just work, home, work and home everyday. How could we meet new people? So try to be more involved in social activities and you might meet the right person.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
22 Oct 11
May be yu are single now but you will get the correct person when you deserve it...All the best in your life friend..
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Good pm. .maybe there's just afraid to tell their feelings to you . .Just smile cost smile costs nothing . .Or maybe the right guy is not yet there . .just wait for the right time . .If your still young then maybe its not yet your time. . )
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
may you just don't socialize more to other people..try to meet new people..but only to those who can be trusted..and make yourself more presentable..you don't need to be beautiful and sexy or any other physical aspects others prefer..just be presentable..and always be yourself.. :)